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Want to know how to explode your social life to new levels?
Let me tell you how to succeed socially and reap the benefits in your personal, professional and sex life.
Once upon a time I was a complete loner. I am ashamed to say I was the guy that you see sitting alone on the train, staring out the window clearly wishing his life was different. It is no exaggeration to say I had no friends, absolutely zero, and naturally I was lonely and going insane at my lack of social skills.
The depths of depression caused by this are so severe I was lacking energy as soon as I got up. Life can be a dark place when you are travelling along the path by yourself. Everyday, I thank my lucky star my life is no longer like this.
The best day of my life so far was the day I was made redundant. As a writer I had no option but to go freelance, and start getting clients myself. For those of you who don’t know, that means networking and talking to people every hour of every day.
This is pretty difficult for someone who is considering buying a dog just for company. A few months went by and I didn’t get a single piece of work. I was spending almost all my time in my flat, watching daytime T.V and surfing the internet. Hours and days just fell away as I lay on the couch, feeling frustration turn to self hatred very quickly.
I am sure you know, bills don’t pay themselves. If I didn’t take action, I would be out on the street. I needed work, and to do this I needed to completely build a social life from scratch. I was still a shy timid person, and I didn’t see how I could change that in such a short space of time. I needed to find ways that even I could make new friends.
Over the next 2 month’s I created over a hundred new business contacts, started going out for casual drinks every weekend with my new friends from a cycling club I joined, started hanging around with more females and started a new relationship with a gorgeous woman, which I am still seeing. No more weekends at home, I always had something on.
During the birth of my new social life, I learned the absolute easiest ways to;
Improve your first impression, erase crippling self doubt and have others assume you are a popular person. Find people that share your interests, are relevant to your goals (business or personal) and are the type of person that will look up to you. Approach new people, cut out the possibility of embarrassing rejection and establish a connection in just a few minutes with powerful conversation techniques.
And now you can use my knowledge, because I have transformed it into a completely actionable 5 step blue print that you can start straight away, and elevate yourself to my level of success.
Any of this sound familiar?
You can do everything by yourself! I bet you have convinced yourself that you don’t need anyone else in this life. You can manage just fine by yourself.
Yet still you have these fantasies, these fantasies that some how, everything will work out and you will become a minor celebrity with everyone crowding round you for some attention. It will happen someday, or so you think.
Maybe you are waiting for that special something that you think will be the turning point in your life. Once I get that degree, that job, that promotion, that woman, or that car. Let me tell you none of these are going to change a damn thing.
You will still be that same person, the one who avoids people whenever possible, gives up the few opportunities that by chance come their way, just in case of what might happen.
You will still be the one sitting alone, locked up in your own thoughts. When someone does make an effort to reach out to you, you panic and blow the damn thing. You stutter, you mumble, you can’t talk. You lie awake at night thinking, “what if” as the frustration builds that you couldn’t do any better.
This gets you down like nothing else, so the next time you have the opportunity to talk to someone new, you are too scared to even mutter a hello. You are the type that will stand in silence in an elevator whilst your boss or neighbour stands there, thinking you are just one of those quiet people that everyone just avoids.
If you do make the effort and talk to someone, I bet you are the type that is constantly looking for their approval, you are trying to impress them, and the more you glam up your life, the less interested they seem to become, the less they seem to listen, the more they look like they are desperately searching for an out.
I know this is you, because not so long ago, that was me too. Things have changed in my life.
Your whole life doesn’t have to be like this. There is another way.
It all starts with confidence. It is the key to the whole puzzle, the centre piece that everything else revolves around. Get out of the mindset that confidence is bestowed upon those more fortunate than you and start to take charge of your life.
You can make your own confidence. You have a confidence machine inside you right now and you only need to do a few things for the machine to start making confidence until it is at a criminal level. By improving certain parts of yourself and feeling your confidence sky rocket, when someone speaks to you, you will answer with some authority; they will listen and agree with what you say.
You will look them in the eye, answer in a clear way, whilst smiling. They will warm straight to you, and you will become one of these people with “charisma.” Someone that people just like and they don’t know why, they just have that elusive quality that no one can put their finger on.
You will have seen someone like this. They always seem to know someone, and even when they don’t they can make conversation with anyone. They always make people laugh, but if you repeated their jokes no one would find it funny. They are on first name terms with the boss, and they will be first in line for any promotions, even though you are a better worker. They always seem to get dates, even though they are no better than you. Not for much longer, you will be in the game soon enough.
Another part of building a good social circle is finding the right people to become friends with. Finding people that have the same interests as you is a good start. These will be your kind of people, the type that you will get along with easily.
Once you find these people you need to break the ice and get into a conversation with them. It sounds simple on paper, but in real life we all know how nerve racking it can be. However, create the right environment and you will feel no anxiety what so ever. This is the type of place you need to be approaching people.
Once you are talking to them, you need to create things such as rapport, to make them instantly like you, and develop good conversational skills, to keep them interested in you. Manage these things are you will find the gates guarding social success will become wide open and you can walk in and claim your prize.
What’s more, perfect this and you can start taking charge in your social life. How do you think it will feel when people are coming to you for attention? You will be the leader and you will make the decisions.
How about achieving all this in as little as 28 days?
The five steps to social success blue print can do just that. Want to beat the person who is using “who they know” to get ahead of you in all areas of your life? Expanding your social circle by making new friends is the only way to do this.
Your best chance of success comes from trusting a proven system. How is it proven? Well I took a test group through the system just to make sure that it was completely possible for anyone who took the course to feel the success I had felt.
The positivity of the participants absolutely blew my expectations out of the water;
Gary
The Five Step to social success course has absolutely turned my life upside down. I feel as good as I ever have. After so long of eating alone at work I now know almost everyone in the company. Making friends with my managers has lead to me getting a good promotion and I have finally moved away from doing the work to managing people, and because I get along with everyone, my job is pretty easy. I have more outlets now, and as a result my relationship with my wife is better, which is just as well because in three months, there will be an addition to our family with a little baby boy.
Beth
I feel like I have a new life now having been through the program. Before I was alone at work, all my colleagues were a lot older than me, I was constantly tired and I lived alone in my flat. Now I exercise four times a week, have so much more energy and have lost a few inches from my waist. I am more inclined to do more new things, and my general quality of life has gone through the roof.
Steven
Before I moved out of my parent’s house at 36 I thought my lack of friends was something to do with my situation, of still having to clear things with my mum before having people over and going out etc. Once I got my own place, I felt a bit happier but sadly all the new friendships I expected did not follow. My problem was I didn’t have a plan or a clue really of even how to go about meeting new people. The 5 steps blueprint cleared things right up for me, and now I have completed the goals I set for myself to improve my social life. I now have friends that come over all the time, and the fantasies I had before have finally come true.
Gary, Beth and Steven are real people who have been through the program, and we follow their progress, as they went through the course.
The blue print teaches you;
How to decide how many friends you want? The four things you need to do to blast your confidence through the roof? How to become a charismatic person? How to use social proof to build momentum in your social life? How to approach people in safe environments to eliminate the possibility of rejection? How to become a world class conversationalist? How to build rapport with new people? How to turn people you have just met into friends? How to keep friendships fresh?
Do you want to be the person who is getting all the dates, constantly getting promoted and just generally out does everyone else in all aspects of life or do you just want to sit and watch re runs of old TV programs whilst life slips through your fingers? Social success will help you become the first person, the natural born winner.
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