Long Distance Love - Here's The Plan When You're Apart
“I TOOK HUNDREDS OF HOURS OF RESEARCH working with real couples and
created a powerful,
step-by-step “Communication Blueprint” that FIRES-UP your
passion… SUPERCHARGES
your love… AND MELTS THE MILES BETWEEN YOU.”
If you’re ready to ELIMINATE the anxiety, self-doubt, loneliness,
and
FEAR that DESTROYS LONG-DISTANCE RELATIONSHIPS AND BEGIN A FUN NEW
LIFE TOGETHER, THEN READ ON...
Dear Friend,
IT’S BRUTAL!
You’re in a wonderful relationship. You have so much in common. And
you can’t wait to be with each other next.
One small problem: You’re HUNDREDS, even THOUSANDS of miles
apart!
ARGH!
Whether it’s school… jobs… family... WHATEVER… the annoying
fact remains: YOU CAN’T BE WITH EACH OTHER!
Yet, you LOVE this person. You’re convinced they’re WORTH WAITING
FOR. And you’re confident that you can make it work. (Although
sometimes a little doubt might creep in.)
Still, you’re likely experiencing a CRAZY ROLLER COASTER of
emotions!
YOU ARE NOT ALONE!
Millions of people in LDR’s (Long Distant Relationships) feel just
like you do right now, both men AND women!
For example…
… DO YOU FEEL so anxious and desperate to see and talk to your
partner that when you get together—after weeks or months apart—you
find yourself saying stupid, uptight things that just drive him or her
away?
… DO YOU FEEL so _needy_ or _dependent _on your partner for YOUR
emotional well-being… that it makes them want to _run_ away?
… DO YOU FEEL like your _emotions_ start to go CRAZY at even the
THOUGHT of your love spending time and enjoying himself without you…
around other members of the opposite sex?
… DO YOU FEEL overjoyed to see your partner again… then find
yourself fighting and bickering over stupid little things?
… DO YOU FEEL sometimes that you wish you never got emotionally
attached… and maybe it would be easier to just walk away than try to
overcome your doubts and fears?
… DO YOU FEEL so lonely sometimes that you think about hooking up
with that attractive man or woman—just this one time! –then beat
yourself up mentally for days or weeks after?
HAVE YOU EVER HAD ANY OF THESE FEELINGS? I bet you have!
LISTEN: If you’re like I was when I was involved in a long-distance
relationship, then you’ve experienced at least some of these
feelings… over and over again!
In fact, it seems like just yesterday that I was in the same
situation you’re in right now, a LONG-DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP. So I
know EXACTLY what you’re going through!
But do you know the WORST part?
Knowing that you’re probably screwing up the best thing that ever
happened to you—and that you have no idea how to NOT screw it up.
INCREDIBLE! I never thought it would happen to ME—a professional
relationship counselor! But... alas... it did…
Hello, my name is Bob Grant. I’m a therapist and a Licensed
Professional Counselor. I’ve also been a relationship coach for over
20 years.
During my professional career, I’ve helped hundreds of men and
women find and achieve more rewarding, satisfying, relationships. In
fact, I’ve become known as, “THE RELATIONSHIP DOCTOR” by my
clients and friends. I have a very successful practice in Atlanta
helping my clients keep their love alive, strengthen existing
relationships, or rekindling that old spark.
So… you’d think I would be the LAST person to be blindsided by
the roller-coaster of emotions that come along with being in a
long-distance relationship!
WRONG! IT WAS BRUTAL!
But like you, I’m only human. So while living in Atlanta, Georgia,
I met the woman I KNEW I wanted to spend the rest of my life with. Oh,
boy… I was giddy with happiness! (You know the feeling, right?!)
There was just one small problem…
The love of my life—my soul mate—owned a thriving business on the
other side of the country! OUCH! Worse, I had a busy counseling
practice I just couldn’t leave.
SO THERE WE WERE… MADLY IN LOVE… SEPARATED BY 2,500 LONG, LONELY
MILES.
I WAS DEPRESSED.
