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Dealing with a cheating spouse or cheating boyfriend can be one of the most painful and devastating experiences a relationship can face.
I cannot recommend this book enough.
It not only outlines specifically the 7 types of affairs (and how to handle each - whether you choose to stay or go), but you will find it's material empowering. This book will help you to fully understand that YOU are not defective.
There is nothing wrong with YOU!
It also begins with the big question: "Do you really want to be in a relationship with this person?"
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Dear Dr. Huizenga,
I just bought your book yesterday and all I can say is thank you. I was on a emotional roller coaster when I found out that my wife was having an affair(#4). Everything you said about the typical reactions for the
offended were dead on. Everything you mentioned, I was going through( I was
miserable). You helped me more than anyone or any resource ever did. It was uncanny how accurate everything was. Dr. Huizenga, you saved me from so much pain and angish, now I have the power, the knowledge and the confidence to go on with my life. Thank you for everything. Kelly
PS I would have paid ten times more for the book if I knew how truly powerful it was.
Your E-book finally gave me some peace of mind and a roadmap to follow. It was amazing how the type of affair my wife was having just jumped out at me. Knowing that, and what to expect, has given me hope that there will be a resolution.
Thanks, Bob ....Joe
This is the one year anniversary of my life turning upside down due to an affair. You helped me to move beyond the hurt and to focus more clearly as I made some very hard decisions regarding my wife's infidelity. The guidance you provided was invaluable, both for understanding the affair and myself. Thank you...Tim R
...your E-book is a tremendous help. I reread it anytime I start feeling that things are getting out of control. It helps put things in perspective. Thanks for the help. Sharon
Your e-book hit my situation dead on the head!!! I felt like I was getting a reading from a psychic!!! I have chills right now. Lauren
A friend of mine suggested I buy your e-book on affairs which I read with great interest! My husband had 2 affairs during our marriage and we are now going through a divorce. I couldn't believe how accurate your description was of him - he is definitely number 3 but I don't feel he has always been which is the sad thing really. Amber
I am amazed at how on-target you are in your profiles of the different types of "cheaters". I wish I had this two years ago--would have saved me a lot of trial-and-error. Pamela
Your ebook has already been a big help!No matter how this turns out I'm already alot better off (feeling wise) than he appears to be. Seems like your recommendations are right on target - he can't figure out exactly what is going on other than I'm doing very well these days and still being a very caring loving wife. Thanks for all your help! Lisa
You have opened a well-spring of ideas for me. Thanks! Kelly
...the information I received from you in the e-book was some of the most helpful I have seen, and I have read almost every "infidelity" and "relationship" book ever published. Yvonne
I've read the book---some parts over and over---and indeed it's worth it. Thank you very much. Viki
I find your writings an incredible source of comfort. I find power in knowledge and you have helped me regain myself in all this mess. THANK YOU!
Bill
I learned why I am having the affair. Why I feel like I do and that there is hope for me to break the Revenge cycle that Ihave been on since Ilearned of my husbands affair 20 years ago. I never let go and have had several one night stands and 3 affairs. (One I am still in and want to break free of but cant seem to stop). I finally recognize all the pain I have felt and all the pain I am causing and what to do to stop it.
Your approach is really different and unique. You have carved out quite a niche for yourself! Michelle
I really liked the phrase "I will make it." I have been really down and it has some how reinspired me. I also liked the 12 mistakes people make. I knew I wanted to stay in the relationship (for a variety of reasons) but I was having a hard time moving forward. Those 12 things really made me look in the mirror. We have taken a lot of very positive steps. Jeanette
At this time I find your writings an incredible source of comfort. I find power in knowledge and you have helped me regain myself in all this mess. THANK YOU.
Out of all the books and websites and counseling I've gone through, your site has been of the most help to me and I am trying to find a way that I can get full benefit. Thank you.
the information I received from you in that short time was some of the most helpful I have seen, and I have read almost every "infidelity" and "relationship" book ever published.
you are the best to have shared all you did...you helped me a great deal. Ciao
Your book contains more valuable and relevant and USEFUL information than all of the books combined I have read over the last two-plus years. Your book is so overwhelmingly superior to the many, many books I have devoured over the last three years, including the ones considered to be the "best" on infidelity/affairs/relationships, and the information you provide is so profoundly on-target and concisely written in a straightforward manner that it is having a dramatic impact on my life and marriage and on my beliefs/views/strategies as formed by and based on the other booksI want to thank you for helping me. So often, those of us with limited resources (money) are the ones who lose the most, because we can't afford the very help we need. You have provided me with something I've needed for a long time. I am so grateful.
