How To Attract Women Naturally
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IF YOU’RE A SINGLE GUY
AND YOU DON’T EVEN KNOW WHERE TO BEGIN
TRYING TO ATTRACT A BEAUTIFUL WOMAN,
YOU’RE ABOUT TO LEARN A FOOL PROOF METHOD
TO GET YOU FROM EYE-CONTACT TO SEX
IN UNDER AN _HOUR_!
I want to ask you a few questions. Answer honestly.
Have you ever been talking to a woman and the conversation got
“slow”, and you knew that if you could just make her laugh that
everything would be OK?
Do you feel that if you can make a woman laugh, you’re more likely
to get a date with her and more likely to get a kiss and more likely
to “get physical” with her as well?
Do you take rejection from a woman personally and beat yourself up
over it?
Do you ever feel uncomfortable taking the lead with a woman… even
though you KNOW it’s the right thing to do?
Do you ever get nervous when it’s time to take the “next step”
with a woman… whether it’s going for a kiss, or something more?
Do you worry that a woman might be able to “tell” that you
don’t have a lot of experience with women… and that it might ruin
your chances with her if she finds out?
I’ll bet that you answered YES to one or more of those questions.
How did I know? Am I psychic or something?
No, not exactly
At one point I too had turned to the internet for advice on
attracting women. I read the ebooks, watched the DVDs and seminars,
and generally pissed a lot of money away on what turned out to be a
lot of fluff and out right bad advice.
Most dating gurus and pickup artists say women are always getting
showered with compliments by guys coming right up and hitting on them,
they say ‘women only like jerks’ and you need to act like you’re
not interested to make them want you. Well despite what you may have
been led to believe, this is not the best method.
I’ve been in the bar scene for a little over six years, both as a
customer and bartender. I’ve seen a lot of pickups, I’ve seen a
lot of failures and a lot of successes. It’s been a hobby of mine,
especially when I was first studying pick-up-artist material, to lean
back and watch what other guys were doing, to see what worked and what
didn’t.
The first thing I began to notice was that the average dude uses one
of two approaches: indirect and lame, or direct and cheesy. The
first one is WAY more common.
That’s right, what just about every dating guru and pickup artist
told you is wrong. Most of these guys don’t compliment when they
approach, or even in the first ten minutes. In fact, most of them
don’t express any interest in the girl at all, not verbally anyway.
Their body language tells a different story: forced smile, stiff
movements, fidgeting, etc. But they don’t “supplicate” accept
for buying the occasional drink.
The reason they’re frustrated chumps that never get laid is because
they create a lame vibe by being incongruent, holding an emotionally
dead conversation, and basically leaving the entire interaction in
limbo.
Neither the girl nor the guy is willing to move things forward.
The girl might even be attracted to him but he’s not confident
enough to believe it.
Eventually, the girl gets bored or the guy gets disheartened because
the girl isn’t falling all over him, and the interaction stales
out. Forget exchanging phone numbers, the guy doesn’t even try.
That’s how the average approach plays out.
As for the direct and cheesy approach, guys rarely use this method,
and I don’t think that most of them that do are really serious.
I’m sure you’ve seen this before: “Hey, baby, wanna come back
to my place?” or a guy holla’ing to a girl from his car and then
speeding off. This isn’t an approach, it’s just drunk guys
screwing around.
Most of what’s taught in the pick up community will NOT help you in
real life, it’s completely based on the wrong line of thinking.
Being ‘cocky and funny’, ‘demonstrating higher value’; women
don’t want jerks they want confidence and strength. The reason you
see beautiful women dating assholes is because they are so attracted
to those qualities that they’ll put up with shitty treatment to get
them.
If you develop those qualities in yourself, your success with women
will skyrocket. This is what many call ‘Natural Game’, being
successful with women without intentionally being a prick or using
canned or routine material but by literally ‘being your self’.
This doesn’t mean go out and do all the repulsive things you do now
that are holding you back, it means change into a more attractive
person, so then you can truly be yourself and attract women all the
time.
Changing into an attractive person is not about tricking a girl into
bed or into thinking you’re someone you’re not, it’s about
creating attraction passively so you don’t have to think about it,
you can just go with the flow.
The headspace you want to be in and the mindset you want to have has
been fleshed out by others before, but what other products are missing
however is a roadmap, not a map for your interactions with women but a
map of how to change into this naturally attractive man.
