Couples Christmas Sanity Saver
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ATTENTION STRESSED OUT BUSY MOMS, DADS AND COUPLES WHO HAVE A SINKING
FEELING THAT CHRISTMAS IS JUST ANOTHER DRAIN ON YOU AND YOUR
RELATIONSHIP:
“DISCOVER THE SECRETS TO ENJOYING (NOT ENDURING) THE HOLIDAY SEASON
TOGETHER AND GIVE YOUR RELATIONSHIP THE GIFT OF REKINDLED LOVE THIS
YEAR”
THE TIME FOR CROSSING YOUR FINGERS AND HOPING FOR THE BEST ENDS HERE…
DEAR FRIEND,
Do you remember when the Christmas Holiday Season was all about FUN,
and stress was a word you hadn’t even heard of, let alone experienced?
And now, fast forward just a few short years, and suddenly you find
yourself feeling stressed-out, put upon, stretched to breaking point
in every direction, all the while secretly hoping that your
relationship isn’t suffering too much as a result.
Rather than enjoying yourself with your Partner, and your family,
you find yourself resenting all the extra work, expense and tensions
Christmas brings, waking up with a Relationship and Financial
Hangover, THINKING “IS THIS REALLY WHAT IT’S ALL ABOUT? IS THIS AS
GOOD AS IT’S GOING TO GET FOR US?”
The unfortunate fact is that even though Christmas time is meant to
be about connecting with your Partner and loved ones, all too often it
turns into a battle zone, filled with landmines of all the different
expectations to be met, and all the different people to keep happy.
_IT’S A SHOCKING FACT_ that the first week back to work in January
is the busiest week of the year for the Divorce Lawyers, as couples
rush to file for divorce when the extra stresses of Christmas finally
signal the end of their relationship and their dreams. Even for those
that manage to escape the slippery slope of divorce, the dangers
remain, with many Relationship Counsellors experiencing a 50% increase
in couples seeking help in the New Year.
YOU MIGHT BE ASKING YOURSELF “WHAT CAN I DO TO MAKE SURE THAT MY
RELATIONSHIP DOESN’T BECOME ONE OF THOSE CASUALTIES, JUST ANOTHER
DIVORCE STATISTIC?”
WELL, THE GOOD NEWS IS THAT YOU CAN STOP STRESSING RIGHT NOW!.....
My name is Tanya Smith, and helping couples rekindle the love they
first had for one another in their relationship is a passion of mine.
In fact I’ve been helping couples just like you, from around the
world for a number of years now to HAVE A MORE LOVING, MORE CONNECTED,
LONG-LASTING RELATIONSHIP TOGETHER. Does that sound appealing to you
too?
I’ve heard from my clients time and time again that the Holiday
Season places so much extra strain on their relationship, what with
everything else that needs to get done, and all the extra family
tensions and money worries, that they felt like they needed some EXTRA
SUPPORT JUST FOR THIS TIME OF YEAR. The last thing they wanted to have
to worry about was whether their relationship could survive through it
all too.
In fact they wondered whether it was even possible to do more than
survive, let alone thrive, as a couple!
As I listened to my clients, and saw the cold hard evidence backed
up by the statistics from the Divorce Lawyers, and Relationship
Counsellors I got to thinking that there had to be a better way.
Surely it would make more sense to be pro-active, and put measures
into place to have a stronger relationship, and less stress as a
couple, before running into trouble, rather than waiting to try and
patch things back together once your relationship has hit a brick
wall.
SURELY IT’S NOT JUST ABOUT _AVOIDING_ STRESS AND DIVORCE, BUT ABOUT
CREATING A STRONGER, BETTER RELATIONSHIP THAN EVER, TO RISE FROM SHAKY
AND MEDIOCRE TO STRONG AND UPLIFTING…GIVING YOURSELVES THE
RELATIONSHIP YOU’VE ALWAYS DREAMT OF…
..... JUST IMAGINE WHAT A GIFT THAT WOULD BE FOR YOU…
Nobody ever gets together expecting difficulties in their
relationship, or even divorce – everybody thinks that they will be the
couple to buck the trend, and remain as happy as newlyweds.