There was NO WAY either of us would consider ending the relationship,
though. We were too much in love. But to say the next six months were
tough, is an UNDERSTATEMENT!
Whew… it wasn’t easy. I wanted to be with her so bad it was
killing me.
Almost immediately, it seemed, there were awkward silences and
tensions between us whenever we saw each other.
IT’S SO STRANGE! We were always so RELAXED together.
Now… for some reason… we tippy-toed around certain subjects.
Or worse… we found ourselves FIGHTING about STUPID little things
that we both knew didn’t matter one bit.
Fact was, I KNEW WE WOULD NOT SURVIVE AS A COUPLE… IF WE DIDN’T
FIGURE THIS OUT!
It wasn’t easy. We BOTH made dumb mistakes. It was a PAINFUL
trial and error!
THE GOOD NEWS? We got through it!
And now, 12 years and 4 wonderful kids later, I can say IT WAS
DEFINITELY WORTH THE STRUGGLE!
However I’m not sure we would have succeeded… IF we hadn’t had
a plan.
And that’s the part that REALLY sucked.
“WHY IS THIS SO HARD?”
Even with all my education… and all my years of professional
experience… I was no closer to understanding the challenges of a
long-distance relationship than anyone else.
One day I started to wonder…
“WHY IS THIS SO HARD FOR MOST COUPLES?”
I mean, sure, I missed her terribly.
It was hard enough to get up every day… go to work… pay the
bills… and come home to a house without her. (It’s the lonely
part… and not knowing what she was doing that KILLED me!)
But that was just PART of the problem. I realized that I hadn’t
been dealing with the emotions that were going on INSIDE me.
And sure, I tried not to fight when we were together, or interrogate
her about who she spent her time with when I wasn’t there.
But the question that kept coming up for me was: “WHY IS IT SO HARD
TO DEAL WITH THESE THINGS WE HAVE GOING ON INSIDE… LIKE INSECURITY,
FEAR, JEALOUSY, AND OTHER PSYCHOLOGICAL CHALLENGES?”
Well, one of the answers that I came up with is interesting. And
it’s something that I think might help YOU deal with some of these
same challenges…
The Shockingly Simple Secret That
Changed Everything for Me
(AND HOW IT WILL HELP YOU, TOO)
I’m about to offer you some hard-earned wisdom… as one friend to
another. The answer to my problem was astonishingly simple… but it
took me a L-O-N-G time to figure out.
You see, when I started trying to solve my own relationship problems,
I always began by focusing on the problem itself.
Makes sense, right? Deal with the problem… while the problem is
happening.
This was wrong… Wrong… WRONG!
Because I discoverd that when it comes to long-distance relationship
issues, IF YOU JUST “SOLVE” THE PROBLEM IN THE MOMENT… YOU’RE
NOT SOLVING THE PROBLEM! That’s because the next time you’re in
the same situation, the SAME PROBLEM comes up again… and you play
mental games to “fix” it... until the NEXT time… and the NEXT…
and the NEXT.
(Does this sound familiar?)
Then I had this simple realization:
Instead of trying to deal with each individual problem _as it
happened_… I WOULD GET FAR BETTER RESULTS IF I KNEW WHAT TO EXPECT
_BEFORE I HAD THE PROBLEM IN THE FIRST PLACE!_
Instead of dealing with my out-of-control emotions after I was in the
situation (already out of control!), I needed to arm myself with
knowledge… and MAKE A PLAN… so I’d be prepared.
This one simple shift in thinking helped me keep my emotions under
control, and ultimately SAVED MY RELATIONSHIP. (No kidding.)
What’s more, the lessons I learned throughout the process have
helped make my marriage the strong, vibrant, and wonderfully close
relationship it is today… many years later!
Fix the IMPORTANT Things ">
Emma
Sacramento, CA
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I TEACH YOU HOW TO PRESS THE “RESET” BUTTON ">IS YOUR
LONG-DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP JUST A WAY FOR ONE OR BOTH OF YOU TO AVOID
COMMITMENT? HMMM. MY NO-PUNCHES-PULLED CHECKLIST ON PAGE 29 WILL TELL
YOU IF YOU’RE JUST KIDDING YOURSELF—OR IF BEING APART REALLY IS
UNAVOIDABLE.
