Life After The Affair - Survival Guide

Surviving The Affair







How To Survive The Affair and Get Your Life Back, Starting Right Now!

Discover The Simple Steps To Live Happier Than Ever…After Infidelity


If you truly want to learn how to survive the affair and get past your partner’s cheating, I can help you. Read this page immediately!






…I should know, I was losing my mind. These easy steps stopped the crazy cycle of sadness and depression after the affair, and brought me a better life than I’ve ever known…



Date: June 8, 2009, 10:16 p.m.
From: George Garrett

Dear Reader,

When I heard that my wife was having an affair, it was like someone had just hit me on the head with a baseball bat, and I definitely didn’t see it coming. I felt numb and paralyzed. I couldn’t even feel my body. I remember thinking “How could this be? This is the person I trusted with my life! She’s cheating on me?‼! She’s sleeping with somebody else? This can’t be happening. I’m going to wake up from this nightmare…”

Sounds familiar?

Your experience and mine may be very similar. You’re probably feeling like your world got completely blown to pieces, or someone just stuck a knife in your back. I nearly lost my mind.





“…Life After The Affair is a must read for anyone who has been in, will be in, or is presently in a relationship – marriage or not.

George opens our eyes to reality and helps us to cope with infidelity by guiding us into an even better underlying mental, emotional, physical, and spiritual health.

The book provides all the ingredients and areas we all must invest in ourselves to live happy, fulfilling lives. Life is too short not to pay attention! I recommend this book to my patients.”



Susan Konkel, LCSW



Director, Clinician at the Highland Park Counseling Center, Highland Park, NJ

Therapist (Marital, Family and Individual)
Expert in Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder, Depression, and Anxiety Disorders

Former Faculty Member and Director (PTSD) at the UMDNJ Medical School – New Jersey









You Are Not Alone, And You Are Not Going Crazy


The real truth about relationships is…

You could be the absolute best spouse you can be, year in and year out, BUT you can still be cheated on.



Being A Good Partner At Home Is Not Good Enough

I know this shouldn’t be true, but it is. The fact is – being a good partner in a relationship today has more to do with understanding how accountable both partners really are, AND constantly investing your time and heart to keep the relationship open, and honest, but also interesting. Blind trust doesn’t work.

You can choose to ignore this – and be cheated on.

It happened to me.

For years I ignored this concept. I thought my dedication and honesty as a good husband gave me permission to trust my spouse 100%, no questions asked. I never felt threatened and never questioned anything – I had complete trust and confidence, and why shouldn’t I? We had exchanged vows…until death do us part.

I was wrong! DEAD WRONG!



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Discovering that your spouse is having or had an affair is one of the most painful things you’ll ever feel. It’s enough to drive you into uncontrollable rage, sadness, denial, and a feeling of worthlessness. You’ll find yourself going in and out of numbness, shock, grief, anger, and even despair.





Again, You Are Not Alone…And These Are All Normal Emotions

But, you must listen to what I’m going to tell you, and listen very carefully. This is worth more than most things you’ll ever read in any book… and it will be a huge step in your process to recovery – NEVER blame yourself for what happened. Never!

It’s easy to fall into that trap and your mind will play tricks on you. BUT, no matter what…



Do Not Blame Yourself!

Yes, there are two people in your relationship (it takes two to tango, as the saying goes), and there may be areas that need some work, but you certainly did not push your spouse into an affair. No matter what you may be feeling or might have been told, your partner chose to cheat on you and you certainly were not a part of that decision. You’re not the cause!

So, now what?

You feel hurt, betrayed, and may be feeling like you can’t get beyond this, and happiness looks like a distant dream. Who ever thought you could really have your heart broken? Because it really does feel like a break inside. My mind even played tricks on me. I had thoughts of rage toward my wife and her lover. Yes, it scared me to have these thoughts, but they were real.



I Thought I Was Stuck In A State Of Depression

Someone once said to me “…time heals all wounds”. Honestly, I was really annoyed by that comment because I felt like my insides had been torn to shreds, and Hallmark quotes of this kind may be true, but did nothing to help me at that time. My wife’s affair and my deep sadness was all I could think about. I needed to find a way to start feeling better and I didn’t want to wait forever for “time” to do its healing.

I couldn’t allow my emotions to run wild anymore. Every single day I just felt like I was just floating adrift and lost. So, I read every book and listened to every audio program I could get my hands on, and I even started to go to counseling.



I’m Going To Be Totally Honest With You,



I Wasted A Lot Of Money And Time


(more than I care to admit)


I’d like you to avoid making the same mistakes I made.