But the statistics say otherwise, and the sad fact is that sometimes
life just intervenes, and distracts us from our best intentions to
keep the relationship great, particularly during the Holiday Season.
It’s interesting that many folks will invest so much time and energy
into climbing the career ladder, or improving at a sport, or mastering
a hobby, yet LEAVE THE MOST IMPORTANT THING OF ALL – THEIR
RELATIONSHIP WITH THEIR SIGNIFICANT OTHER – TO CHANCE!! SEEMS PRETTY
CRAZY – HUH?
The point is – your relationship is like a plant – it’s either
growing or dying, so what actions are you taking to keep your
relationship not only healthy, but flourishing?
I found when I was working with my private clients that what they
really needed was a roadmap – something that they could follow, to
implement the positive changes they needed to do, in order to keep
their relationship healthy and thriving.
A lot of my clients had wound up with me, not because of a
cataclysmic single event which they felt had killed their
relationship, but more FROM A SLOW SLIPPING-AWAY OF THAT MAGICAL
CONNECTION OF FEELING LOVED AND LOVING TOWARDS EACH OTHER. MAYBE YOU
RECOGNISE THAT FEELING YOURSELF.
It’s more common for relationships to suffer from thousands of small
instances of neglect and hurt….this is what often leads to the end of
the road. For many this final realisation comes during the Christmas
Holiday Season.
And the funny thing is, that none of my clients had meant it to be
that way – they had all started out with the best intentions – but
after a while, when the honeymoon period wore off, they just didn’t
know the best things to do to keep their love alive.
Through working with me they were able to discover that it’s not the
grand gestures that keep a relationship strong, but the right
significant small habits put into daily action, and knowing how to
work around the inevitable bumps and kinks in the relationship, rather
than stalling on them.
WHAT MY CLIENTS LEARNED IS THAT RECOGNISING THAT YOUR RELATIONSHIP IS
NOT ALL YOU’D HOPED FOR, CAN BE THE _POSITIVE TURNING POINT_ FOR
DECIDING TO CREATE A STRONGER, BETTER RELATIONSHIP TOGETHER INSTEAD
....WITH THE RIGHT HELP
I realised at that point that I had to make the information which
had helped my private clients available to as many couples as possible
....I had to get this roadmap into the hands of all the stressed-out
busy Moms, Dads and Couples who were feeling that this Holiday Season
was a strain, but just didn’t know the RIGHT things to do to avoid all
this stress, and be able to REKINDLE THAT LOVING CONNECTION TOGETHER
AGAIN.
This is why I sat down and distilled all this valuable information
into one place....
“THE COUPLES’ CHRISTMAS SANITY SAVER”
IT IS SAID THAT THE DEFINITION OF INSANITY IS TO KEEP DOING THE
SAME THING OVER AND OVER AGAIN, BUT EXPECT A DIFFERENT RESULT!!
My goal in writing this was to save as many couples as possible from
the ‘insanity’ of wanting things to be better – to recapture the
relationship of your dreams – but not really knowing the right way to
achieve it.
AFTER ALL – HAND ON HEART – CAN YOU HONESTLY SAY THAT YOUR
RELATIONSHIP IS THE ABSOLUTE BEST IT CAN BE? ARE YOU 100% SURE THAT
THERE REALLY IS NO ROOM FOR IMPROVEMENT? CAN YOU GUARANTEE THAT IT
WILL STAY THAT WAY, IF YOU THINK IT’S THE BEST IT CAN BE NOW?
