Jealousy ~ How To Overcome Jealousy and Stop being Jealous
ARE YOU SICK AND TIRED OF THE CONSTANT STRUGGLE, PAIN, EMBARRASSMENT
AND HUMILIATION THAT JEALOUSY IS CAUSING IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP AND
LIFE?
Is YOUR jealousy causing you to feel scared and afraid that your
partner, spouse or lover is going to leave you for someone else and
you'll end up alone?
IS YOUR PARTNER'S OUT-OF-CONTROL JEALOUSY AND CONSTANT QUESTIONS
ABOUT WHERE YOU'VE BEEN, WHO YOU'VE BEEN WITH AND WHAT YOU WERE
DOING-- DRIVING YOU CRAZY?
IF YOU'RE FINALLY READY TO SAY..."STOP THE JEALOUSY--I'VE HAD
ENOUGH" THEN...
Get Ready To Learn The Simple Steps You
Need to Take To Stop The Jealousy Now--
BEFORE it Rips Your Relationship To Shreds...
Dear Friend,
You're here because _either _you or your partner is jealous and this
jealousy is painful enough in your relationship and life that you're
finally ready to do something about it.
We're relationship coaches Susie and Otto Collins and you may not
know us yet, but we're experts on helping people like you overcome
jealousy before it ruins your relationship and life.
We created this website because we want to help you get rid of the
jealousy that's causing so much pain, misery and uncertainty between
you and the most important person in your life.
In order to best help you do that, we'd like to ask you a few
questions about jealousy and your relationship.
This will only take a moment and don't worry...
These questions and your answers are for your eyes ONLY as a tool
for discovering just how BIG the jealousy problem is for you in your
relationship and what your next steps are for overcoming it.
So, take a deep breath, relax and answer the following questions as
openly and honestly as you can...
Have you ever accused your partner being with someone else--even
if they adamantly deny it?
Have you ever lost a relationship in the past because of jealousy?
Are you insecure, suspicious or not trusting of your partner or
spouse?
Have you ever wondered whether this jealousy and lack of trust is
truly justified or not?
Have you ever checked up on your partner by looking through their
cell phone, computer, email, purse, briefcase etc. to see who they may
be communicating with that you don't know about?
Have you ever accused your partner of dressing too provocatively
or too nice for the occasion?
Have you ever accused your partner of "flirting" or being too
friendly with someone else?
Has your partner ever suggested they might consider leaving the
relationship because of your jealousy?
Do you ever call your partner when you're feeling anxious just to
make sure they're not with someone else or doing something they
shouldn't be doing?
Do you ever feel that your partner is looking at and paying too
much attention to other attractive people when you go out?
Have you or your partner ever lied about where you were, who you
were with or what you had been doing to prevent another fight or
argument?
Do you find that you're still angry or upset about being cheated
on either in this relationship or one in your past?
Have you ever thought that because of your jealousy, you might
actually be going a little crazy?
Have you ever wished you could talk to your partner about your
feelings without them blowing up and getting upset?
IF YOU ANSWERED YES TO ANY OF THE ABOVE QUESTIONS, THEN YOUR
JEALOUSY IS MUCH BIGGER THAN WHAT WOULD BE CONSIDERED "NORMAL."
The "green-eyed monster" called jealousy can and will destroy your
relationship or marriage if you don't do something to stop it in its
tracks.
If you're at the end of your rope because of jealousy, hang on a
minute because...
There IS a way to eliminate the shame, insecurity, and self-
doubt.
IF YOU ARE _WITH_ A JEALOUS PARTNER...
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by filling out the form below...
If you are the
Jealous Partner...
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HERE'S HOW YOU CAN OVERCOME THE JEALOUSY, GET YOUR LIFE BACK AND
ENJOY THE HEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS YOU DESERVE... AND IT'S EASIER THAN
YOU THINK!
How do we know this?
In the early days of our relationship--long before we were highly
successful Breakthrough Relationship Coaches--we had our own struggles
with jealousy.
We've been there, maybe exactly where you are right now. In fact,
things got so bad, we didn't think our relationship would survive. It
tore us apart-- made us question ourselves, we felt unloved and it
caused a great deal of unnecessary turmoil.