I’m not going to lie to you. There are a lot of books and advice out there, some good, and some not worth the time and the expense. And, you can waste a lot of money and time trying and searching for much needed help and guidance, only to get more frustrated and lost than you were before.

You can find yourself turning in ten directions trying to find help…I know I did. I felt overwhelmed and discouraged. And everyone around me (friends and family) was all too happy to give me plenty of “advice” on what I should be doing. Most of the advice was not good at all, but at the time I didn’t know…

I know how your heart feels right now, I was there and somehow… at that time, I just knew I needed to see the light at the end of the tunnel.

I was tired of not feeling alive, and I desperately wanted to stop the cycle of sadness and resentment. Some mornings I barely had the desire to get out of bed. There had to be a way or a method to turn my life around. So, I searched high and low to find such a system, but came up short. I knew that there was only one thing I could do to reach a simple approach to get my life on track – Take control and assume responsibility for my recovery.



I Had To Create A Simple Approach To Get My Life Back.



So, That’s Exactly What I Did.

 









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Then something amazing happened. I started to follow some (really) simple steps one day, and it started to work – the heaviness I was feeling every day started to lift. Then it worked again the following day. And again the following day.



 





I was catching on. After a lot of trial and error, and sorting through so much information and advice, I had finally figured out what worked (and discarded what didn’t). I finally discovered how to move toward getting a constant flow of wellbeing in my life every day. I even started to have several glimpses of feeling pretty good at some points of my day.

 





I started to feel alive again, one day at a time. Of course, I’m not talking about a quick fix here, but real practical strategies and proven ideas you can start applying right now to bring balance into your life, and get you on the right path to feeling good about your life again at your own pace.



One Strategy Alone In My Book Can Help





Pull You Out Of The Feeling Of Helplessness And Sadness





Starting Today!



This is already a very difficult time for you and… right now you need a clear step-by-step guide to navigate through the confusion… one day at a time.



Focusing On Daily Actions That Really Work, Will Give You Strength And Energy To Get Past The Affair



My simple steps worked for me and they can work for you too, as it has worked for many others.



Now You Can Follow These Simple Steps Too.





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I wrote this book totally focused on just the needed tips and steps you need right now to start turning your life in a better direction.

Trust me (I did it the hard way), the last thing you need right now is to be buying a dozen books and reading thousands of pages to try to find those key, essential things you need to know and apply right now.

This is how I wasted so much time and money, at a time when I desperately needed some easy to understand guiding steps.

I put together easy-to-follow ideas in an easy format, and in very plain English. The key chapters in the book are designed to help you solve the common challenges you’re facing today, or will be facing soon.



Here’s an example of the critical areas:




Change The Focus In Your Life And Start Feeling Alive(What You Must Do Immediately). Learn one of the most powerful and simple secrets you’ll ever learn to live happily for the rest of your life. (If you make this commitment, your life will start to turn around right now, and it’s most likely not what you’re thinking) Page 12 The Affair – Did It Really Mean Anything? (Why You May Be Sabotaging Your Chances Of Reconciliation And
What You Need To Do First And How)Page 17 Why Did It Happen? (Why Today’s Lifestyle Can Be Pre-Wired For Infidelity And What You Must Know To Affair-Proof Your Life – if I could ask you to remember and apply just one single tip from this book, this
would be it) Page 28 Do You Know Your Partner? Learn To Read The Signs (Sure Fire Ways To Know If You’re (Still) Being Cheated On – The signals are there all along, but now I’m going to reveal to you how to avoid the “blind spot” that keeps you from reading them) Page 35 Stop The Affair NOW, One Way Or Another (You Must Know Exactly What Kind Of Affair Your Spouse Is Involved In Or You’ll Waste Your Time Trying To Stop It – If there’s a chance to save your marriage, you have to know this first…) Page 52 How Do You Know If You Are Really Reconciling? (There Is A Risk This Will Never Happen Until You Follow This Simple Principle…How to stop the habits that destroy almost every marriage. Start reconciling on solid ground) em>Page 63 Your Relationship Survived The Affair? Now What? (What You Must Continue To Do To Stay On Track And Protect The Process Of Recovery) Page 74 Facing Divorce – A Few Critical Things You Must Know (This One Divorce Tip Is Not For Everyone, But… It Can Save You A Small Fortune – this means more money in your pocket…) Page 84 Stepping Into A New Life – How To Do It Right (Learn How To Set Your Boundaries In This Area – even more critical if there are children involved) Page 93 Tips To Help You Heal And Find The “Happier You” (Learn To Press Your Brain’s “Happy” Buttons Without Consciously Thinking About It – this tip alone jump started my new life with feelings of happiness and a daily positive outlook) Page 99 Avoiding The Trap Of Anger And Depression (Discover The One Truth That Can Completely Set You Free – not easy to face, but it’s one of the keys to your happiness) Page 106 Lessons Learned And A Little Wisdom For The Road Ahead (Learn How I Completely Eliminated Stress In My Life 6 Years Ago, And How You Can Too – anyone can do this) Page 116 Testing The Romance Field (Again) Could Be Dangerous (Protect Yourself With This Simple Tip – know the rules of the game and you’ll be fine) Page 121 How To Live Happy (after the affair) And Live Fully (Learn This Secret And Unleash The Life You Were Meant To Live – Yes, you can be happy again… and possibly happier) Page 124
What Works Is Simpler Than You Might Think