IF YOU FEEL, LIKE ALL MY SUCCESSFUL CLIENTS HAVE, THAT THERE IS
ALWAYS ROOM FOR CREATING A BETTER RELATIONSHIP WITH YOUR PARTNER, AND
THAT YOUR LOVE IS WORTH INVESTING IN RATHER THAN LEAVING TO CHANCE,
PARTICULARLY AT THIS TIME OF YEAR, THEN THIS IS THE ROADMAP YOU’VE
BEEN WAITING FOR....
HERE’S JUST SOME OF WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER IN THE “COUPLES’ CHRISTMAS
SANITY SAVER”
* The 17 MAJOR FLASHPOINTS that can leave your relationship in
ruins (yet most couples fail to recognise them)
* The ‘WRONG’ WAY TO CREATE LASTING CHANGE, and how to avoid it
* The 104 CRITICAL ACTIONS TO DO, AND QUESTIONS TO ANSWER to
rekindle your newlywed love (in easy do-able amounts)
* Why the Christmas Holiday Season can damage your love connection
* WHY YOUR ‘WHY’ REALLY MATTERS
* Discover the SECRETS TO FINANCIAL VALUES HARMONY
* The SHORTCUTS TO AVOIDING STRESS and burnout
* The 13 DIETARY FACTORS which could be draining you and your love
* A little known Breathing Method which can SAVE YOUR SANITY
* The right way to BALANCE YOUR EMOTIONAL NEEDS with Extended
Family
* How to SUCCESSFULLY keep the present in the present and NOT
DREDGE UP THE PAST
* How to EFFORTLESSLY OVERCOME DIFFERENT EXPECTATIONS to meet
everyone’s needs
* The SUCCESS EQUATION that changes your relationship momentum
* How to INSTANTLY AVOID THE BLAME-GAME Trap
* Discover the SIMPLE SECRETS OF BEING IN CHARGE OF YOUR EMOTIONS
* Learn how to REVEAL THE COMMON INTENT BEHIND DISAGREEMENTS
* The simple way to HAVE YOUR SAY WITHOUT RESORTING TO ARGUING
* Ditch the INTIMACY-THIEVES in your relationship
* Discover the easy ways to RE-PRIORITISE INTIMACY and connection
* LEARN YOUR LANGUAGE OF LOVE, and what to do if your partner’s is
different
* Master the simple technique to CHANGE YOUR FOCUS from Negative to
Positive
* Find out WHY MULTI-TASKING COULD BE DAMAGING YOUR LOVE
* Discover HOW TO USE YOUR TIME MORE EFFECTIVELY for your
relationship, yet still get everything done
* Focus on THE ONE ATTITUDE WHICH WILL ROCKET YOUR LOVE IMMEDIATELY
* Discover the SECRETS TO LEVERAGING THE HOLIDAY SEASON TO REKINDLE
YOUR LOVE
* MASTER THE STRATEGIES WHICH WILL GIVE YOU THE EVERGREEN GIFT OF
LOVE ALL YEAR ROUND
SO, DON’T JUST TAKE MY WORD FOR IT – HERE’S WHAT SOME OF MY CLIENTS
HAVE SAID ABOUT MY ROADMAP FOR SUCCESS AND WORKING WITH ME:
....now I realise I’m still me, just a lot more calm, rational and
happy. And so is my bloke!
Before I worked with Tanya I was a jealous, possessive woman with
enough baggage to fill a jumbo jet. I was struggling with my
relationship and as I felt things were getting out of control I had to
do something. He is the most understanding generous man and I was
driving him away.
Tanya was calm and her insights into ‘normal’ human behaviour helped
me put things into perspective about how my partner was reacting to my
jealousy. She helped me see the benefits of changing my behaviour. I
was unsure of how the roadmap could possibly work but found to my
amazement it did.
I was worried about not being the same person but now I realise I’m
still me, just a lot more calm, rational and happy. And so is my
bloke! Thank you Tanya!
WW, near Cardigan, Wales.