Your information was HUGELY helpful in helping me to categorize (to a tee!) this "behavior" and of course look to move beyond it...
I have been using the Charging Neutral technique even without knowing about it until today. This is not normal for me since I am unemotional from day-to-day, but get emotional when we fight and eventually explode (like the description in Affair #5). Being very, very calm with her at first really scared her (I have never hit/hurt her), but she has opened up tremendously the more I can show that I won't explode.
As usual your information is right on the mark. Its uncanny how your stuff seems to reach me just when I am looking for the information. It's marvelous to read. It makes me feel normal again. Regards Yvette
Dr. Huizenga, your book has provided me with greater insight, with more understanding, with reassurance of my own value. But it has also presented me with a scary problem: My husband's affair was a very complicated matter, it is not going to be an easy or short road to recovery, and it will not be easy determining which tactics to use and when as I deal with building a new, and hopefully better thanks to you, relationship with my husband. Initially my heart and hopes sank as I discovered just how difficult this "recovery" will be, but it is encouraging to find that my intuitive responses in dealing with my husband and his affair have more often than not been correct. You have also given me many new ideas of ways to "shake up" the way we communicate and relate with each other, something we have needed badly for many years. I have a difficult road ahead, I have to accept that, but you have helped me understand that new territory better than I could have without this book. I can never thank you enough or repay your generosity. Sally
Dr. Huizenga: I knew my husband was involved with another woman. His affair lasted two years and has been ended for almost ten months. You have produced the most helpful, useful and relevant book on dealing with your partner's affair that I have ever seen. You include vital information that no other source contains. Your profiles are so accurate it is eery! For me the most valuable part of each chapter is the very specific advice on what YOU can do to increase your chances that your marriage will survive the affair. I felt many times as I read your book that you somehow had been in my head and heart and living my life, your descriptions and profiles are that accurate! Yvonne\
I just finished reading your e-book How to break free of the affair. I must state this was the best book on relationships I have read thus far. my compliments on your wonderful book. Thank you NR
My wife and I have been fighting about 8 months now & she finally moved out about 3 weeks ago I wish I would have gotten you e book sooner. Joe
Can't believe reading your ebook that the situations are just like what I'm experiencing. My husband left the house three months ago. Four days before our 25TH Anniversary We celebrated it with a night in NYC Nothing spared. I know he's having an affair & won't admit it. Lately, he's been a great deal better with his attitude. I think the affair has somewhat come to an end. He still needs two weeks to come home. Why??? I made an appointment with a mediator. He flipped today with that. Mary
I wanted to Thank you earlier but have been busy with the baby. She is 3 1/2 months old and cutting her first teeth. Finding you has been a God send for me. I hope God blesses you. Thank you for this material and I will read every bit of it and use it in my everyday living. Pam
...very tightly and concisely written, in understandable language and clear suggestions. Thanks! Nancy
...you pose pertinent and sometimes uncomfortable questions I must ask myself to determine my own motives for wanting to save my marriage. But for me the most valuable part of each chapter is your very specific advice on what I can do to increase my chances that our marriage will survive the affair. Yvonne
Thanks again for your site because it helps put me back on the path of reality and truth and gives me comfort and hope. May God bless. Carol
As one of your members, I just wanted to say thank you for your web site and for all you do to help others get through such a difficult time in their lives. Several months ago I became a member of your "club" and got your e-book "Break Free From The Affair."
I am impressed with your book, and it's been helpful. Bob
Dear Dr. Huizenga, First and foremost I want to say that you have already helped me tremendously just by reading some of your articles and information on your website and your emails. Of all the websites and books I have read, yours is superior in regard to this subject. I sincerely appreciate all your work to help people like me that are in the situations that we are. John
I downloaded your e-book and it helped me cope with what was happening in my life. I must have read it 25 times!!! Thank You, Kathi
Already, I have started putting into practice the suggestions from your materials and usually feeling empowered. linda
First, I have bought your ebook and have found it fantastic. I'm still trying to identify which type of affair scenario fits my husband. I am after only 6 weeks in surprisingly good "emotional" shape, which in part is due to your book. Karen
Dear Bob,I recently purchased your E-book "Break Free From Your Affair" on November 10, 2003. I really depend on this book right now. However, it is gone from my computer. I don't know what happened to it. Please help. I need to refer back to it. Robin
The best Christmas present I will get. I will get over all this and figure out what to do going forward. My faith in male/female relationships has been severely damaged but I will work on that. Sue
Just a note to wish you a very happy holiday season. I want to thank youfor all your help this past year. Your counsel and articles have helped mea more than you will ever know. Whenever I start to get down, I reread year book, especially the part on affair #4. Joe
One of the best parts of the book has been examining my motivations and helping me decide to save the marriage or not. I have found out much about myself and identified my fear of living alone. I still struggle with the "I will make it" self message and have some sadness over the loss of the relationship with my wife. Overall I am very glad that I found your website and appreciate the online discussion forum greatly. Marty
Your book was very good, in fact one of the best I have read. Linda
I look forward to hearing from you and for your ongoing advice, you are an extremely important find for me. There is very little pragmatic literature or advice out there .Sandy
Thanks Bob for your encouraging words. I'm taking your advise and feel confident and at peace that I am on the path to reclaiming my integrity. I'm planning on a wonderful New Year! Joan
Here are the things I have found good about your site/work so far.