We don't know how jealousy comes up for you in your relationship or
marriage-- but in our particular situation jealousy came at the worst
possible moments...
For example...
We would be out at a restaurant, a social gathering, a party or a
get-together at a friend's house and Susie would see Otto talking to
someone else--especially another beautiful woman--and her whole body
would start to tense up, her heart would start beating faster (and not
in a good way), her mind would start racing and then she'd start
seeing and imagining the worst possible scenarios in her mind.
It wasn't that Susie didn't trust Otto.
She did.
It's just that these jealous thoughts were like scenes from a bad
movie that she couldn't get out of her mind and the worst part is that
they would seemingly come out of nowhere and just "blind" her to the
point that this was all she could think about and focus on.
Her jealous thoughts were enough to drive any sane person crazy.
When these thoughts would come up, she would start saying things to
herself like... "He's going to leave me for someone else--someone
younger, more beautiful, more fun, sexier, more outgoing, more
'spiritual'."
You name it and she thought it-- and as we just said a moment
ago--it very well could have totally ruined our love and relationship.
Jealousy was so intense that neither one of us could really be who
we were and this was awful.
Otto was always trying to reign himself in and not really be his
normal, outgoing self when we would go out.
He didn't feel like he could talk to as many people as he would like
in social situations out of fear of how Susie might react.
Because of the tension that the jealousy created for the two of us,
we also weren't nearly as connected as we would have liked and our
intimacy suffered.
Communication was strained, we both felt like we were always walking
on eggshells and there was even an underlying tension when we had sex
(after all, it's hard to have deep connected, passionate sex with
someone who is always accusing you of doing something that you're NOT
doing.)
We could have split over this but the good news is, we didn't...
We found a solution for these painful, agonizing feelings!
We discovered the exact steps to take to save our relationship and
remove the JEALOUSY out of our lives forever. And you can too!
Now at parties, get-togethers with friends or social gatherings,
Otto is the one coming to find Susie -- wanting to be with her, and
she's able to have a perfectly fine time NOT watching what he's doing
or keeping tabs on him.
As Otto says--"This makes ME want to seek her out and be with her
more than anyone at any party we are at... totally changing our
dynamic at social gatherings completely."
We're two people (like you) who've lived through this. We struggled
with the apprehension, heart-break and uncertainty in our
relationship.
But you know what?
Our relationship used to be filled with jealousy and now we have a
close, connected and incredibly passionate relationship that we
wouldn't trade for anything.
We ended our miserable nightmare and so can you.
Since you're reading this, we believe you're already much smarter
than most people and ready to get rid of the unhappiness in your life.
Many people would have already clicked off this site.
But you're still here, because you hear that small voice - the one
inside that whispers to you every single day. The same one that keeps
you awake at night saying...
You were meant to have a life FREE Of JEALOUSY!
Why Jealousy isn't your fault
and what you can do about it...
Maybe your partner has given you plenty of reasons to cause you to
doubt their love, honesty, faithfulness and desire to be with you--and
maybe they haven't.
Maybe you've been in other relationships where you've had a partner
or spouse who's lied to you or cheated on you.
Maybe you've seen firsthand relationships (maybe your parents) or
marriages of people you know, love and care about be totally destroyed
because of lies, cheating or an affair or infidelity.
Regardless of whether any of those things are true for you...
If you want to know why being jealous is such a huge issue in
relationship today, you don't have to look any further than your
favorite media outlet.
We are all being constantly bombarded in movies, television, books,
magazines, newspapers, emails, music, and on the internet with the
message that everyone lies and cheats--especially in committed
relationships and marriages.
The airwaves and other media outlets are filled with real and made-
up stories of infidelity and betrayal.
If you hear enough of those media messages over and over (and ALL of
us have), it's only natural that you're going to start putting a
question mark in front of everything your partner says or does. You
might even be tempted to lie or cheat because it seems that
"everybody's" doing it and it's somehow acceptable.
Because of all of these messages (plus maybe what happened in your
past), it's no wonder you have all these jealous thoughts that you
can't seem control!
So, what can you do to get these jealous thoughts and feelings under
control?