Why she “phones so often” and he “doesn’t call enough.” Men
and women ARE different, and so are their expectations. Learn how to
accept the differences and use them to make your partner fall more
deeply in love with you.
DO YOU EVER FEEL LIKE YOU’RE JUST TOO “SENSITIVE”… OR
OVERWHELMED… OR JUST DON’T KNOW _WHAT_ TO DO? FIRST, RELAX. THEN
USE THIS NO-NONSENSE TECHNIQUE ON PAGE 12. IT WILL HELP YOU CLEAR YOUR
HEAD AND MAKE THE RIGHT CHOICE. (THIS ONE TECHNIQUE ALONE IS WORTH THE
PRICE OF THIS GUIDE. YES, REALLY.)
Learn how a simple shift in your attitude can stop doubts and
negative emotions from sending your relationship into a destructive
death spiral.
WHEN YOU FINALLY SEE EACH OTHER, DOES IT SOMETIMES SEEM LIKE YOU HAVE
NOTHING TO TALK ABOUT? IT’S CRAZY, RIGHT? WELL, HERE’S WHY IT
HAPPENS… AND THE SURPRISINGLY SIMPLE QUICK FIX.
An almost “magical” technique you can use to avoid destructive
fights and misunderstandings… and make your partner feel like YOU
are the ONLY ONE in the world who truly understands them.
THE ULTIMATE WAY TO BUILD FIERY PASSION AND ANTICIPATION. DO THIS,
AND YOU’LL HAVE THE BEST SEX WHEN YOU SEE EACH OTHER! CHAPTER 3
REVEALS EXACTLY HOW TO MAKE YOUR PARTNER EXCITED TO SEE YOU AGAIN.
Do you save up the day’s events to tell your partner at the end of
the day? You might be unwittingly creating pressure on your mate when
you do so. Find out why on page 16
3 SIMPLE, BUT _INCREDIBLY POWERFUL WORDS_ EVERY COUPLE SHOULD SAY TO
EACH OTHER, YET SELDOM DO. YET THESE ARE WORDS YOUR PARTNER IS
_LONGING_ TO HEAR YOU SAY. (HINT: IT’S NOT “I LOVE YOU”)
Do you know the 5 “LOVE LANGUAGES?” Learn to speak to your
partner in their special Love Language and they’ll never want to
be anywhere except in YOUR arms. (Yes, it really works.)
LADIES: DO YOU KNOW HOW TO CREATE THAT SPECIAL, UNIQUE BOND WITH YOUR
MAN? MOST WOMEN THINK THEY DO, BUT 90% OF THEM ARE WRONG, WRONG,
WRONG! READ PAGE 17 TO FIND OUT HOW YOU CAN BE “THE ONLY WOMAN IN
THE WORLD” FOR HIM.
“This is a great book! Thanks for writing something that is so
helpful when me and my husband are separated for months at a time!”
Jennifer
Tallahassee, FL
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But that’s not all. I also teach you:
THE SECRETS OF A FULFILLING AND LOVING RELATIONSHIP—WHAT MUST
HAPPEN TO KEEP BOTH OF YOU FROM SCREWING IT UP.
An easy facial exercise lets your partner know how much you love
them—even when they can’t see you! It’s SO simple—yet so few
of us ever think about using it! (See page 26.)
WHAT TO DO WHEN YOUR PARTNER IS ACTING DISTANT… NOT CALLING YOU
BACK… OR BECOMING UPSET WHEN YOU INNOCENTLY ASK WHAT THEY’VE BEEN
DOING. DON’T MISS PAGE 26, OR YOU RISK KILLING YOUR RELATIONSHIP
WITH SUBCONSCIOUS RESENTMENT.
A sure sign that it’s not your insecurities playing tricks with
your head. And that it may be time to reassess the relationship. (See
page 27.)