1) It is written with a 360o degree viewpoint - that is to say when you get into it you have thought about all the angles and the implications of the problems an affair brings when disclosed.
2) Linked to this, I bought the E-Book on Sunday and read it in one sitting - I have never thought about affairs (I was too scared too, like most people) and found it absolutely fascinating to think and consider what the propellers (motivates) are and how they may be very different. I thought that the analysis of what type of affair your partner has had was good to think about and it gave me ideas for why my partner has had trouble with other relationships (apparently this is the first time with me in 2.5 years!). But his father also had 2 (that he knows of extramarital affairs) affairs and I think this is 'in his genes' if there is such a thing!? It turns out his father left his first wife when he returned from the navy to find out she had been unfaithful and he walked out immediately on her & 3 smallish kids, left Canada and joined the navy again to sail as far away as possible traveling around the world and finally settling in London where he met my partners mother.
3) It is well written and thought provoking. It's the cost of a therapy session (£34 with my therapist) but you can take it in a lot more and I felt like after the reading of the ebook that I'd gone through a 'session' i.e. I'd thought, learnt and was curious to learn more about myself and responses to the events
4) it makes it clear that the dumpee (the one who has been lied to) and this is perhaps the most helpful thing, can have so much hope. I have to focus on me and recovering with or without my partner.
5) it is easy for me to see my partner (ex!) as being a mix of your types of affairs but that was not bad, I think that it is too complex to make fix categories of it but a helpful guide. But the best questions were the hard ones about why and if one should attempt to save the marriage, but the advice of how to be cool, calm and cheerful is so right but so hard! Thanks so much for the good work Bob! Best G.
Thank you so much. Your advice makes a lot of sense, for us to find a way to use the pain of these prank calls to make us stronger. I think my wife & I are making great progress together in our relationship and saving our marriage. I thank you so much for your ebook and your advice in this specific matter. As a person who has felt like my life has been turned upside down during this ordeal, you have provided me much support and "calm" to my situation. Terry
I have had a chance to browse through the ebook and spotted our scenario immediately. I will try to follow your advice, it is so nice to know what to do instead if flailing around doing the exact wrong thing! Christine
Thank you, I feel like I have an answer now and help. Thank you again. Bless you for helping so many people. I wish I had found your site a year ago and I might not be in this mess. Sincerely, Debra.
I learned about the kind of affair I was facing and that it was not my FAULT. I also got practical strategies to get my life going.
The most important thing that I learned was that I had to worry about myself first. Another thing that was important was that I discovered that there was an emptiness that my wife was feeling that was caused by something that occurred to her long ago.That no matter what - I am going to make it! The affair is not my fault. She chose to do it, not me!
With your e-book, at least the feeling of being "crazy" is lessening somewhat.
Thank-you for writing your book, Break Free From the Affair. I downloaded it last night and it has been very eye-opening. It is wonderful that just when I needed some practical and sound advice, I found your site on the internet. I've got a lot of things to work through, as I just uncovered concrete evidence of my husbands' continuing years-long affair with his receptionist. Your book has helped me pick my path, so to speak, of what I will (and will not) do next. Laura
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"Is 'Not Knowing' Killing You Inside ... Or Your Marriage? Are You Tired of All The Lies And Excuses? Are You Afraid That You'll Confirm Your Suspicions? More Importantly, Will You Ever Find Happiness Again, If It Does Exist?"
I assume you are like 1,000s of others jolted by the affair, asking these questions: (Substitute the word she for he if you would like.)
Do I throw him out?
Or, should I let time heal?