....The advice you gave was easy to understand, and easy to apply,
and what really encouraged us was how quickly we were able to start
seeing positive changes
For the first time in years we've stopped blaming each other! Your
advice is easy to understand, and easy to apply, and what really
encouraged us was how quickly we were able to start seeing positive
changes. This gave us a real boost to carry on when things got
difficult, which of course they did sometimes.
It’s reconnected us in a way we never thought could happen, and now
we actually see a good future together. Even Ken says it was the best
money he ever spent! Thank you so much
Julie and Ken B, Warwickshire, UK
I am more than happy to recommend her to others.
I felt confident that her calm and considered approach would provide
me with the ‘tools’ to deal with my problems at that time and going
forward, and that has definitely proved to be the case.
So much so that I am more than happy to recommend her to others.
S.M. Graphic Designer
She has an excellent understanding of her work.
Sometimes it can be difficult to know what the real problems are,
but through Tanya's work I was able to release a lot of trapped
emotions that had been holding me back for too long. She has an
excellent understanding of her work and her knowledge, skill and
techniques enabled me to invoke realisations about myself easily and
effortlessly. I can only thank her for the journey that I've
experienced!
I would thoroughly recommend Tanya to anyone that feels that there
is room in their life for change.
Jackie (Hertfordshire) Actor’s Agency.
....we’ve really remembered what it was we first loved about each
other and been able to find ways of getting that back again as a
priority
We learned stuff about our behaviours and reactions we’d never even
realised, and this made it so much easier to stop the arguments. It
hasn’t always been easy, but we’ve really remembered what it was we
first loved about each other and been able to find ways of getting
that back again as a priority. Harmony has been restored in our house,
which we’re so happy about! Most of all we can see how beneficial it
has been to our children as well to be in a calmer, more loving
family.
If you can only commit to one thing to save your relationship, do
this! It certainly worked for us. Thanks again!
XX and XX Robins, Cheltenham, UK
IF YOU FEEL THAT YOU’RE READY TO TAKE ACTION TO CREATE THE
RELATIONSHIP OF YOUR DREAMS WITH YOUR PARTNER THIS HOLIDAY
SEASON…HERE’S MY OFFER:
Access YOUR copy of the “COUPLES CHRISTMAS SANITY SAVER”
Use all the tips, techniques, actions and strategies to rekindle
love and overcome all the Flashpoints in your own time.
If you are not ABSOLUTELY DELIGHTED WITH THE DRAMATIC IMPROVEMENTS
YOU WILL SEE BOTH FOR YOURSELF AND YOUR RELATIONSHIP just let me know
and I’ll give you a full unconditional 100% refund, for an entire 60
days – no questions asked – and we part as friends…!
NOW IS YOUR CHANCE TO HAVE YOUR VERY OWN COPY OF THE “COUPLES’
CHRISTMAS SANITY SAVER” TO DISCOVER THE SECRETS OF ENJOYING (NOT
ENDURING) THE HOLIDAY SEASON TOGETHER, AND REKINDLING YOUR LOVE FOR
THE RELATIONSHIP OF YOUR DREAMS:
Because the “Couples’ Christmas Sanity Saver” is offered in
electronic, downloadable format, YOU CAN GET YOUR HANDS ON THE
INFORMATION IN A MATTER OF MOMENTS, even if it’s 3 a.m.!
No waiting for the mailman to deliver, no queuing in the store
hoping that it’s still in stock.
YOU’LL RECEIVE YOUR COPY IMMEDIATELY IN THE PRIVACY OF YOUR OWN
HOME, SO THAT YOU CAN START BENEFITING RIGHT AWAY.
You might be asking yourself whether it's worth investing in this
for yourself?
CONSIDER FIRST, THE COST OF DOING NOTHING
You could muddle along in the usual fashion getting STRESSED AND
BURNED OUT, desperately hoping that somehow you and your partner will
be one of the lucky few who stay together, but at the COST of only
having a MEDIOCRE RELATIONSHIP.