THE ONE THING THAT ULTIMATELY MATTERS IN YOUR LONG-DISTANCE
RELATIONSHIP. THIS ONE THING WILL PREDICT—WITH UNCANNY
ACCURACY—WHETHER YOU’LL BE TRULY HAPPY TOGETHER. (IT HAS NOTHING
TO DO WITH HOW LONG YOU’RE APART.)
How to become your own love coach with the confidence and ability to
guide your relationship through stressful times and emerge stronger
than ever.
HOW TO AVOID LETTING THE EMOTIONS YOU FEEL WHEN YOU’RE APART CAUSE
YOU TO MAKE STUPID MISTAKES THAT PUSH YOUR PARTNER AWAY. (IF YOU’VE
EVER HAD PROBLEMS HOLDING ON TO THE “KEEPERS,” IT’S PROBABLY
BECAUSE YOU DIDN’T DO THIS ONE SIMPLE THING.)
Being apart can be emotionally exhausting. Keep your love batteries
“fully charged” using these simple techniques on page 28.
HOW TO ELIMINATE _ALL POSSIBILITY_ OF THE OTHER PERSON “PULLING
YOUR STRINGS” AND TAKE TOTAL CONTROL OF YOUR EMOTIONAL AND INTERNAL
STATES… NO MATTER WHAT THE SITUATION IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP. (YOU
REALLY NEED TO LEARN THIS ONE.)
A common misunderstanding that dooms 99% of all long-distance
relationships PERMANENTLY… yet is surprisingly easy to reverse.
(When you know the secret.)
A PROVEN WAY TO “BLOCK” NEGATIVE EMOTIONS FROM INFLUENCING YOUR
THOUGHTS SO YOU ARE ALWAYS IN CHARGE OF THE WAY YOU FEEL.
How to quickly get over hurt feelings and petty misunderstands and
stop letting them affect your behavior with your partner NOW… even
if it’s been haunting you for months.
HOW TO ELIMINATE THE “UP AND DOWN” ROLLERCOASTER OF FEELINGS THAT
OFTEN COMES WITH LONG-DISTANCE RELATIONSHIPS AND CREATE A PATH OF
CONSISTENT RESULTS.
How to avoid starting a fight over things you KNOW you should let
slide off your back. (Imagine how this one technique could—by
itself—save your relationship!)
WHAT TO DO WHEN YOU’RE TIRED OF WAITING. WARNING: THIS EXTREMELY
EFFECTIVE STEP-BY-STEP TECHNIQUE ON PAGE 34 CAN MOVE YOUR RELATIONSHIP
FORWARD TO THE NEXT LEVEL, BUT… IT CAN BACKFIRE! PLEASE USE WITH
CAUTION.
How to eliminate the life-sucking trap of “ENABLING” your
partner. (Most people don’t realize this is single biggest cause of
break-ups.)
HOW TO BE INDEPENDENT IN A LONG-DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP IN A WAY THAT
MAKES YOUR PARTNER MORE ATTRACTED TO YOU INSTEAD OF MAKING THEM DOUBT
YOU.
Why your brain can actually be your worst enemy when it comes to
“thinking things through.” PLUS… a much better way to use your
smarts to _zero in_ on what makes your partner tick and please them…
like no one else can.
THE BEST WAY TO AVOID “LOSING YOUR COOL” WHEN YOU NEED TO TALK
ABOUT THE RELATIONSHIP. AND HOW TO MAKE SURE YOU’RE TAKEN SERIOUSLY.
THE BEST PART? YOUR PARTNER WILL RESPECT YOU MORE AND FIND YOU MORE
ATTRACTIVE EVERY TIME YOU DO THIS ONE TRICK. (I want you to contact me
after using this technique and let me know how it went. I know
you’ll be absolutely thrilled with how it works.)
How to identify EXACTLY what you want from your relationship and what
might get in the way. (This dramatically helps ensure your success.)
