“How To Avoid Social Humiliation/Rejection, Have Amazing Conversation, And Make 10x More Friends”
If You Want The Exact Steps To Having Conversations That Make Women Call You Back To Hang Out, Have 10x More Friends In Your Social Circle, Consistently Get Invited To Parties, Get-Togethers And Other Social Events Then This Will Be The Most Important Letter You Ever Read…
Dear Friend Who Wants Social Success And More Friends,
Have you ever had this happen to YOU?
Have you ever had a good conversation with people you thought were friends and when you walked away you can hear them snickering and laughing at you? Do you become self-conscious and stilted at social gatherings because other people ignore you? Have you ever been in a situation where there’s a girl you like and some guy deliberately embarrasses you. And you see that look come over her eyes that makes you realize she probably sees you as a loser? Do you find that your friends conveniently aren’t around when you need them the most? Do you feel like others have all the power and choice when it comes to social situations like making friends and going out with others…and you have little or none? Do you wish you knew how to stop jerks in their tracks whenever they have fun at your expense? Do you hate the idea of admitting to others that you feel insecure about this area of your life, and you really wish you could do it yourself? Do you get really freaked out when others become upset or dramatic at you…and not know what to do? Would you Really like to have exceptional friends…who don’t use others…and who are there when you need them? Have you ever felt like NOTHING you ever do will change your situation and you should just accept it? Would you like to have really outgoing, fun friends who are social and outgoing, but have no idea how to connect with them? Or do you already have success in this area to some extent, but you’d like to take it to the next level RIGHT NOW and start having more consistent results?
If you answered “YES!” to any of these questions, then I have some important news for you…
You’re NOT alone. In fact, that list of questions came from my own personal experince and from learning about this area of my life for myself.
The Bottom Line Is This…
NOT having friends and feeling uncomfortable in social environments sucks!
It makes you feel out-of-place, left out and lonely.
It leaves you feeling like you have no power in your life.
It takes over your thoughts where you can’t focus on your job or other areas of your life. It overpowers everything else…
On the other hand…
KNOWING how to fit in, make friends effortlessly and handle bullies feels AMAZING.
It feels good going into a social setting, walk right up to the people who invited you and start a conversation where everyone likes you.
It feels good knowing how to be the guy who gets invited everywhere, where people have to PERSUADE you to lose sleep and come hang out with them.
It just feels good knowing how to make friends.
Most Shy Guys Never Figure Out What It Takes To Become Socially Savvy. They Try The Same Things Over And Over Again…And Fail
Let me tell you a true story about who I am and my life when I was shy, introverted and left-out guy that no one liked.
When I was growing up my father kept a tight leash around me to keep any outsiders from influencing me.
What that means is I wasn’t allowed to have friends because they’re “ALL BAD INFLUENCE”
I went to school, came home, got math tutored and next day went back to school.
"I Had No Friends"
My mother picked out my clothes and made sure it DIDN’T fit in with the mainstream crowd…because if it did in her words I’d become ‘corrupt’.
Her idea of style is what people wore back in her days.
When I argued …I was guilt tripped and she literally said:
“I’m Using My Hard Earned Money To Buy You This, You Should Appreciate It.”
As you have guessed we were also very poor.
"I Had Serious Lack Of Confidence"
I managed one or two friends and mostly talked to them over the internet.
School…
In Fact! People hated me in school because I was "odd" and "different".
I hated them for labeling me that…But deep inside I wanted to be accepted.
Fast Forward After College...
I was still much of the same person.
I told myself I’ll build a career and hold out on the fun that everyone else is having…so I can reap the benefits later.
"I Knew That's Just A Lame Excuse I Made For Myself."
Everyone else was doing fine.
In fact some of them even had better careers…
It-drove-me-insane and I didn’t know what to do to make my social life better, how do I escape the wall of loneliness?
And then something changed.
I met this girl…
She was HOT.
The type who had all the attention, guys chasing her, always out…
Me I basically had no friends, no weekend life, none of that stuff.
We went on a date and for the most part it went pretty well.
We sat down and I thought about when I’d see her next and suggested “Hey next time we can go to Symposium Caf
