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* ARE YOU GASPING FOR YOU FREEDOM, BUT DON'T KNOW HOW TO GET
OUT?
* Are you with a clingy, jealous, controlling, or overly-emotional
woman with whom you JUST CAN'T BREAK UP?
* Are you walking on eggshells, reaching for your freedom, but not
able to go through with the break up?
* Do you keep trying end it, but stop evey time for fear of hurting
her?
* Do you kick yourself when you see amazing women pass you by every
day, because you're trapped in a relationship you know is going
nowhere?
* Do you plan how your life will be after you finally gather the
courage to break up with this person and move on?
If you answered "yes" to one of more of the above, I need to ask you
Isn't it time to end this relationship and move on with your life?
I asked this question of myself for three years while I spent day in
and day out stuck in a relationship
Because I was afraid
Because I didn't know any better
Because I didn't have the tools, the courage, and the support to
complete the breakup that needed to happen
So I could move on with my life!
Now, with just a handful of knowledge, I've helped dozens of men
reclaim years of their life! A few had even planned to marry the women
they yearned to break up with.
How screwy is that!?
My name is Michael Freeman.
As I said, I spent three years in a relationship I hated. Why?
_BECAUSE IT TOOK ME THAT LONG TO GET OUT_.
Along the way, I learned everything that didn't work--and finally,
what did.
Here's a clue:
Common sense didn't work.
Years of study of psychology and a Master's degree didn't work.
All my resolve and determination didn't work.
What WORKED are the insights I share with you in my 30-page ebook "A
Way Out: A Men's Guide to Leaving Unhealthy Relationships."
You'll learn:
* The one thing you can do to cut to the chase and finally
breakup...page 22
* Getting over the emotional paralysis that keeps you from taking
action...19
* Identify the ten big unconscious and unhealthy reasons why you may
be staying...17
* How to make a firm decision, and stand by it (No more giving in to
the flip-flopping that overtakes you!)...13
* Ways to stop her manipulation and...page 27-28
* Silence attempts to paint you as the bad guy...28
I learned all this the hard way, and it took three long years of
suffering to get here.
Now, I'm passing my insights along to you.
The men I've worked with take this information and run with it. You
can, too. You can have your life, your freedom, your energy, and most
important--your integrity--back.
Imagine waking up in the morning and feeling excited about who you
choose to spend your time with.
Imagine being able to tell the truth to the woman you love about how
you feel and what you want.
Imagine finally finding your TRUE love!
But firstyou've got to get out of your BAD relationship!
THIS IS THE CLOSEST THING TO A _HELICOPTER_ AIRLIFT OUT OF YOUR BAD
RELATIONSHIP.
Feel free to go to the bookstore and try to find something similar.
You'll find numerous books written by Dr. Phil-types on how to make
your relationship work (which, as you probably know by now, you DON'T
want).
I've seen far too many guys wasting their life with a needy,
manipulative woman who drags them down and steals their spirit. It's
not her fault: She's probably wounded and feels vulnerable, which is
why she acts like that. I'll show you how to do WHAT'S BEST FOR YOU
BOTH, ending your relationship with compassion.
It's simple, you can either:
1) Live your life in a relationship you don't want, possibly until
you're in your grave, or...
2) Buy my book and quickly move on in a way that minimizes the pain
for you both.
Take a look at the sample below. If you see your relationship
described here, you simply must purchase "A Way Out" so that you can
recapture your future. At only $8.95 (subject to change), I'm making
it accessible to any guy who is having trouble ending an unhealthy
relationship.
_If you're not ready now, come back when you are. Just _ _DON'T__ let
it be years (and thousands of dollars) from now._
SAMPLE FROM "A WAY OUT: A MENS GUIDE TO LEAVING UNHEALTHY
RELATIONSHIPS"
A Men's Guide to Leaving Unhealthy Relationships Michael Freeman,
M.A. 2 A Way Out: A Men's Guide to Leaving Unhealthy Relationships
Author's note: The content within this ebook is not intended as legal,
medical, or mental health advice, and makes no claim as such. The
information is offered asis, without warranty, and the reader assumes
all risks from using the information herein. The author disclaims any
and all liability from the information provided--including health,
medical, psychological or any other information. You should always
consult your own health care provider or mental health professional
concerning any health or psychological problem or disorder, and your
legal representative regarding all legal issues. Although the author
has a Master's degree in the Social Sciences and considers himself
knowledgeable in the realm of psychology and relationships, he is not
acting as a psychology or health professional, and cannot be held
responsible for any actions you take or the results of the content
that follows. Copyright 2009 -- Unauthorized reproduction strictly
prohibited. 3 A Way Out: A Men's Guide to Leaving Unhealthy
Relationships Table of Contents A WAY OUT......4 WHAT'S GOING
ON........5 CRAZYMAKING..........6 FIGHT OR FLIGHT.......7 WHEN A
RELATIONSHIP BECOMES A PRISON....7 POWER BALANCE....8 IDENTIFYING AN
UNHEALTHY RELATIONSHIP......9 THE ILLUSION OF THE TRAP.....10
PSYCHOLOGICAL ABUSE............11 THE TEST ........12 THE BASIS FOR
LEAVING...............................................................14
ARE YOUR STAYING FOR THE WRONG REASONS....17 DO IT FOR
YOURSELF.......18 DO IT FOR HER18 THE CYCLE OF INDECISION...19
PERMISSION TO LEAVE....20 THE BREAK UP.......22 THE ACTION
PLAN.............23 QUESTIONS THAT DON'T NEED ANSWERS..26 TEARS...29
FINAL WORD..........30 Copyright 2009 -- Unauthorized reproduction
strictly prohibited. 4 A Way Out: A Men's Guide to Leaving Unhealthy
Relationships The last thing [legendary AfricanAmerican author and
educator Howard Thurman] said before I left was probably the single
most important bit of advice I ever got about being a man. ʺSam,ʺ he
said, ʺthere are two questions a man must ask himself: The first is
ʹWhere am I going?ʹ and the second is ʹWho will go with me?ʹ If
you ever get these questions in the wrong order you are in trouble.ʺ
Fire in the Belly: On Being a Man, by Sam Keen "they tried to turn a
man into a mouse." from "Hurricane," by Bob Dylan A WAY OUT I wrote
this book to address a real problem. The problem is underreported, but
pervasive: Countless men are stuck in relationships that drain them of
their time, resources, and soul. Perhaps you are one of them. I've
known many men in unfulfilling relationships with overbearing,
domineering, neurotic, destructive, or obsessivelyjealous partners; I
was prompted to provide a resource so these men can achieve freedom.
