Social Anxiety Fix
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Dear Suffering Friend,
You have spent enough time being swallowed whole by the crushing jaws
of social anxiety, it is time for you to take action – and start
feeling comfortable in your own skin no matter what social setting you
find yourself in. It really is possible and I’M GOING TO SHOW YOU
HOW RIGHT NOW.
Whatever good fortune has led you to this page will change the course
of your life forever.
This is coming from first-hand experience and I really don’t want
you to miss out on this information. It would be like surrendering
yourself willingly to social anxiety and being held captive by this
mental monster.
SO, LISTEN UP.
If you want to overcome your social anxiety and really maximize your
potential with confidence and success then you should continue reading
this letter and not miss the opportunity of a LIFETIME.
That’s right, you’re about to be transformed into a proverbial
social butterfly by the weekend!
And the kicker? YOU’LL ACTUALLY LOOK FORWARD TO BEING IN SOCIAL
SETTINGS.
Before we go any further though, let me just introduce myself. My
name is Jason Ellis and I have dealt with severe social anxiety for
most of my adult life.
It took me 11 years to learn what I’m about to teach you in the
next 24 hours and MY STORY IS LIKELY SIMILAR TO YOURS.
Sad stories of my social anxiety have littered my life as far back as
I can remember. This condition isolated me from having longstanding
relationships with friends women and even family.
Prior to discovering the strategies that you’re about to learn I
would run from life, scared and hopeless about ever finding a solution
to this problem.
I remember vividly, backing out of attending my sisters surprise 30th
birthday party. My parents had planned the party for months and had
close to 100 people committed to attend.
This image was a NIGHTMARE for me wrap my head around.
I couldn’t bear the thought of the conversations that would make me
squirm with awkwardness and the struggle I would face of stares from
people I didn’t know.
Gatherings and opportunities like this became situations to avoid. I
was actually in the habit of trying to figure out how I could get out
of invitations that came up in life.
Dealing with the dynamics of social interaction were not only a big
headache but also a huge blow to my self-esteem, because I knew I
simply couldn’t handle the pressure.
It took me so long to even build up the courage to start dating on my
own. I mean, dating? A person? Really? The mere thought made it seem
like climbing mount everest.
But somehow, I built up enough courage to allow my sister, yes, the
same one that I let down, to set me up with a friend of a friend.
This was basically one of my first dates in my adult life and just to
cut to the chase, it went horribly wrong…and really, I’m not being
too critical here when I say IT WAS ALL MY FAULT.
This woman, who’s name I’ll leave out, was someone I had prized
at work for several years and I never had the self-confidence to tell
her. She seemed to like me, but I could always talk myself out of that
assumption and did with her on many, many occasions.
Finally, one day a mutual friend (who also knew my sister) took it
upon himself to devise a plan with my Sis to set us up on a date.
As a social anxiety sufferer, you would think I would immediately be
terrified at the thought of the event – and that’s the best word
for it. It didn’t feel like a date so much as an EVENT.
Strangely, a kind of numbness took over. See at first I was
surprisingly ecstatic about the whole prospect for days leading up to
it, and then the anxiety started to kick in when I woke up the morning
of the date.
CONSTANTLY THROUGHOUT THE DAY I TALKED MYSELF OUT OF GOING.
My sister was totally my coach throughout the whole day, egging me on
and trying to build up my confidence.
I was so indecisive over the whole thing. It took me almost the
entire week leading up to the date to find a suitable restaurant.
And what I would wear? I was so lost and so BAD at this whole thing
that I must have tried on 15 different outfits that morning. It took
me so long to get settled with what I would wear, I made myself 30
minutes late to pick her up at her home.
After finally picking her up we began the drive to go to dinner and I
could tell I wasn’t doing well already. I couldn’t bring myself to
look her in the eye because I was too self-conscious and I struggled
to start or continue any conversation that we began. Then it was time
to sit down for dinner, which was even worse.
My struggles at dinner included not being able to decide what to eat
for a long period of time - that bordered on bizarre.
Once I finally was able to decide what to eat I struggled until the
food arrived thinking about how I was going to eat in front of herthis
nearly made me shake with fear. Turns out, I couldn’t eat in front
of her and that only made things worse.