HERE'S A TECHNIQUE WE WANT TO TEACH YOU RIGHT NOW THAT CAN HELP YOU
STOP JEALOUS THOUGHTS IN 3 MINUTES OR LESS.
The "3-Minute Jealous
Thought Stopper"
We created this technique to help our Relationship Breakthrough
Coaching clients get some "instant relief" whenever those jealous
thoughts rear their ugly heads (which is usually at the worst possible
moments).
We call it...
The "3 Minute Jealous Thought Stopper."
You'll want to use this when your jealous thoughts are creeping in
and running your life--and you feel out of control.
Remember, jealous thoughts are a habit and they can be changed.
Here's how to do the "3 Minute Jealous Thought Stopper"...
1st-- SIT-- Sit in a quiet place. (The bathroom will do).
2. SETTLE-- Close your eyes, take a few deep breaths, bringing your
breath into your feet so that you feel grounded and connected to the
earth. Feel yourself slowing down and your breathing deepen. (Maybe 30
seconds)
3. AWARENESS-- Come into awareness of your jealous thoughts in this
moment. (What exactly are you thinking? You might even want to ask
yourself... "I'm thinking that_______)." And then fill in the blank
with what you're thinking. No judging!
4. ASK-- Ask yourself if you know your jealous thoughts to be
true--absolutely true. What evidence do you have to support these
thoughts? Whether you think your thoughts are true or not true, bring
your attention to your heart or gut area and
feel the sensations in your body. (What are you feeling in your
body? Is there tightness, a big knot, emptiness, heaviness?)
5. ALLOW-- Allow your sensations to be there without judging them
and breathe into that area of the body. (If you feel heavy in your
heart area, breathe into that heaviness until the sensation softens.
If you feel a "knot" in your gut area, breathe into that knot until it
starts to loosen.)
6. REPLACE-- Replace the jealous "movie" running in your head to one
that is more in alignment with what you want in your life--because the
reality is that both outcomes are possible.
HERE'S WHY THE "3 MINUTE JEALOUS THOUGHT STOPPER" WORKS AND AN
EXAMPLE OF HOW TO USE IT...
If you know that your jealous thoughts aren't true but you see
yourself being cheated on or your partner leaving you anyway, replace
that movie with a favorite memory from the past with your partner or
special moments between the two of you that are happening in the
present or could happen in the future.
Here's why this incredibly simple technique of "running a new or
different movie" in your mind when jealous thoughts come up is so
amazing...
IT'S AN ABSOLUTE SCIENTIFICALLY-PROVEN FACT THAT YOUR BRAIN CANNOT
TELL THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN SEEING SOMETHING THAT'S REAL AND SEEING
SOMETHING THAT YOU ONLY IMAGINE IN YOUR MIND'S EYE.
WHY ELSE DOES YOUR MOUTH ACTUALLY SALIVATE WHEN YOU IMAGINE YOURSELF
CUTTING OPEN A FRESH LEMON AND OPENING YOUR MOUTH TO TAKE A BIG BITE
OF IT?
IT'S YOUR BODY'S REACTION TO SOMETHING THAT YOU ONLY IMAGINED.
THE SAME IS TRUE OF JEALOUSY.
WHEN YOU IMAGINE YOUR PARTNER WANTING TO BE WITH SOMEONE ELSE (OR
WHATEVER KEEPS YOU UP AT NIGHT), YOU ARE RUNNING AND RE-RUNNING THAT
MOVIE UNTIL IT BECOMES VERY REAL TO YOU.
IF YOU WANT TO CHANGE THIS MOVIE THAT IS MANUFACTURED IN YOUR BRAIN,
OUR JEALOUS THOUGHT STOPPER CAN ACTUALLY DISSOLVE IT--AND HELP YOU TO
STOP BEING JEALOUS.
The truth is...jealousy is a habit and it's a habit that can be
broken.
For 21 days, every time your jealous thoughts come up, do this
technique and you won't believe how much ease you will begin to feel.
THIS IS ONE OF THE TECHNIQUES THAT SUSIE USED TO HELP HER PUT AN END
TO JEALOUSY THAT WAS BETWEEN US AND WE KNOW IT CAN HELP YOU TOO.
What if your jealous thoughts ARE true and cheating is really going
on?
