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“Everything You Need to Have a Great Social Life. You Will Know It All: Get the Girl, Get the Promotion, Have Great Friends…”
Hi, my name is Scott Lee. Up until about junior year of high school, I had a really tough time trying to figure out how to really interact with people. Wait, scratch that. I didn’t have a rough time trying, I had a rough time flat out not trying. I was what many people would consider sort of anti-social - I didn’t like people and many of them also didn’t like me.
Before you get all depressed, let me also say that I did have some of my own friends, my own close social circle of people that I liked and fit in with. But that was high school, that was everybody. Once you get out into the real world, the whole situation changes, and suddenly you are expected to know exactly what to do about living a great life. If your parents supposedly did their job, then somehow you would do all that stuff that everyone talks about: get your career, get married, have a family, buy a house.
You’re supposed to have a great life, and it’s as simple as that.
But there’s a part of the world population that not many people typically talk about. I refer to those alien creatures that the socially educated might call: the Shy! But seriously - shyness is not something that is just exclusive to those who are mentally impaired. Shyness can overwhelm and overtake even the most intelligent people on the planet. For some of us, we do not consider ourselves shy at all, but maybe when it comes to those interactions with the opposite sex we just never know what to do with ourselves.I can still remember the very first girl I ever had a crush on in elementary school. It was in 4th grade. I used to do that little thing where you stare at a girl for a really long time, she eventually notices, and then when she turns to look at you, you look away. No, I wasn’t looking at you! I would panic. Sitting at my desk near the door, she was literally across the room, completely uninvolved with what it was I was doing. She had no clue who I was, other than that I was some boy in her class.
Normally, this is the part where in this little story I move on to explain some more events that took place where I somehow overcame my panic state and was able to “win her over.” Well, being the confused child I was, it didn’t happen. Instead I approached her one day in the library during a book fair and, on the verge of a heart attack, barely got to mutter the words, “…Do you like me?” The girl did not even make eye contact with me, and replied, “As a friend, sure.” My heart sunk and I felt like my world was over.
Now this might be a story you smile at. Maybe you can relate to it yourself. Did you know that so many guys all over the globe are not in 4th grade, but they’re 25, 30, even 35 years old and are still having the same thing happen to them? Why the heck do guys get so insanely nervous?
Girls certainly have a different situation. Everyone seems to assume that girls should know what to do, and that guys are easy to come by. There is also that double standard of western society to work against - if you’re a girl and you’re chasing guys you’re a slut, if you’re a guy and you’re chasing girls you’re a stud. Well, wouldn’t it be nice if girls knew the best possible ways to work around those double standards, those obstacles, and find their Mr. Right?
In this book, you will learn everything you need to know to not just get a great girlfriend or boyfriend, but for that special person to get you.
The way we all communicate is through language. We need to figure out the right things to say if we want to get anywhere, and if we really want to get where we want, we need to know the exact things to say. Many of us also know the truth when it comes to love and romance: pick up lines don’t work, and neither does poetry. All of that stereotypical stuff that we see in movies and read in books is, hands down, not the way it is. If we actually went chasing after our lover in the rain when they got angry at us and left, we’d seem like we’re desperate and psychopathic more often than we’d seem like we’re actually in love with them!
I’m a guy who tries as hard as he can to seek out a life of wealth. Wealth does not just consist of money, though, like you might assume, wealth is a word that really equates to a number of areas. To truly be wealthy, we need to be healthy physically & mentally, we need to have sufficient money to live comfortably, and we need to have good relationships with other people. But when you think about it, it does not seem to be any big secret that each of those areas can really relate to the other. If you do not have money, you can’t go out to meet anybody. If you have a great visual appearance and are very healthy, it won’t matter to finding love because your looks only count for so much. The list of the troubling and frustrating relationships can go on and on.
And when it comes to money, what’s the number one most important thing that the ordinary population looks to when they are seeking to get more money? The very first place they would probably think of, is moving up in their job, right? Everyone would love to get promoted and to get more money. Well, how many people do you know have tried to get promoted by being friendly with their boss or even just working tons of extra hours…and nothing comes out of it? Maybe you’re one of those very people yourself. The fact of the matter is, there is a very simple, easy way to go about getting promoted with nothing more than your own words and body language that most people will never know about and never experience for themselves.
Maybe what you’re looking for is to use your own social skills to get more money, and to get that promotion you’ve been dreaming of.
Some people don’t even care about money, and over time I’ve increasingly not cared about money. After over 3 years of working a low paying job, something else kicks in. You begin to notice the people you’re with. One of my friends I actually met randomly at a lunch table by approaching the table as a complete stranger. It’s interesting how when people are approached by someone they don’t know that well, they tense up, and they get that deer-in-the-headlights look. But the fact of the matter is, getting people to feel comfortable with you, even when you don’t know them, isn’t actually something that is, or should be, that hard to do. If you want to make some friends, have a seat and start talking!
Of course, there’s a bit of a problem, isn’t there? How do you have a seat? How do you start talking and what on earth do you say? It isn’t always that simple, and if you mess up you run the risk of having an entire group of people look at you like you’re some kind of a weird creep. In fact, if you’ve tried to break out of your shell before, if you’ve tried to make a big difference in your social life before and this is the place you had to start with because there was no other choice, you may have experienced the exact same thing! I know I certainly have.
In fact, it took me a very long time to get past the entire process of having people give me that deer-in-the-headlights look, as they call it. I had to try for ages before I finally figured out the key things I was really doing wrong, and after that - I knew how to sit down with people I hardly knew and talk to them as if I was talking to an old friend. Often, many of those same people hang out with me to this day.
Imagine what it would be like to be able to explore the depth that other people you hardly know have to offer…
The last several years of my life has been spent studying social psychology, and it has paid off. When I set out to write this book, I had no idea what I was really getting myself into. This project has become something so much more than just simply writing a book about how to have a better social life…I quickly realized that this book could change a life. And I know this because the information that I had to put down on paper for this comes from my own personal experience combined with research that took literally years to fully explore. Not only did I look into textbooks, audio programs, films, and even spend several nights out to test these concepts - I’ve looked into some of the deepest, most well kept secrets of social psychologists. For me, it wasn’t so easy.
After I got past the constant anxiety and nervousness of really experiencing what people out there have to offer, my outlook has changed. When you set out to get to know people and to immerse yourself in culture, you gain so much more than what is just the obvious. You experience something a lot more special - a completely new perspective and outlook on how to view people, their thoughts, and I would go so far as to say how to even view life itself. My experience with people has literally been that profound for me. And now, I want to share my body of knowledge with you, because I know that when I was in that state years ago, I was not alone.
Because it is very important to me that I be able to help you and give you something of true value, I’m going to offer this to you as an instant download. You can get started right now, and start seeing an improvement in your life in as little as 24 hours. This special eBook is available to you for $39.99. Just one payment of $27!
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