The best advice others seem to be able to give is: “Just start
thinking about things differently” “Tell yourself you’re
stronger and more confident ‘x’ number of times each day” or
“Buy my hypnosis CDs so I can tell you you’re stronger and more
confident…”
There is an abundance of products out there telling you what type of
man you should be if you want to attract women, but none tell you HOW
to become that man… until now.
A few years back I stopped studying seduction materials, I stopped
trying to be cocky and ‘alpha’, and just went out and did what I
could to become a better person. Not to impress a woman or several
women, but because I wanted to become a better person
I’ve spent the last several months using what I learned on my own
to put together a comprehensive program that is designed to transform
you into the powerful, confident, masculine man that all women are
looking for.
The program is called _BECOMING A REAL MAN: ATTRACTING WOMEN WITHOUT
BEING FAKE, PHONY, OR PRETENDING YOU’RE SOMEONE YOU’RE NOT_
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…and you can buy it further down, but first let me give you a
no-fluff roadmap that will get you from eye contact to sex every time
you follow through with it.
So, how do you approach a woman you ask? It’s easy.
You go up to her, say hi, and tell her you think she’s cute.
And that’s the eternal commonsense truth.
…you CAN walk directly up to your target, bypassing the rest of the
group, and tell her that she's cute and that you want to meet her.
…you CAN then turn to the rest of the group, introduce yourself,
and ask them if it's okay with them if you hit on their friend.
Like, openly. No equivocation.
…you CAN do this. It's not hard. In fact, it's a lot easier
than trying to game a girl up by hiding behind a bunch of indirect
openers, false time constraints, false disqualifications, negs, and
takeaways.
Pretending is hard. Doing what you actually want to do is not.
All you need is the understanding - not the belief, not the
knowledge, but the fully-internalized understanding that it WILL work.
You've got to understand that you're going to make the girl's DECADE
when you come out of nowhere and tastefully start hitting on her.
You’ve got to understand that nobody in that group is going to stop
you.
And you've got to understand that even if you accidentally pop open
the girlfriend of one of the dudes in the group, nobody's going to
give you shit for it.
Apologize, congratulate the guy on a nice catch, and roll out. The
girl will get validation from being hit on, and the boyfriend will get
validation from you thinking his girlfriend is hot and then
"surrendering" to him when you find out she's with him.
EVEN WITH A FAILED APPROACH, EVERYONE COMES AWAY HAPPIER…
I can hear someone from the pickup community right now saying,
_“But what about the friend zone and being needy?”_
Being needy and being friendly are two entirely different things.
It's totally possible to be nice to someone you've just met and not be
needy. I do it all the time. I come with a happy, friendly vibe that
everyone wants to be a part of.
BEING FRIENDLY TO SEEK APPROVAL IS NEEDY. BEING UNFRIENDLY TO
"RAISE YOUR VALUE" IS NEEDY.
Needy people depend on others' reactions, naturally attractive men do
not.
They're friendly because they're friendly. They like people. So
they want to be nice to people. They don't seek approval from people
because they know they're already high value. So they act like
magnanimous celebrities, spreading their happiness and friendliness
and smiles wherever they go.
If the people they're talking to don't like that, they either ignore
them or move on to greener pastures. That's what really makes you
attractive in a social setting, your ability to set and maintain a
vibe that people want to be a part of.
Forget demonstrating higher value. Forget disqualifications. The
only demonstration of higher value you need is the ability to take a
boring night on the town for a group of people and turn it into an
awesome happy fun time.
THAT'S HOW YOU "DEMONSTRATE VALUE", BY BRINGING VALUE.
My game didn't really take off until I dropped most of the cockiness,
ball-busting, etc. from my repertoire and just started being friendly.
It worked awesome for me because I'm congruent with it. I want my
interactions to have a friendly vibe.
This got me to thinking about the guys I knew who were naturally good
with women. I realized that one thing they all had in common was
that I NEVER saw one of them bust on a girl.
Ever.
If they're hitting on a girl, they're locked onto her like a bear
trap. The flirty vibe is clear, present, and obvious; and woe to the
man who interrupts it.
THEY WERE DIRECT, THEY’D GO AFTER WHAT THEY WANTED, AND THE WOMEN
LOVED THEM FOR IT.
My game suffered earlier because having too much cockiness, or being
incongruent with it, comes off as extremely low-value.