IF YOU KNOW THERE IS TRUTH TO YOUR SUSPICIONS, WE STILL ADVISE YOU
TO PRACTICE THIS TECHNIQUE.
Instead of your new "movie" being a favorite memory, you might see
yourself taking your next step in an empowered way instead of
continuing your jealous cycle.
This "3 Minute Jealous Thought Stopper" is a great way to help you
get some instant relief from your jealous thoughts.
You can do this as often as you like to get the relief you want and
need but...
You may also be wondering...
What Else Can You Do To STOP Jealousy
In Your Relationship and Life?
If you're serious about doing what it takes to stop jealousy in your
relationship and life, you're going to want to know about this...
We've just created a breakthrough new program that shows you exactly
how to stop the insanity that jealousy creates in your relationship
and life.
Announcing:
No More Jealousy
A brand new downloadable book and audio program from Susie ">
Here's what's in the "No More Jealousy" program and how can it help
you start dissolving those jealous thoughts, feelings and sometimes
out-of-control irrational behavior?
"No More Jealousy" is more than just a book or an ebook. It is a
complete "soup-to-nuts" program for overcoming jealousy and restoring
your relationship, as well as your sanity.
The "No More Jealousy" program includes a book and 6 audio
recordings that you download, as well as a special report on how to
get free from jealousy in your close relationships, all tightly
focused on helping you heal this painful situation you're living with
and create a love relationship that's exactly what you want--free of
the pain of jealousy.
HERE'S WHAT YOU'RE GOING TO GET IN THE PACKAGE...
In Part one of the package--
You'll Get...
The "No More Jealousy" Guidebook
~AVAILABLE NOW-- INSTANTLY DOWNLOADABLE
We've organized this "No More Jealousy" guidebook from our program
into two parts.
IN SECTION ONE ... We introduce you to some new ways of looking at
jealousy, help you understand what it really is, where it comes from
and give you dozens of concrete ideas and strategies for letting those
jealous feeling melt away like butter on a hot summer day.
Also in part one, we talk about where trust-building really starts.
(This too will surprise you.)
IN SECTION 2 ... This part of the guidebook is where we lay out our
strategies for dealing with a true "jealousy emergency."
After you've finished with this section of the book, you (and your
partner) will know exactly what to do in tense, crisis- filled
situations where jealousy has come up quickly or seemingly exploded
out of no where and you need to know what to do and how to handle it.
Woven within the pages of this "No More Jealousy" guidebook are our
personal stories, along with the questions and stories of others who
gave us permission to use their words with the hope that their
experiences would be helpful to you as you discover how to stop your
jealousy and restore your relationship or marriage.
There are questions at the end of each chapter to help you examine
your specific situation more closely and to give you more clarity
about your situation and what you need to do in order to break free of
the jealousy when it comes up.
IN PART TWO OF THE PACKAGE
You'll Get...
6 "No More Jealousy" Instantly Downloadable Audios
~ NOT The Same info As In The Book
Please note: These 6 audios are NOT Susie and Otto
reading the "No More Jealousy" guidebook.
These instantly available downloadable recordings are 40-75 minutes
each and offer additional insights, breakthrough strategies and
coaching specifically designed to help you solve this jealousy issue
in your relationship and life.
HERE'S WHAT WE COVER ON THESE RECORDINGS...
No More Jealousy
Audio
Recording # 1
On this recording, we (Susie and Otto) are interviewed by Suzanne
Roberts, Founder of Unifying Solutions, on jealousy--why it's a
problem, how to overcome it, how to keep it from coming up in the
first place.
No More Jealousy Audio Recording # 2
In this audio recording we show you what jealousy is and what it
isn't so you can recognize and stop it when it comes up.
You'll learn about the "two types of jealousy problems" and how to
make sure neither one of them destroys your relationship.
We introduce you to "7 Myths of Jealousy" and show you how any one
of these 7 myths are so potent that they can destroy your relationship
or marriage (if you buy into them.)
Plus--on this audio...we give you the "first step to healing" and we
take you through a a powerful exercise that helps you to get in
contact with what's really going on inside of you--so you can let go
of it without causing you any more pain.
No More Jealousy Audio Recording # 3
On this audio, we help you deal with issues around control and
healing past emotional wounds that keep stinging you with pain and
stuck in jealousy.