Will the affair stop?
How long will it last?
Can my marriage be saved?
Should I talk to the other spouse?
Will I ever be able to trust again?
How do I get rid of my anger and ugly thoughts?
Where did I fail?
Will I ever forgive? Forget?
Should I spy?
and more...
You are not alone! There is relief! There are answers!!!
In 5 minutes I will put on your computer screen the answers, strategies and never-before-published knowledge base you MUST have to:
Get through this faster! Gain confidence. Clear the fog of confusion and diminish the pain.
Have the crazy days, sleepless nights, absent appetite and queasy stomach fade.
Find the strength and courage you never thought you had. Exude a new power. He will notice and it will shake his world.
Know in your heart that the affair is not your fault. No more self-blame and self-loathing. (You really did your best, you know)
Know exactly why he had the affair. You will know him better than he knows himself.
In the next 6 months turn this disaster into a new opportunity.
Melt your rage and hurt into understanding and eventually compassion.
Become an expert in affairs. Outsmart him and the OP.
Be tough AND patient and understanding.
Eyeball him and he will be the first to blink.
Surprise yourself and partner with your newfound wisdom and insight.
Have a REAL chance to stop the affair.
Say the right words that shake your partner to the bone so he stops to truly consider the folly of the affair.
Don't leave the affair to chance. Don't wait for "time to heal." Don't waste time with simplistic suggestions or vague generalities. Don't act out of desperation.
Use my 20 plus years of research, study, experience and therapeutic work with thousands of people to act with purpose and confidence, knowing EXACTLY what you need to do to break free from the affair.
Avoid the 2 HUGE Mistakes 95% People Make
Most people don't play it smart. They react
usually in one of two ways.
They try harder...to tolerate. They swallow
.hard. They wimp out and put up with all kinds of crap. (Sorry about the language, but I assume you have thought worse.) They hope time will cure and he will come to his senses.
Often they try harder by being really nice - meeting his needs; it's called "working on the marriage." Give him what he always said he wanted and win him back.
Doesn't work. You prostitute your integrity
and deep down you know it.. and resent it. As well, you feel like you are competing with the OP (other person.)
If he does stop the affair and "comes back" it is out of guilt or pity and what do you really have then?
Others Go on the attack. Plead. Beg. Become righteous. Explode every so often. Threaten. Become depressed. Enlist the help of others. Use guilt. Use the children. Talk. Talk. Talk. Desperately make promises.
Doesn't work either. You don't have to become a basket case; it's no fun. And if he does "come back" it's out of coercion. Don't you want to be wanted rather than have him feel like he must be with you because you bullied him?
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I have that just for you. My E-book, coming out of my 23 years of therapy private practice, gives you in-depth, proven and practical steps used effectively by hundreds of couples in the midst of marital infidelity. This e-book comes straight from the lives of those who have been there, done that. Real people, like you, trying to break free.
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Know in your Heart that the Affair is NOT your Fault.
My E-book convinces you that the affair is not your fault. This shift in your thinking is vitally important if you truly want to break free from the affair.
The affair is HIS problem. It is THEIR problem. What you did or did not do did not "cause" the affair. He CHOSE that avenue to solve his dilemma. Did you make mistakes? Sure, we all do. Could you have done some things differently? Of course! He could have also! You are NOT defective. No one is a better lover or person than you. Nothing is wrong with you!
Please understand. I care for someone who is having an affair because they are trying to find something - like all of us. The problem: their way of finding that something is really misguided. Anyone who chooses to trade one set of problems for a worse set, or really believes that another person can make his life better or "complete" obviously isn't thinking straight.
He is either lost in his empty neediness or his life is run by his glands. Choosing an affair is temporary insanity. Affairs have absolutely nothing to do with love - everything to do with personal neediness and the narcissistic need for intense flattery. An affair is NOT the answer. Affairs don't pan out.
This is backed by over two decades of professional experience, study and research. Here are the stats:
80% of those who divorce during an affair regret the decision.
Over 75% who marry partners in an affair eventually divorce.
If an affair replaces the marriage, it is subject to the same emotional stresses as the marriage but twice as likely to fracture.
You MUST Pinpoint the EXACT Kind of Affair Facing You
People are different, right? Well, so are affairs. Affairs are exceedingly complex, but there are patterns that you can identify.
What works to break free from one kind of affair will be disaster for another. Are you confused? Not sure what to say? What to do? Afraid that saying one thing might be destructive? Do you feel like you are walking on eggshells?