Go overboard with the dissing and you come off looking like a
socially retarded misanthrope, not a high-value cool guy. Even if
you're congruent, you're congruent with a low-value identity…
I think that the overemphasis on disqualification and indirect game
in general, stems from a fear of putting your actual personality on
the line with the possibility that you may be rejected.
I think that the distaste for the direct approach to meeting women
comes from a belief, by the guys trying to learn this stuff, that they
themselves are low value, and that there is therefore no way that a
girl would ever respond positively to getting hit on by them.
I think that fear of rejection in general is a result of guys letting
other people define their realities for them…
OK, ON TO THE SEX!
In every dating advice/seduction product I’ve seen, approaching a
woman, or ‘opening’, gets over analyzed but ironically
‘closing’, or getting to the sex, gets under analyzed.
This is good in that it hasn’t caused guys to over think the
situation like it has with approaching, but it’s really pretty
stupid, seeing as how sleeping with the chick is the whole point of
reading their book.
So let me cover the basics:
A ‘pick up’ would generally consist of meeting a girl, getting
her turned on enough to have sex, without making her feel like a slut
for doing so, and then actually having sex. If the girl is attracted
to you, (attraction being a lot easier to get than we’ve been led to
believe), her energy is up, and you’re not making her feel like a
slut, then there is nothing left to do but close the deal.
Fact #1: A smiling happy girl that’s receptive to your touch is a
girl that wants to be kissed. She may want some privacy and
separation from the group/her friends first but make no mistake about
it, she wants to be kissed.
Fact #2: If you’re making out with a girl, then you can have sex
with her, assuming you have a decent location and can over come any
last minute resistance. Do NOT be judgmental about sex, don’t
_act_ like you’re not judgmental, just don’t judge her for wanting
and liking sex, there is no such thing as a slut.
You do not need closing techniques. When you have sex it’s
entirely on your terms, that’s how the girl wants it. Girls want
you to lead them into it and do it your way, they’re GIRLS, that’s
how they work. They don’t make the moves, they sit back and let
the guys make moves on them, maybe positioning themselves to get his
attention but ultimately they want a guy who can step up and take
control.
Always try to have sex with a girl you’re interested in, even if
she won’t have sex on the first date she wants you to try. Respect
her boundaries, in _No_ Way am I suggesting you try and force yourself
on a girl.
You don’t need anyone to tell you when to close, your instincts
will tell you that. Let your self be consumed by the moment and
focused entirely on her.
And that’s really all there is to it…
If you think you can do this, go and do it! You do not need to read
any further.
If you can go right up to a girl, tastefully start hitting on her,
get her turned on, kiss her, start making out with her, and bounce her
off to some place you guys can be alone… you will have no problem
getting all the tail you want…
But _can_ you do it?
Following through with it is the hard part…
If not, I want you take a moment right now and ask yourself WHY you
can’t naturally and comfortably approach a woman and move through
those simple steps.
BE HONEST.
Is it because:
…you don’t know what to expect when you actually do it?
…you care what other people think or might think?
…you don’t want to get rejected?
…you don’t know what to do or say… or don’t believe what you
do say will “work”?
…you think it’s “unnatural” for a man to approach and openly
start hitting on a woman he’s attracted to?
…you can’t control your emotions, you cant keep your _composure_
if a woman tests you or there’s any sort of conflict?
…because you have a poor self-image, low self-esteem, and little or
no self-confidence?
… or do you make each situation _too important…_ and feel that if
you got rejected it would mean something bad about YOU as a person?
Whatever the reason, you need to do _something_ about it…
DON’T LET YOUR DATING LIFE
PASS YOU BY
I’m sure you remember me complaining about all those programs that
tell you what you’re supposed to be, without telling you how to
become it.
I am not going to do that.
In my book,_ BECOMING A REAL MAN_,_ _you’ll find everything you
need to become the type of naturally attractive man that moves from
one step to the next, with no hesitation, no fear, and absolutely NO
regrets.
Inside you’ll find:
THE TWO ACTIVITIES THAT WILL TEACH YOU TO KEEP YOUR COMPOSURE IN ANY
SITUATION, AND ENSURE THAT YOU WILL ALWAYS BE “MENTALLY READY”, SO
YOU DON’T BLOW IT WHEN THAT SPECIAL WOMAN COMES ALONG.