You'll learn a powerful 4-question process for separating out what
is true from what is not true about your jealousy, your fears and what
your partner may or may not be
doing. When you're able to do this the jealousy simply loses it hold
on you and lets go.
You'll discover a simple, easy-to-use stress management tool you can
use anytime anywhere when you may be faced with a difficult situation
or you are not at your best so you can "take care" of yourself in
stressful moments and situations.
No More Jealousy
Audio Recording # 4
On this audio, we give you the ideas and tools that we've used to
create the relationship that we want so you can try them out in your
relationship.
We tell you how you can build trust with partnerships, how you can
create agreements for how the two of you are going to be together,
ideas for how to speak your truth to your partner and the secrets to
listening and being understood.
No More Jealousy
Audio Recordings
5 and 6
THESE TWO AUDIOS ARE FOR THE PERSON WHO IS WITH A JEALOUS
PARTNER...
Here we give practical suggestions for how to cope when you are the
target of jealousy.
Part 1: What it means to be with a jealous person and ways for you
to sort out what's really going on. How to get to the place where you
have more understanding but also can be more honest with your partner
about their jealousy.
Part 2: Communication and trust-building techniques for healing
your relationship with your jealous partner.
Here's a partial list of what you'll learn when you get the "No More
Jealousy" program...
HOW YOU CAN STOP YOUR KNEE-JERK REACTIONS AND CREATE DIFFERENT
IMAGES IN YOUR HEAD WHEN YOU IMAGINE THE WORST CASE SCENARIO--LIKE
YOUR PARTNER IN BED WITH SOMEONE ELSE
The one thing you MUST do if you don't want to stay stuck with
jealousy and these jealous feelings forever
How to know the difference between when your jealousy is not based
in fact and when there really is reason to pay attention to your inner
warnings and confront your partner
What jealousy is, what it's not and how to recognize it as quickly
as it comes up--this way you can stop it as soon as it comes up so it
doesn't do any lasting damage to your relationship
How to tell whether you were born to be the "jealous type" or if
there's another reason you're so jealous much of the time
What to do if your partner cannot or will not see their part in the
jealousy issue and drama that's going on...and how to start working on
creating more closeness and connection no matter what they do
7 "MYTHS" ABOUT JEALOUSY ALMOST EVERYONE WHO IS JEALOUS THINKS
AND BELIEVES THAT ALMOST ALWAYS MAKE THE PROBLEM WORSE --AND HOW TO
MAKE SURE THESE THINGS DON'T HAPPEN TO YOU IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP
How to stop looking for ways to mistrust (especially when your
partner has done nothing to warrant your mistrust)
WHY TRYING TO "CONTROL" YOUR PARTNER ALMOST NEVER WORKS IN A
RELATIONSHIP AND WHAT YOU CAN DO INSTEAD TO RELEASE THE FEELINGS OF
JEALOUSY AND FEEL MORE EASE AND PEACE
How to create agreements that build clear, honest communication and
more trust in a way that makes all the difference between whether
you're able to rebuild trust in your relationship or not
THE KEY TO HEALING SELF-ESTEEM ISSUES OR ANY OTHER FEELINGS YOU
FIND UNACCEPTABLE SO YOU AVOID STAYING STUCK WITH JEALOUSY AND JEALOUS
FEELINGS FOREVER
How to stop your habitual responses to the things that trigger your
jealousy in a way that actually makes sure you don't damage or ruin
your relationship
HOW TO KNOW IF YOUR PARTNER IS CHEATING OR NOT SO THAT YOUR
JEALOUSY ACTUALLY BEGINS TO HEAL ITSELF
How to deal with a partner who has lied to you in the past and
continues to lie to you--and you don't know what to believe anymore
How to recognize your patterns and identify what triggers your
jealous feelings and reactions so you can stop them
7 ways to be more peaceful and in control of yourself, no matter how
negative your thoughts become
How to deal with a partner's jealousy and not make it a full-time
job
How to use affirmations to feel more hopeful and change your nagging
thoughts when you are jealous
How to know how much privacy is acceptable and how much privacy
should you demand or request if you want to rebuild your relationship
and keep it healthy
WHAT YOU CAN DO TO BEGIN SETTING AND ENFORCING HEALTHY BOUNDARIES
THAT MAKE YOU FEEL MORE PEACEFUL, COMFORTABLE AND SOLID IN YOUR
RELATIONSHIP
The best ways to deal with jealousy and insecurity in social
situations so you can avoid creating a scene or even that lonely
feeling of disconnection
How to create, set and keep agreements between the two of you that
rebuild trust
An exercise you can do quickly and easily that is the first step to
changing anything (especially jealousy)
Ways to deal with issues like flirting, spying, online porn and
cybersex that actually build more trust in your relationship at the
same time
And much more...