This is the book that I needed when I was in a troubled, unhealthy,
threeyear relationship, and couldn't find a way out. My goal here is
twofold: 1) To help men gain clarity about whether they want to stay
or leave their relationship, and most importantly 2) to help men leave
when they feel stuck. Copyright 2009 -- Unauthorized reproduction
strictly prohibited. 5 A Way Out: A Men's Guide to Leaving Unhealthy
Relationships Relationships should be mediums within which to grow and
build something special. All relationships can go through a rough
patch and become temporarily strained; it's the weak man who flees at
the first sign of conflict or bad feelings. Yet sometimes a guy finds
himself stuck in a relationship that is unhealthy; he knows it, but
can't free himself. He's at the crossroads: One direction represents
freedom and the possibility for growth; the other means sticking it
out in an unsatisfying, stressful relationship for an indefinite
amount of time, possibly until death. However isolated and frustrated
you feel right now, I want to let you know that similar stories are
playing out across the globe; you are not alone. But fortunately, in
your case, you will do something about it, taking appropriate action
to move on. Whether you've felt trapped in your relationship for six
months or six years, know that there is a way out - this book will
show you the way. WHAT'S GOING ON? Relationships are often considered
the woman's domain. When relationships encounter hardship and it comes
to getting help, available resources are typically womencentered.
Bookstore shelves are packed with relationship books targeting women
(if you have any doubt, just observe the covers, with their feminine
imagery). Our government subsidizes shelters for women who are victims
of abuse. Perhaps most importantly, women may take refuge in their
female friends who provide continual feedback and support. In
comparison, relationship resources for men are few and far between.
For many guys, it doesn't occur to them to seek outside Copyright 2009
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Guide to Leaving Unhealthy Relationships resources; they are
accustomed to taking care of their own problems. Guys generally bumble
along in relationships, experiencing setbacks and regrets, but also
achieving varying degrees of satisfaction. Yet many others get
themselves stuck with clingy, overemotional, mentally unbalanced
women. Though they want more than anything to be free, they find it
impossible to break up. It's not that the men in these unhealthy
relationships aren't smart. On the contrary, they are usually bright,
and have an extra sensitivity towards their partners and
relationships. In fact, it's often this sensitivity that becomes
burdensome; these men are averse to taking action that can hurt their
partner, and have trained themselves to do anything to avoid causing
her pain. There's nothing in this text that will resolve your
situation without you taking direct action. There is no magic spell or
pill that will make it all go away. However, if you read on, you will
find out how to remove the psychological barriers that keep you in an
ongoing cycle of avoidance and despair. You will then be able to
initiate the break up, using the clear, easytouse guidelines
illustrated in this text. CRAZYMAKING A relationship should be a place
of comfort. Although it may demand sacrifice, both partners should
feel safe and at ease the majority of time that their together.
Moreover, both partners must have their space, their own friends,
interests, and time alone--without the other partner infringing upon
those things. If you feel stressed while youʹre around your partner,
and she increasingly takes over your time and personal space, itʹs
easy to lose Copyright 2009 -- Unauthorized reproduction strictly
prohibited. 7 A Way Out: A Men's Guide to Leaving Unhealthy
Relationships perspective. Like a prisoner of war who begins to
sympathize with his captors, you may lose your ability to see all that
youʹve lost. As this pattern takes root, it becomes increasingly
difficult to free your mind. You begin to perceive this lifestyle as
normal, and apathy sets in. FIGHT OR FLIGHT The biggest barrier to
leaving a bad relationship is your own physiology. By now, you are
probably conditioned to have a stressful 'fight or flight' response
anytime your partner becomes agitated. It's ironic: A major reason
that you need to leave is her emotional volatility. Yet, it's that
same volatility that keeps you stuck. And you know she's going to flip
out if you try to assert your desire to leave. By now, your sensitive
neurology is already conditioned to avoid conflict at all costs.
Sharing your life with a controlling, demanding person almost
certainly changes your brain chemistry. You respond like a Pavlovian
dog: When she has an outburst or meltdown, you feel the adrenaline and
instantly go into crisis mode, doing whatever you can to appease her.
However, there is hope: The Action Plan recommended in this book
tackles this pattern headon, helping you to escape this cycle. WHEN A
RELATIONSHIP BECOMES A PRISON I speak from experience when I say that
feeling stuck in a deadend, frustrating relationship is one of the
most soulstifling, maddening things anyone can go through. Copyright
2009 -- Unauthorized reproduction strictly prohibited.