How to tap into your “animal instincts” and develop a strong
masculine presence that makes women notice you instantly
EXERCISES TO HELP YOU QUICKLY DEVELOP A KILLER SENSE OF HUMOR EVEN IF
YOU’VE NEVER BEEN MUCH OF A “JOKER” IN THE PAST. (I’LL ALSO
TEACH YOU HOW TO TELL STORIES THAT DRAW YOUR LISTENERS IN, INCLUDING
THE ONE EXERCISE THAT ALLOWS YOU TELL GOOD STORIES ABOUT ANYTHING.)
How to be the best lover she’s ever had and make her brag about you
to her friends
EVER HEARD A WOMAN SAY SHE WANTS A MAN THAT “KNOWS WHERE HE’S
GOING IN LIFE”? IN THIS PROGRAM, I’M GOING TO TEACH YOU THE
“SECRET” OF HOW TO DISCOVER YOUR PURPOSE, TO DISCOVER “WHERE
YOU’RE GOING” IN LIFE (ANY “QUALITY” WOMAN WILL TELL YOU THAT
THIS IS WHAT MAKES A GUY "RELATIONSHIP MATERIAL"… AND THEY WILL
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The main fool proof way to meet women, and how to use their phone
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A SIMPLE, STEP-BY-STEP METHOD FOR CULTIVATING A “SECRET QUALITY”
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The 10 types of men women DO NOT find attractive
THE REASON WHY A WOMAN WILL SLEEP WITH ONE MAN ON THE FIRST NIGHT BUT
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And quite a hell of a lot more…
Before you buy my book however, I want you to know up front that this
stuff is NOT for everybody.
If you’re a pipe dreamer or the type of person that buys these
courses and lets them gather dust on the shelf, if you’re the type
of person who would rather talk about it than do it, then please this
isnt for you.
These exercises take _work_, you actually have to put in effort, and
some of them are actually painful; but there is absolutely nothing
else out there with as powerful of an effect as what you’ll find in
this book.
I also want to be clear…
In case you havent figured it out, this book is not a collection of
goofy pickup lines and gimmicks. I am in no way trying to teach you
to be a pickup artist.
Pickup artists, in case you havent met any, are weirdos.
What this book will do is take you through the process of actually
_becoming a naturally attractive man_… and unlock your own
“internal compass” that guides you to success in your interactions
with women… every time.
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LOOKING FOR A GUARANTEE?
MY GUARANTEE IS WORDED DIFFERENTLY THAN MOST. I’ve tried as much as
possible to NOT make promises on this page. In fact, my primary goal
here was to provide so much value on the sales letter that it would
make every pick-up-artist product look like _crap_. And in a lot of
cases, it does…
In other words, I’m selling my book, and as much as possible I’m
trying not to package it as “HOPE”.
SO HERE’S WHERE I STAND: In life there ARE no guarantees period.
Buying my book will not make you God’s gift to women, even though
_using it_ might…
Also, you need to understand that successful people don’t get to
where they are by leeching off of others or whining and kicking until
they get their way. Instead, they _take responsibility_ for their
actions, learn from their mistakes, leverage the power of other
people’s experience and persist until they reach their goals.
Now, I can’t really say “No Refunds” with a straight face –
because you probably don’t know me, and you’d rather avoid risk
whenever possible, and so would I.
IF YOU BUY MY BOOK AND IT DOESN’T HELP YOU OR LIVE UP TO WHAT’S
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OBVIOUSLY…
IN FACT, YOU HAVE A FULL 2 MONTHS (60 DAYS) TO USE MY BOOK,
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IF THE _DECIDING FACTOR_ FOR YOUR PURCHASE IS THE FACT THAT YOU CAN
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THEN PLEASE DO NOT PURCHASE MY BOOK.
Becuase if that’s the case, you’re not seriously seeking advice
about attracting women – you’re simply looking for a quick-fix to
a problem that has much deeper roots than what my product aims to
solve…
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WHATEVER YOUR DECISION, I SINCERELY WISH YOU THE BEST OF LUCK WITH
YOUR PERSONAL LIFE.
And at the very least, I hope that what I've shared even on this page
will have a beneficial impact on your results getting the women you
want.
Your Friend,
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Jay Jamesson
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P.S. Normally, this is where I'm supposed to add in a bunch of (fake)
price-increase warnings, urgency and in general, some strong hype to
try and push you over the edge.
Instead, I'll just be realistic by saying this:
Depending on your level of comitment, my book can be a major step
forward in the right direction, only by trying it can you know for
sure. But I'm going to close by saying that if you honestly think
that this could possibly help you, don't put it off. GO FOR IT, YOU
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(These have been edited and names changed to initials for privacy)
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