How to tell if this "No More Jealousy"
program is for you...
If ANY of the following statements are true for you--then "No More
Jealousy" is definitely for you and you should definitely download
your copy of the program as soon as possible...
Say "YES" to any statements that apply to you...
You've accused your partner of being with someone else--even if they
adamantly deny it...
You feel like or have been accused of being a big nag and asking
"stupid" questions
You have lost a relationship in the past because of jealousy and you
still don't know if there was a reason to be jealous or not...
You're insecure, suspicious or not trusting of your partner or
spouse...
You keep tabs on your partner's every move
You're constantly worried about where your partner is and what they
are doing
You've had the question within yourself about whether this jealousy
and lack of trust is truly justified or not...
You've checked up on your partner by looking through their cell
phone, computer, email, purse, briefcase etc. to see who they may be
communicating with that you don't know about...
You've accused your partner of dressing too provocatively and you
think she wants attention of other men...
You have accused your partner of flirting or "making eyes" at
someone else...
YOUR PARTNER HAS SUGGESTED THEY ARE CONSIDERING LEAVING THE
RELATIONSHIP IF YOU CAN'T GET CONTROL OF YOUR JEALOUSY...
You call your partner when you're feeling anxious just to make sure
they're not with someone else or doing something they shouldn't be
doing...
You feel that your partner is looking at and paying too much
attention to other attractive people online or when you go out...
You think your partner has lied about where they were, who they were
with or what they had been doing...
You find that you're still angry or upset about being "cheated on"
either in this relationship or one in your past...
YOU'VE ACTUALLY HAD THE THOUGHT THAT --BECAUSE OF YOUR
JEALOUSY--YOU MIGHT EVEN BE GOING A LITTLE CRAZY...
You've wished you could talk to your partner honestly about your
feelings without them blowing up and getting upset
YOU'RE AFRAID THAT YOUR PARTNER IS FED UP WITH YOUR JEALOUSY AND
WILL LEAVE YOU...
You've imagined your partner being with someone else (even when they
haven't been)...
YOU'RE FINALLY SICK AND TIRED OF LETTING JEALOUSY CONTROL YOU AND
KEEP YOU FROM THE LOVE AND RELATIONSHIP YOU REALLY WANT...
If you said "YES" to any of the above statements--then jealousy and
lack of trust are definitely issues for you.
We urge you to give yourself permission to say "YES" to you and make
the decision to whip jealousy and banish it from your life forever.
We urge you to say "YES" to you so you can feel safe and comfortable
even in social situations that have driven you crazy in the past.
Life is too short to be miserable for one moment longer.
All you have to do is be willing to invest a little bit of time,
effort and energy into learning and practicing some new ideas and some
new skills of self discovery and the rest is easy.
What makes this "No More Jealousy" program so much more effective
than anything else that's available for getting rid of jealousy?
We'll start with making a true confession...
We're not professional therapists, we're relationship coaches and
here's why this is important to you...
There are plenty of resources out there including therapists,
coaches, counselors, ministers, priests, rabbis etc. who are trying to
offer relationship help to people who need it and we think that's
great. But almost none of them are focusing on the issue of jealousy.
We don't know whether the issue of jealousy is just too painful to
deal with, it's too messy of a subject or people just just don't get
the training in it to help others.
The fact is...
We're two of the select few people in the world who specialize in
helping people like you overcome jealousy.
It's also a fact that some of the best trained therapists in the
world regularly refer their therapy clients to our "No More Jealousy"
program and to work with us on this issue.