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As you can see… _LONG-DISTANCE LOVE: SECRETS TO SURVIVING THE
DISTANCE APART _is a treasure trove of invaluable knowledge. Yet
everything you’ll learn is refreshingly easy to put into practice.
Unlike other “programs” this is NOT one of those empty
“motivational” programs that creates no permanent, lasting change.
ON THE CONTRARY…
_LONG-DISTANCE LOVE: SECRETS TO SURVIVING THE DISTANCE APART:_
ADDRESSES the “inner” issues that are sabotaging your
long-distance relationship…
TELLS YOU the specific steps for pinpointing and eliminating the
things that are destroying the happiness you deserve, and…
EMPOWERS YOU to create a dynamic new and intimate connection between
you and your partner.
NO BULL. If you’re struggling with issues that are preventing your
relationship from achieving its full potential, this program will show
you how to completely banish them from your life FOR GOOD… and
you’ll start to see results the first time you put these techniques
into practice.
I TEACH YOU HOW TO QUICKLY AND EASILY
RESTORE… REPAIR AND REKINDLE YOUR RELATIONSHIP BEFORE IT’S TOO
LATE
The good news is: EVERY LONG-DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP PROBLEM HAS A
SOLUTION, and you’ll be able to solve YOURS with the tools I give
you in _LONG-DISTANCE LOVE: SECRETS TO SURVIVING THE DISTANCE APART. _
For example…
IF YOUR RELATIONSHIP is ALREADY in trouble, _LONG-DISTANCE LOVE _will
equip you with the knowledge you need to develop a plan to restore
closeness and trust, and rejuvenate your love quickly… before it’s
lost forever.
IF YOUR RELATIONSHIP needs just a little boost, _LONG-DISTANCE LOVE
_gives you new ways to psychologically reduce the miles between you
and rekindle your passion for each other.
Fact is, there’s a very good chance that _LONG-DISTANCE LOVE_
contains THE ONE BIG KEY you need to have the relationship success you
want and deserve.
And I want you to have it… but only if it’s right for you.
10 REASONS WHY
_LONG-DISTANCE LOVE_ IS DIFFERENT
FROM EVERYTHING ELSE OUT THERE
Before you decide whether or not _LONG-DISTANCE LOVE: SECRETS TO
SURVIVING THE DISTANCE APART _ is for you_…_ I want to tell you why
it’s different from all the other “relationship” guides on the
market.
REASON #1: THE CONTENT IS CREATED SPECIFICALLY TO HELP LONG-DISTANCE
COUPLES
Sure, there are a lot of “self-help” books and programs on the
market. But NONE of them have been designed with the _single purpose_
of helping couples in long-distance relationships deal with their
unique challenges and problems.
I’ve spent over 20 years learning the science of psychology and
behavior, and I want to help YOU develop POWERFULLY effective
behaviors that will nurture your love and help your relationship
succeed.
That’s why I put enormous amounts of personal time and energy into
creating an easy-to-follow guide that equips you to deal with your
long-distance relationship issues as quickly and easily as possible.
I personally guarantee that you’ll not find ANYTHING else available
that is even CLOSE to _LONG-DISTANCE LOVE_. (In a few minutes I’m
going to back up this guarantee and make you an offer you’d be crazy
to refuse.)
REASON #2: THIS PROGRAM WAS CREATED BY A PROFESSIONAL RELATIONSHIP
COUNSELOR WHO
SPECIALIZES IN HELPING COUPLES OVERCOME THEIR “INNER” ISSUES TO
BECOME MORE SUCCESSFUL IN THEIR RELATIONSHIP… AND IN THEIR LIVES.
Most of the people selling “self-help” and psychology books are
“generalists.” The stuff they sell is typically general and vague
because it’s designed to help a broad range of people. Because of
this, it’s usually “watered down” and of only limited help.
However, I SPECIALIZE in relationship counseling. I have a thriving
professional practive in Atlanta, Georgia helping hundreds of
individuals and couples. That’s why I created _LONG-DISTANCE LOVE_.
To help you fix relationship issues. To dramatically increase your
chances of success in YOUR relationship.