You could be one of the couples who decide to give COUNSELLING a go
– a year of therapy at an average COST of $100 per session, plus
taking time off work or finding a childminder, and fuel to get there –
easily $6,000 - $7,000 in total.
You could be one of the many couples who WIND UP DIVORCED, with
legal costs alone of $15,000 - $20,000 conservatively, not to mention
the ongoing emotional and family COSTS for years to come.
COMPARE WITH THAT THE BENEFITS OF ENJOYING THIS HOLIDAY SEASON WITH
YOUR PARTNER, STRENGTHENING YOUR RELATIONSHIP, AND REKINDLING YOUR
LOVE TOGETHER, ON AN ONGOING DAILY BASIS: PRICELESS!
So to INVEST IN THE FUTURE OF YOUR RELATIONSHIP NOW I’m offering you
these proven tools, techniques and tips to achieve this for just $47.
That’s it – no hidden extra charges.
To be honest, MY MENTORS TOLD ME I MUST BE CRAZY TO OFFER IT FOR
SUCH A LOW PRICE (THEY WANTED ME TO BE CHARGING $197 FOR IT), but I
felt that it was so important to get this information into your hands
that I’m offering it for JUST $47 AT THE MOMENT. I can’t say that I’ll
be able to keep it at this super low price for long because I want to
make sure that only the people truly committed to succeeding get the
full benefit.
BUT WAIT, THERE’S MORE....!!
Just to make it super-easy for you to give yourself the gift of a
fantastic relationship this Holiday Season I’M ADDING SOME BONUSES...
FREE BONUS # ONE : AVAILABLE ONLY FOR A VERY LIMITED TIME (VALUE $37)
All successful couples know that the secret to really stepping up
and taking your relationship into the premier league is to use the
power of goals, which is why, for a limited time only I’m offering you
a FREE BONUS COPY of my hugely popular report..
“CREATING GREAT GOALS FOR A GREAT RELATIONSHIP” (VALUE $37)
Where you’ll discover the simple step-by-step process of how to
create goals together THAT ACTUALLY WORK!
FREE BONUS # TWO (VALUE $54)
Shhhh!! This is so ‘hot off the press’ that it’s still in pre-launch
phase.
I expect you already know that the secret to lasting success is to
make sure you take the right consistent, ongoing action to keep your
love alive.
I don’t want to leave you high and dry! I want to make sure that you
have ONGOING SUPPORT AND INSPIRATION FOR YOUR RELATIONSHIP SUCCESS.
That’s why I’m offering you 2 FREE MONTHS in my forthcoming
Mastermind Membership Programme – packed full of what works and what
doesn’t, tips, strategies, success stories, and guest interviews – all
focused on YOUR relationship success.
This is being launched for Valentine’s Day (of course!) and you’ll
have PRIORITY RESERVATION FOR 2 COMPLIMENTARY MONTHS. (VALUE $27 PER
MONTH)
FREE BONUS # THREE : FAST ACTION-TAKERS BONUS (VALUE $97)
FOR THE FIRST 100 PEOPLE who invest now, I’m offering a Free Email
Consultation in January, to give you LASER COACHING ON YOUR GOAL
CREATION FOR THE COMING YEAR! (VALUE $97)
You may be wondering why I’ve had to set the limit to 100 people –
it’s because I want to reward those who take action, and I want to
make sure I’ve got the time it takes to give you my undivided
attention.
MAKE SURE YOU SECURE YOUR SLOT BY TAKING ACTION AND INVESTING NOW!
TOGETHER THESE THREE BONUSES ARE WORTH $188 – that’s more than
triple your entire investment in the “Couples’ Christmas Sanity Saver”
– but they are YOURS TODAY, ABSOLUTELY FREE, WHEN YOU ORDER YOUR COPY
TODAY.
Even if you aren’t lucky enough to qualify for the Fast
Action-Taker’s Laser Coaching Bonus, YOUR REMAINING TWO FREE BONUSES
ARE STILL WORTH DOUBLE YOUR INVESTMENT FOR THE “COUPLES’ CHRISTMAS
SANITY SAVER” – and completely free for you today when you order your
copy of the book.