Conversation was almost non-existent, eye-contact was not in the
cards and I wasn’t lifting a fork or spoon to begin eating.
We just sat there…in cold, dead and unending silence until she was
done (in more ways than one) and the check came.
Without even thinking about it I simply drove her home and said good
night. As she entered her apartment I watched as my HOPES AND DREAMS
FOR US TOGETHER DISAPPEARED INTO THE NIGHT.
Work became extremely uncomfortable after this date and I considered
finding another job just to escape…
I knew I needed to find a different way of living but just didn’t
know how. It was then that I discovered the very first secret to
overcoming this problem of social anxiety and it may sound
oversimplified but ITS TRUTH IS INFINITE.
The thing that got me off my butt and started making a dent in my
social anxiety was the one thing that not only got the ball rolling
but also began an avalanche of progress in my social life.
I made the conscious decision to do something about my anxiety and
from then on, I kept that goal in front of me and put in the work to
make it happen.
I worked for years to improve my anxiety and become more confident. I
spoke with therapists and counselors, downloaded ebooks and took
courses online.
And do you know what I discovered?
THERE’S SO MUCH FLUFF OUT THERE!
A lot of what is being taught is all great in theory but becomes more
and more intangible – in practice. The real solution to social
anxiety comes from participating in actionable exercises that you can
put into practice right out of gate in any social setting.
So, after sifting through all information out there, I was able to
consolidate the lessons that truly made a different and apply only the
tactics that packed the biggest punch. What I learned over those years
CAN BE TAUGHT IN LESS THAN A DAY if you are willing to commit to
overcoming your social anxiety and put in the work.
Now, I want to make something clear here.
This opportunity to learn these coveted techniques is NOT AVAILABLE
ANYWHERE ELSE. You could search the internet and all of the libraries
and bookstores of the world and nothing…NOTHING, will be this
comprehensive, this detailed, this concentrated and this successful.
But before we get into it all, you have to take the very first step
towards social anxiety recovery.
This is mandatory in order to move forward. YOU NEED TO MENTALLY
COMMIT TOWARDS THIS GOAL.
Otherwise, it becomes too easy to chicken out and continue to delay
your life. – and I’m talking about a life where you’re not only
happy but eager to meet and connect with people around you.
It’s a more positive outlook on the world and every morning becomes
filled with optimism for the day ahead.
Aren’t you tired of being pushed aside by the more gregarious, more
boisterous people in social situations? Wouldn’t it be nice to
effortlessly be the life of the party instead of the one sitting
quietly in the corner?
And this all comes with a mindset of actually enjoying the limelight
instead
of being terrified by it.
Stepping out at parties and having conversations with strangers is
impossible, approaching the opposite sex isn’t even fathomable. Why
is that? It’s because you’ve let the cycle continue on this way.
And, it is a cycle, one that feeds upon itself until you break the
chain and follow a different path, a new way of thinking.
Your life doesn’t have to be as lonely and isolated as it is
because you have the opportunity to make a change now. I know how you
are feeling; I realize that you spend a lot of time by yourself
because you are scared to spend it with anyone else.
I’ve been there. And I’m talking to you from the other side of
that place. Let me tell you, life is great once you can wrangle this
problem. And the solution is so close that you’re literally moments
away.
I’VE COMPLETELY BROKEN DOWN THE STEP BY STEP INSTRUCTION FOR ENDING
SOCIAL ANXIETY THROUGH A SYSTEM I’VE CREATED, SIMPLY TITLED
“SOCIAL ANXIETY FIX”.
This system is a paint by numbers process that takes the confusion
out of social anxiety and simply shows you what to do with
hand-holding coaching and an easy to follow formula.
With 11 life-transforming videos, a comprehensive eBook and 12
corresponding MP3s you will no doubt reach a level of social
confidence in that you’ve never experienced before in 24 hours.
My “Social Anxiety Fix” will allow you to overcome your social
anxiety with easy to understand coaching methods that have been honed
by me…a real social anxiety survivor!
SO WHAT IS “SOCIAL ANXIETY FIX”?
I’ve developed 11 videos that will walk you through the process of
overcoming your social anxiety by attacking the primary components of
this disorder piece by piece.
You will be ready to walk confidently into work, out in public, at
parties, on dates, approach the opposite sex for conversation,really
any kind of social scenario possible.