REASON #3: _LONG-DISTANCE LOVE_ IS A CONDENSED, HIGH-IMPACT, “BEST
OF THE BEST” WHEN IT COMES TO IMPROVING YOUR LONG-DISTANCE
RELATIONSHIP.
That’s why you won’t find a long-winded narrative that’s heavy
on fluff… stupid stories… and light on substance.
NO. Instead, you’ll find a compact synthesis of the best
relationship knowledge ever discovered… from many different schools
of research… and an easy-to-use menu of tips and tools that will
help you get results in your _situation_.
I GUARANTEE that you won’t find a more powerful, more condensed,
more USEFUL set of tools and techniques SPECIFICALLY designed for
couples in a long-distance relationship, anywhere…
REASON #4: _LONG-DISTANCE LOVE: SECRETS TO SURVIVING THE DISTANCE
APART _is CREATED BY SOMEONE WHO HAS BEEN EXACTLY WHERE YOU ARE NOW,
AND USED THESE EXACT METHODS TO SAVE AND STRENGTHEN HIS OWN
LONG-DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP.
One of the things I hate about most “self-help” manuals is that
they are based on unproven theory.
That is NOT the case with my guide.
Everything you’ll find in _LONG-DISTANCE LOVE _is knowledge that I
know—from personal experience—REALLY WORKS.
You’ll instantly realize that it’s easier to learn… and easier
to apply… because everything is based on tools and techniques that
work in real life, not fairy-tale land.
Every concept and every technique has been successfully used by
ordinary people, just like you, in your situation. This one fact alone
makes the information you’re going to learn many times more valuable
than those generic relationship manuals.
REASON #5: _LONG-DISTANCE LOVE _TEACHES YOU EXERCISES AND TOOLS THAT
YOU’LL ACTUALLY USE AND APPLY.
Many “self-help” programs are based on academic theory, and
recommend techniques that can take years for you to see even miniscule
results. WHO HAS THE TIME TO PLAY AROUND WHEN YOUR RELATIONSHIP IS AT
STAKE?
In _LONG-DISTANCE LOVE, _I give you tools and exercises that you can
IMMEDIATELY apply in REAL LIFE situations… and experience the
benefits first-hand.
And by the time you’ve finished reading it, you’ll have…
LEARNED more about yourself and your relationship…
LEARNED more about what makes both of you “tick” …
LEARNED more about how you’re similar…
LEARNED more about how to resolve your differences, and…
LEARNED more than you ever thought possible.
BOTTOM LINE? You’ll be more confident about your ability to handles
the stresses of a long-distance relationship, and how to use the time
apart to bring you even closer together.
Most of all, you’ll learn how to build a solid foundation of trust,
respect, passion, and friendship with your partner that will last a
lifetime.
“Bob… thanks so much for this book! It’s been wonderful to know
what to do during those times when I’m worried our relationship
won’t make it. Being able to remind myself of how to talk on the
phone to get closer to each other has saved us more than once."
Cyndi
Lawrenceville, GA
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REASON #6: MY PROGRAM IS FOCUSED ON HELPING YOU SOLVE YOUR
LONG-DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP ISSUES AT THE HEART.
Because you’ve read this far, you’re aware enough to know that
mere “tricks” will NEVER solve relationship issues, even if
you’re not in a long-distance relationship.
They CAN’T.
The reason I created _LONG-DISTANCE LOVE: SECRETS TO SURVIVING THE
DISTANCE APART _is because relationship issues must be addressed at
the HEART. Lasting changes in a relationship must come from INSIDE…
not from the outside.
_Make sense?_
In fact, once you apply the information I teach you, your partner
will start to respond more positively… AUTOMATICALLY. And as you
master the different concepts, techniques and tools, your entire
relationship will improve in ways you never dreamed possible. (And
that’s not hype, either. It’s the results of YEARS of
in-the-trenches research helping hundreds of couples turn their loves
lives around.)
REASON #7: EVERYTHING YOU’RE GOING TO LEARN IS MORAL, ETHICAL…
AND FEELS GOOD TO USE.