OK, as tempting as this offer is, maybe you’re still feeling
hesitant, so I’m going to make it an easy decision for you to GO AHEAD
AND INVEST NOW
If you are not ABSOLUTELY DELIGHTED WITH THE DRAMATIC IMPROVEMENTS
YOU WILL SEE BOTH FOR YOURSELF AND YOUR RELATIONSHIP just let me know
and I’ll give you a full unconditional 100% refund, for an entire 60
days – no questions asked – and we part as friends....!
I ONLY ASK OF YOU THAT YOU REALLY DO USE THIS MATERIAL WITH AN OPEN
MIND AND HEART, AND TAKE ACTION ON MY SUGGESTIONS TO GAIN FROM THE
FULL BENEFITS....
If, for any reason, having used the material, and implemented the
easy action steps, you genuinely feel that it hasn’t helped you and
your relationship at all…I will give you a full refund
100% 60-DAY UNCONDITIONAL MONEY BACK GUARANTEE
My heartfelt passion lies in helping couples create the changes that
will transform themselves and their relationships, so I want my
customers to benefit happily from my information!!
This guarantee removes all the risk for you – I want to make it easy
for you to decide to invest in YOUR copy and get your hands on help as
quickly as possible.
So, that’s it – I’ve done everything I can to give you the
opportunity to invest in yourself, and your relationship, to rekindle
love to a whole new level, for both the Holiday Season and the year
going forward!
All that remains is for you to DECIDE THAT NOW IS THE TIME TO INVEST
IN THE “COUPLES’ CHRISTMAS SANITY SAVER”
Order Online By Safe Secure Server
You’ll receive instant access to the book and your qualifying
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ACCESSING YOUR COPY IS SIMPLE AND SECURE : WHAT HAPPENS NEXT?
After clicking on the purchase link you will be taken to Clickbank’s
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After your purchase is confirmed, you will automatically be taken to
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There will be clear simple instructions to make sure you can easily
download the information for IMMEDIATE ACCESS.
You will be contacted separately by me via email to schedule your
Laser Coaching session in January, and to give you your secure access
code for your complimentary 2 Months’ Membership starting Valentine’s
Day.
IF YOU ARE READY TO GIVE YOURSELF THE EVERGREEN GIFT OF REKINDLED
LOVE, CLICK HERE
Sincerely
Tanya Smith
To Love Success
P.S. Here’s a quick recap of my offer. By investing in yourself and
your relationship now you’ll receive immediate access to your own copy
of the “COUPLES’ CHRISTMAS SANITY SAVER” giving you all the tips and
actions you’ll need to give yourself the gift of rekindled love.
PLUS – You’ll receive immediate access to my wildly popular
“CREATING GREAT GOALS FOR A GREAT RELATIONSHIP” AS A FREE BONUS.
PLUS – You’ll receive priority access to my new Membership programme
for ongoing support to keep your relationship flourishing – 2 FREE
MONTHS’ MEMBERSHIP, starting Valentine’s Day
PLUS – If you are one of the first 100 Fast Action-Takers in
investing in this package, you’ll receive a FREE EMAIL LASER COACHING
SESSION WITH ME in January, on your goals for the coming year.
P.P.S. Ultimately you are the only person who can decide whether
your relationship is worth this small investment - do you want to
settle for mediocre or worse, and carry on crossing your fingers
hoping that things will work out OK. Alternatively do you want to give
your relationship the gift of love rekindled, and take positive steps
to creating the dream relationship you’ve always wanted, with your
partner, right now?
The choice is yours – YOU CAN TAKE ACTION NOW and
Tanya Smith
Leading Relationship Coach and Author
Parc House
Parc Teifi
Cardigan
Ceredigion
Wales, UK
SA43 1EW