Identify specifically what you are up against and you will feel more confident because you know exactly what will work and what will not work.
I've identified 7 kinds of affairs marked by the different excuses most commonly used. These types are thoroughly explained in the E-book.
#1: My Marriage Made Me Do It
#2: I Can't Say No
#3: I Don't Want to Say No
#4: I Fell Out of Love (and just love being in love)
#5: I Want to Get Back at Him/Her
#6: I Need to Prove My Desirability
#7: I Want to be Close to Someone (which means I can't stand intimacy)
Discover what Internally Drives Him to this"Act of Temporary Insanity"
People with different motives have different kinds of affairs. You will learn more about him than he knows about himself. You will understand his personality, how his past influences him, how he typically copes with relationships, his self-defeating patterns and more.
It will hit you, "this person has a problem! - and it's not all mine!" (This is not to say you don't have problems, we all do, but they have their origin in you, not someone else or an institution such as marriage.)
Once you understand each kind of affair and the kind of person who engages in that kind of affair, it all makes sense.
You make better decisions.
You develop more effective strategies.
You begin to understand why it is so difficult.
You feel more confident and centered.
You have a road map to follow.
And
you feel better
The FIRST and TOUGHEST Question you MUST ask Yourself
Do you ever ask yourself why you remain with someone who is so self-destructive and has such little regard for you? Do you assume others are thinking the same thing: "Why in the world doesn't she throw him out?"
Here's the question you MUST face FIRST: Do I REALLY want to be (married) in relationship with this person?
Don't jump past this one with, "Sure, I love him
even though he's doing this." It usually is a bit more complicated.
Do I REALLY want to be married to him? Or do I want to be with him out of my own neediness? Or for other reasons?
Here's the underlying problem. If you hold on to the relationship because of your neediness or external factors, the chances of getting what you want are slim.
For each kind of affair, I'll have you consider questions you never thought about; questions that MUST be answered if you have any hope of breaking free.
You will be much clearer on what you REALLY want. He will know and he will respect that.
Realistically: What are the Odds of Saving Your Marriage?
As you might guess, the odds of saving your marriage vary according to the kind of affair facing you.
I use a scale of 1 - 10 for each kind of affair and the odds are based on the premise that you and he will continue in the same patterns. For example, I give the "My Marriage Made Me Do It" between an 8 and 9 on a scale of 1-10 where 10 means there is no way the marriage can be saved. I give the "I Want to Get Back at Him" affair (the revenge affair) a 3.
These are not arbitrary numbers. I give multiple reasons for those odds in the E-book.
With Your Crystal Ball - Predict the Future
Yes, you can see into the future. Affairs are predictable. Once you identify the patterns you can project ahead and know what most likely will happen next. Here are a few examples:
You CAN know how long he will be involved in that affair.
You CAN know whether he is more susceptible to a one-night stand or a long-term affair.
You CAN predict whether this will be the one and only affair or whether more are down the line.
You CAN predict the nature of his relationship with the OP.
You CAN know whether they will live happily ever after.
You CAN know whether it is primarily a sexual relationship or emotional relationship.
You CAN predict how and when the affair will end.
Once you have the knowledge, once you understand the person(s), once you see the patterns, it all makes sense.
How to Increase the Odds of Saving the Marriage, If that's What You Really Want To Do
Once you see the larger picture and have gathered yourself emotionally, it's time to act.
In the E-book I provide an outline of exactly what action you can take for each kind of affair. I put words into your mouth, giving you phrases you can use with your partner that fit exactly your situation.
With each kind of affair I list skills that work best with that affair and increase your chances for making significant change.
You get 16 skills that you easily learn and apply to the 7 different affairs: (you will only need to learn and apply those skills applicable to the affair facing you. I'll show you the one(s) that will work best for you.)
You will learn when and how to send messages, use silence, get to the real commitment, leap your partner, look for upset, contextualize, peel away layers to the truth, and gap the goal, to name a few.
Don't Allow this to go on for 2- 4 Years,
so I'm Making a Request of You
Most studies indicate that if you go it alone, it takes 2 - 4 years to work through and resolve the affair, whether you stay married or not. Yes, you read that right. But, you want the agony to end today or yesterday, don't you? Well, it won't
and there are no magic wands to make that happen.
But, and this is a huge but, it NEED NOT take 2-4 years.
Here's what I want you to do: Make a personal commitment to use the next 6 months to learn everything you can about infidelity and the affair facing you. Gather your strength and courage and begin using new skills to stop the affair and develop the kind of life and relationship you REALLY want.
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