 









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“How Long Will It Take To See Results?”



Some of the strategies will get results immediately. You can start using them today and see results today – you can start to feel a difference. Others could take a couple of weeks and some will take a few months. Within 6 months, you will be amazed at the way you feel about your life compared to now.

Admittedly, my book just is NOT for everyone. If you want to stay in your “comfort zone”, if you have a closed mind, if you aren’t ready to confront the naked truth about what works vs. what doesn’t, or if you aren’t very serious about improving your life, then this is not the book for you.

But if you feel you ARE ready to get past the affair, take control of your life, and start working on a “new”, happier life, then you simply cannot afford to miss this book. And it doesn’t matter if you are staying married or looking at life post-divorce.

I’ll Tell You Openly…

Writing This Book Was Never A Part Of My Plan.

There are many books on the subject out there, and it takes a lot more than a book to show you how to get your life on track after the heavy blow of an affair. But after seeing my life turn around and helping a few others do the same, I knew my simple steps worked, and it felt good seeing other people rebound from an affair and find a way to be happy in life.

After my experience and the ideas and tips I was able to put in the book, I realized that I cared about helping other people regain their life again with simple and practical steps they can follow.

Even if I only helped 10 people, those are 10 people I feel really grateful for having had the opportunity to help them.

I know how it feels to hurt inside and I know that trying to figure things out on your own can prolong the pain and it’s not the way to go. By taking the steps I explain you can develop a personal plan while saving time and money.

I’m So Sure You’ll Find Value In This Book,

I’ll Guarantee It

If after reading the book, and honestly applying the recommended steps in your own life you feel you are not completely satisfied and don’t believe you can benefit from any of the ideas in the book, I’ll give you 60 days to get a full refund. I wouldn’t be able to offer this guarantee unless I was positive that you can benefit from the ideas I put together in this book.





My guarantee is straight forward. You don’t need to argue with me or even give me a reason. If you aren’t completely happy with the tips in my book, just let me know and I’ll refund every cent.

Now you may be wondering…

“How Much Does The Book Cost?”

You can make the case that it costs nothing – because it’s going to help save you a lot of aggravation and money in the process, whether you save your relationship or possibly pursue a divorce.

As an added bonus and as a way of thanking you, I’m giving you a Special Gift that will make this an even better program for you.


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You can start doing a few things for yourself right now to start getting positive results in your life, not six months from now, not a year from now, but starting today!



I thank you for having had the courage to search for help, just like I did, and I wholeheartedly hope that you put this information to use. You will not regret it. You deserve all the happiness in the world and you too will get past this phase in your life. One day at a time you will do it, and happier days WILL come. I know you can do it.



Best regards,





P.S. Unless you take action RIGHT NOW and begin to take care of yourself after the affair and follow some proven steps to help you, nothing is going to change in your life. If you sincerely want to save time and money and begin the process of getting past the affair, Don’t Delay. Order Now or risk staying stuck day after day feeling the same.

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“…Life After The Affair is a must read for anyone who has been in, will be in, or is presently in a relationship – marriage or not.

George opens our eyes to reality and helps us to cope with infidelity by guiding us into an even better underlying mental, emotional, physical, and spiritual health.

The book provides all the ingredients and areas we all must invest in ourselves to live happy, fulfilling lives. Life is too short not to pay attention! I recommend this book to my patients.”



Susan Konkel, LCSW



Director, Clinician at the Highland Park Counseling Center, Highland Park, NJ

Therapist (Marital, Family and Individual)
Expert in Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder, Depression, and Anxiety Disorders

Former Faculty Member and Director (PTSD) at the UMDNJ Medical School – New Jersey









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