We know how to help you solve this problem of jealousy because not
only have we done it in our own lives but we've been studying this
subject for over 9 years now and after spending thousands of hours
(and a lot of money attending trainings and conferences) dissecting
the issue of jealousy and relationships--now we're considered to be
experts on the subject.
You see, the painful truth is...
Back when we were first starting our relationship and jealousy was a
major issue for us--we didn't have the relationship skills we have now
to work through painful issues like this one.
We tried all the usual methods to overcome our problems -- we read
self-help books, listened to counselors, talked with friends.
ONE THING WE CAME TO REALIZE WAS...
NOBODY ADDRESSED THE REAL CAUSE OF JEALOUSY!
Like many people, you might've thought "jealousy's not my fault," or
other people may have told you "it's all your fault," "it's all in
your head" Or maybe you heard that you should "just let go" (of your
feelings) and "get on with your life!"
How's that going for you?
If you're like us, you might have found that it didn't work.
The reason it didn't work is because...
These things that you may have thought or been led to believe don't
really solve anything. These are excuses or runaway thoughts that are
keeping you stuck.
The real issue you're dealing with is FEAR .
FEAR OF ABANDONMENT - feeling left on a doorstep or thrown away
FEAR OF LOSS OF LOVE -constantly worrying if your partner really
is going to leave you or find someone else, smarter, prettier, more
wealthy, more attractive or more of anything that you're not
FEAR OF BEING DISHONORED IN THE RELATIONSHIP - feeling
emotionally shipwrecked, paralyzed with humiliating images of your
partner in the arms of another
FEAR OF BEING SHAMED IN THE COMMUNITY - feeling ashamed your
family and neighbors will think you weren't a good enough partner and
talk about you
UNRESOLVED ISSUES FROM PAST RELATIONSHIPS - feelings of anger,
hurt, frustration, or pain that are deeply-rooted in past
relationships
LACK OF (YOU FILL IN THE BLANK) ISSUES - respect from partner,
closeness, sex, attention, excitement, affection, companionship,
feeling wanted, cared for, loved
POOR SELF ESTEEM - the harsh inner critic constantly criticizing,
punishing, and belittling
DESIRE FOR REVENGE OR VINDICTIVE FEELINGS - feelings of revenge
only stir up the ashes of your own hurt and resentment and make your
life miserable
It doesn't matter if these emotions are "real" or not...Until you
examine, and begin to heal them, that bitter taste of jealousy and
lack of trust will seep in again and again.
NOW, YOU MIGHT BE WONDERING..."WHY HASN'T ANYONE EVER TOLD ME THIS
BEFORE?"
The sad truth is most people don't know this, because the
information simply wasn't easily available...until now.
In fact, as you may have already found, most counselors just don't
know how to tackle this problem. Or, they think it's too hard to
overcome.
However, we've discovered simple steps you can take to help you stop
the nasty feelings within seconds, stop despair from ruling your life,
help you feel totally connected to your partner and get the love you
really want...
Plus, we've made this easy...
One of the other big reasons that "No More Jealousy" works so well
is because we give simple, easy to follow instructions.
If you have even an ounce of desire to heal the jealousy and trust
challenges that come up for you in your relationship or marriage, we
sincerely believe that this "No More Jealousy" program can and will
change your life.
The question is...
WHAT DO YOU WANT FOR YOUR RELATIONSHIP?
Do you want jealousy, fear and doubt to rule your relationship and
life?
or
Do you want to put an end to your jealousy nightmare right now?
If you've read this far, we're thinking that you're someone who
really wants a whole lot more from your relationship than you have
right now and you're willing to be open to some new ideas to create
something better.
Are we right?
We think so and here's something really important to understand...
YOU'VE GOT NO NEED TO APOLOGIZE FOR WANTING A BETTER LIFE!
There's absolutely no reason to be shy about going for what you
want.
BECAUSE YOU DESERVE IT!
Contrary to what the world wants you to believe, satisfying your
desires is not selfish. YOU WERE BORN TO BE SATISFIED...not settling
for a trampled-down version of existence heaped with feelings of
disappointment.
If you're finally ready to stop the jealousy that's creating so much
drama and havoc in your life right now, then here's what we want you
to do...