The skillsets, strategies and systematic gameplan for social anxiety
is applicable universally so
Yes, even you.
Here’s a very quick breakdown of some of the things you’ll be
learning.
HOW THE PSYCHOLOGY OF SOCIAL ANXIETY KEEPS YOU UNCOMFORTABLE. You've
just begun the journey to overcoming social anxiety and this
introduction shows you how POSSIBLE it truly is.
The simple gesture of committing to this goal drives you to see it to
the finish line where you can confidently face the world and love the
skin you're in.
Welcome to the program that will unlock your true potential and get
you involved in life again - instead of just going through the motions
and avoiding situations that drive your fear.
HOW TO DEAL WITH REJECTION. That’s probably a major conscious and
subconscious blocker for you on some level. Here I take all the risk
off your shoulders and give you the mindset to face social obstacles
with enthusiasm.
It's and easy way to engage others uninhibited, allowing for the best
version of yourself to shine through. You gotta get in the game to
lose the phobia that paralyzes you socially. This lesson gives you
that courage.
HOW TO STOP WORRYING WHAT OTHERS THINK. This really gets you out of
your own head so to speak. It's amazing how often you'll sabatoge your
own social success with negative misperceptions.
This lesson is a valuable insight into the paranoia that social
anxiety can create and it clears your head and heart so that you can
give and receive love with others in conversation and meaningful get
togethers.
By pushing your worry aside, your can simply be in the moment and
feel proud of everything you say, do and feel.
FOR THE FIRST TIME EVER YOU’LL GAIN CONVERSATIONAL CONFIDENCE.
This will turn you into a conversational player and what I mean by
that is, you’ll always have something to talk about, something
unique, something that really interests the other person.
This easily applies to ever single social interaction possible. And
the reason this works so well is because this shows you what confident
people in general do without even realizing it.
You'll actually be the charming guy or girl in the room and please
others with a personality that radiates kindness and thoughtless joy
for the present moment.
I’LL GO OVER WORKPLACE ANXIETY. Let me ask you, have you ever just
wanted to look straight down the entire day, not making eye contact
with ANYONE? I’ve been there, this works.
I show you how to actually enjoy work MORE. Social interaction or
not, this will ease your overall vibe of every single day.
This improved my life 10 fold and it’ll do the same for you,
particularly if you work in an office setting.
JOB INTERVIEWS. Let me just say that job interviews are easily the
pinnacle of social pressure – particularly if you really want the
job. I mean, you’re being analyzed, purposely for a long time.
It’s your job to impress them and make them love you. This used to
make me twinge just thinking about the situation. Not after I learned
the lessons here.
This lesson is particularly good for training your anxiety for those
in the limelight situations.
I’LL RETURN TO THE ROOTS OF MY DATING DISASTER and show you what
set me on track and led me to the amazing wife and kids I have today.
Dating is easier than you realize. However, that initial rush of
adrenaline from social anxiety when dating is enough to derail you
before the date even happens.
Here, I break down the formula to a fun, successful date that you can
walk away from feeling good. Even if it's not a love connection, this
lesson sets you up to make the most of your date and really put your
best foot forward.
I’LL TALK ABOUT PARTIES AND GATHERINGS. Here, I focus on larger
type situations parties, concerts, weddings, birthdays.
This is really a game changer and allows you to keep in touch with
people through get togethers. I haven’t missed any more birthday
parties since applying these strategies.
Don't make up another excuse to get out of a social gathering again.
Here I'll show you how to blend in, make friends and approach others
with gusto.
FAMILY GATHERINGS WILL BE WAY LESS STRESSFUL and you’ll discover
how to deal with relatives that get on your nerves or throw you into a
more anxious state.
This makes holidays a LOT more enjoyable and calms your senses.
You can find ways to stay with company and pleasantly distract
yourself to avoid controntation that requires some type buffer. You'll
understand exactly what I mean by this as I provide step by step
examples.
OVERCOME THE PHYSICAL SYMPTOMS OF SOCIAL ANXIETY. The shaking, the
shrill voice, the racing heart, nervous sweating, stuttering,
difficulty swalling and adrenaline blasting through your veins.
Any of this sound familiar?
This section is like mental martial arts the way is defends you.
You’re going to love it.