In my professional and personal life, I live by one simple code: You
don’t have to be unethical or dishonest to be successful.
In fact, I believe when you strive to be more honest and ethical,
your chances of achieving lasting success and happiness are assured.
Do you feel the same way?
That’s why everything you’ll find in _LONG-DISTANCE LOVE: SECRETS
TO SURVIVING THE DISTANCE APART _ is based on psychological and
inter-personal concepts that FEEL RIGHT to learn and use.
It’s not necessary to “trick” your partner into being with you.
In fact, that’s the most damaging ting you can do to your
relationship. Instead, I teach you how to build a lifetime of passion,
commitment and trust HONESTLY… and in a way that feels good for BOTH
of you.
REASON #8: _LONG-DISTANCE LOVE _TAKES ON THE SUPER “THORNY”
RELATIONSHIP ISSUES WITHOUT FLINCHING… AND TACKLES THEM OPENLY TO
GET RESULTS.
When I was in my own long-distance relationship (with the woman who
became, and is now, my wonderful wife), I wasted so much time spinning
my wheels with things that didn’t work.
So I won’t waste your time. Because I know you may be hurting right
now… and need results FAST.
I won’t “talk down” to you or dance around the real issues.
Together, we’ll address timeless, tough relationship problems like
insecurity, fear, and anxiety.
We’ll look at these relationship-destroying emotions directly, and
you’ll learn techniques to effectively blast those negative emotions
out of your mind, body, and your relationship.
I’m serious about this… I want to help you enjoy a more positive
long-distance relationship RIGHT NOW.
That’s why, if you’re not ready to confront your own issues
directly… if you’re not ready to make a sincere effort to
transform your relationship into something amazing… if you don’t
truly believe you should be in the best relationship of your life
right now… THEN MY GUIDE IS NOT FOR YOU.
Really.
It’s powerful, life-changing “medicine,” but it’s not for the
uncommitted or the faint-of-heart.
REASON #9: _LONG-DISTANCE LOVE _TEACHES YOU HOW TO BECOME PERSONALLY
STRONGER, AND MORE EMOTIONALLY CONTENT.
I believe that if you feel strong, self-confident, and emotionally
content… you’ll NATURALLY have better relationships. (Makes sense,
doesn’t it?)
Because, let’s be honest here: You want to improve your
long-distance relationship so you can ENJOY your life more—right? So
why not learn how to do BOTH at the same time?
I’LL SHOW YOU EXACTLY HOW. How to deal with personal issues so
you’re more centered and content… and ENJOY your life more… and
how to use your new knowledge to recharge your love life.
REASON #10: YOU ARE GOING TO DISCOVER HOW TO HAVE THE KIND OF
RELATIONSHIP YOU REALLY WANT.
Here’s a little known “secret”: Most couples are VERY
FRUSTRATED with their relationship.
It doesn’t matter if the couple is in a long-distance relationship,
or not.
FOR EXAMPLE… if you listen to a group of women talking, the
conversation will almost always turn to MEN. More specifically,
what’s WRONG with the man _they’re_ with.
Sound familiar?
And if you listen to a group of men talking about the women they’re
involved with, the conversation sounds much the same—except it’s
about what’s wrong with the WOMEN _they’re_ with.
Sometimes, you have to wonder how people ever get into a relationship
at all! But these conversations bring out one very important point: IF
YOU WANT TO HAVE AND KEEP A QUALITY RELATIONSHIP, THEN YOU HAVE TO BE
“REAL” WITH EACH OTHER. Tricks and games might start a spark…
but they won’t keep a fire burning.
(Read that last sentence again.)
SO HERE’S THE ULTIMATE PURPOSE OF _LONG-DISTANCE LOVE:_
To help you TRANSFORM your relationship into the QUALITY relationship
you deserve… the kind of relationship that a REAL man or woman wants
to _stay_ in… even when you have to spend time apart.
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BUT DID YOU KNOW… that over 75% of couples that do have
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