Download the "No More Jealousy" program now and start going through
the information right away.
This program is the most complete course available anywhere on how
to stop jealousy. Nothing has been held back.
This program gives you everything you need to stop your jealous
behavior now before it sabotages your relationship completely and you
lose your partner and the love you really want.
What Happens If You Don't Get Your Copy of
"No More Jealousy"?
Think about it...
If you don't buy this program right now, nothing will change.
If you don't get your copy of this program now, you'll still be
jealous.
You'll still feel those waves of doubt about your partner AND you'll
still be constantly wondering what they're doing, who they're talking
to and whether you're about to lose them to someone else.
It's also highly likely that if you don't get control of your
jealousy, YOU WILL lose your partner.
After all, no matter how much someone cares about you or loves
you--there's only so much a person can take.
Who would want to put up with all the constant drama, fighting,
false accusations, defending themselves and worrying all the time
about whether the next thing they say or do is going to put you over
the edge again.
If you don't get this jealousy problem handled right now it's just
going to keep coming up over and over until you do.
To make this an easy decision, we've priced "No More Jealousy" so
affordably that you'll be able to download this program right now and
fit this into your budget with no problems.
Plus, if you order this "No More Jealousy" program we just described
now_, not only are we going to assume ALL the risk and give you a
guarantee (we'll describe it in a moment) _ but we'll also include
these incredible bonuses absolutely FREE...
BONUS #1
"12 PROVEN SECRETS"
These are the recordings of a live 90-minute teleseminar we
conducted where we gave our answers to the 12 biggest, most important
and most pressing questions that our web site visitors and newsletter
subscribers like you had about how to create closer and more loving
relationships.
These 12 questions are ones we hand picked from over 795 responses
to a survey at our website. Of course, one of the 12 questions is
about "how to overcome jealousy."
These recordings currently sell for $34.95. We've included them here
as a free digital bonus for buying this package.
Bonus #2
"How to Get Free of Jealousy in Your Close Relationships" By Gay
and Kathlyn Hendricks
This is a special report on eliminating jealousy by Drs. Gay and
Kathlyn Hendricks. They are the best-selling Oprah experts and authors
of the books "Conscious Loving," "Conscious Living," "Breathing
Ecstasy" and far too many other books to mention here. This special
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"Love Lessons"
by Susie and Otto Collins
"Love Lessons" is a 56-page downloadable ebook that will give you
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an outstanding relationship. This book is a distillation of many of
the things that helped us to create the blissful relationship that we
now enjoy. This e-book was originally a book that was a part of our
"relationship toolkit." Our relationship toolkit is now no longer
available at any price. The value of this book would be $19.95 if it
was available.
BONUS # 4
"7 Keys to Creating A Great Relationship"
by Susie and Otto Collins
This is a 20-page downloadable special report that we created after
we were asked to do a presentation on the 7 things we considered to be
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there are more than 7 things that go into making a great relationship.
But, if you're going to limit yourself to only 7 Keys--these would be
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BONUS # 5
"Daily Pearls of Wisdom"
by Eva Gregory
This wonderful little work by Eva Gregory will keep your spirits
lifted every day as you take in one timeless bit of wisdom after
another.
Warning: This "No More Jealousy" package, including the guidebook,
the audios and terrific bonuses is not available in stores anywhere.
The only place you can get it is here on our web site.
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If for any reason, you aren't completely satisfied with your
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One of the reasons we offer such a powerful guarantee is--almost no
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and you'll be on your way to stopping jealousy and creating the
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Many Blessings,
SUSIE AND OTTO COLLINS
P.S. Remember, this "No More Jealousy" package is not available in
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_ NO MORE JEALOUSY__ changed my life. It has given me tremendous
freedom. Thank you for your great insight!_
_ Robin Farmer_
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_No More Jealousy Helped Me Handle My Fears & Insecurities..._
_Karen From Philadelphia, PA_
Listen To Karen --> I found your work to be most helpful, and to
the point without a lot of psycho-babble. Jealousy is a big issue in
my life and on that I've changed thanks to your work in this area. I'd
strongly recommend your work in all areas to anyone needing or feeling
that they can benefit by attentive, personal advice from caring
individuals such as the two of you.
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