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"Just wanted to drop you a note of thanks for your contribution to males everywhere (if they are smart enough to do something about it). "I am reading your Black Book and am finding it quite impressive the more I read it... "Your book has loaded my mind with information. I know I will succeed... I'm getting back on the upward spiral."
- D.M.
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"Just a few short weeks ago I was recovering from a breakup- not my decision, feeling sorry for myself, and in a 'funk.'
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If I'm doing this good after only a few weeks, imagining one year from now is almost scary! Thanks!" - J.B.
"Hey Carlos,
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- D.H.
"Just thought I'd write you an email and say that the stuff in your book is great and its changing a lot of things for me. Already working, getting phone numbers and meeting girls I never would have approached before.
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- J.H.
Dating Advice for Men:
"What Would You Do With The Power To Approach Women and Attract Women ...
Anywhere and Anytime?"
Dating and attracting women seems like a confusing, frustrating, heart-wrenching ordeal ... but it doesn't have to be that way.
Being attractive to women is a SKILL - not a talent you were born with.
Attracting women is also a skill you can LEARN.
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"Dating skills and attraction skills are not logical or rational. That means that you must have an understanding of the social dynamics with women to achieve success..."
- Carlos Xuma
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I'm about to show you how to learn the real dating secrets - how to attract women - how to use social dynamics to get that magical chemistry and charisma - and get women in your life RIGHT NOW.
These techniques and dating advice for men are easy to learn, and best of all, simple to use once you know all the rules to dating - the ones women have known since they were little girls...
That's right... What women want are men that will sweep them off their feet - and into the bedroom! (But not like in all those bad movies you've been watching...)
The time you take to read this page could be the most significant change you make to your dating skills - ever. It's that important.
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Dating Advice for Men:
How to Attract Women
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Would you like to get genuine dating tips on what women find attractive in a man?
Do you want dating advice for men that you can actually use? Not just "pickup tips" that only works in bars?
I want to show you specific dating tips, methods, dating guides, advice, and knowledge to attract more women, get more dates, more sex, more romance...
... and get more fun out of life!
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"Most Guys Don't Know What Women Want & How Attraction Really Works...
"AND That They Can Create Attraction."
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Do you ever wish you could understand just what makes a woman attracted to a man, enough to keep dating him and eventually sleep with him?
What is it that those other guys with hot girlfriends have that you don't?
Is there some kind of dating advice rule book that you don't have on how to meet women?
You know it's not looks or money that attract women, because you've seen plenty of guys that are porky and poor who get women all the time. If you've ever been to a party and seen a couple and thought, "Man, why is she dating him?" you know what I mean.
You leave thinking that women don't make any sense...
... Or do they?
Would you like to know the secret dating advice to turn a woman on to you?
Would you like to understand women? What kind of flirting body language works?
Just imagine how these dating tips and advice will improve your success with women... ------
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Dating Advice for Men Tip #1: Most relationship and dating self-help authors tell you how things should be, not how they really are. They make you feel good for a few hours, but after you put the book down, you're right back where you started. Depressed and frustrated, because things don't work the way they "should" in the real world.
The answer is that no one is willing to admit that these laws and strategies exist. There are certain behaviors and laws that you can learn and use to influence not only the women in your life, but the people that you rely upon for your success in life.
Once you open your mind to them, you'll realize that these rules are for real AND you can use them for your own growth and power. This isn't manipulation or being fake, because you are still being you.
Dating Advice for Men Tip #2:You will attract more women with your authentic personality than you will with any fake lines or lame openers. The one thing a woman needs (after you've started attraction) is deep rapport with you.
She needs to feel trust, or she's going to either give you a fake number, or she'll never answer your call, or flake when you finally do get a date with her.
The one skill you must have is the ability to connect with a woman based on your SINCERE personality traits.
Dating Advice for Men Tip #3: The fastest way to build rapport with a woman is to reveal some vulnerability and convince her that you are more REAL than the next ten guys that beg to buy her drinks, or ask her for her phone number at a red light. (NOTE: Those do not work.)
Real connection is what women want, and it's comprised of several ingredients, including energized attraction and deep rapport.
"How To Attract Women and Get a Girlfriend In Less Than 30 days ..."
Are you in a relationship, hoping to improve it?
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"Hi Carlos, I wanted to mention to you that without your advice, The Dating Black Book and 'all' the other stuff that I'm halfway through researching, I would have been pretty much in the dark about what to do. Don't get me wrong, I've got some experience with women, but until now I didn't know what the hell I was doing."
- S. M. from Palo Alto, CA
Listen to Chris from San Francisco, CA, tell you who is the best men's dating advice guru...
"Don't send out another email...
"Don't sign up for an online dating service...
"And definitely DO NOT call another woman before you read the dating advice and strategies I have for you in The Dating Black Book."
- Carlos Xuma
"This book really showed me how girls think and what I exactly, step-by-step, needed to do in order to have more success with them.
Before this book, I was clueless and also frustrated due to the fact that I saw other guys at my college pull in the girls while I sat there all alone on Friday nights hanging out with 'Loser Boy' watching reruns of Sportscenter.
I really think this book is the most informative and in-depth dating book out there and it produces RESULTS."
- S.B., Seattle, WA
I wrote The Dating Black Book to give guys the straight TRUTH about attracting women and dating.
Most men won't ask for help, especially help with women. Now, with this book, you can learn dating secrets that will SHOCK you...
Dating Advice for Men Tip #4: You need to become an ALPHA MALE, and then communicate your masculine self-confidence to women...
FACT: Women are attracted to a set of pre-determined behaviors that transmit your social standing and status. When you learn how these behaviors work, you can then consciously demonstrate them to attract women you want and start her feelings of arousal and interest.
You want [results](dating-advice-for-men.htm). You want to be able to meet girls, attract women, and enjoy all the fun of an active singles life and [sex life](dating-advice-for-men.htm).
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R.E.A.L. Game is what you need to succeed. Not dumb pickup lines or bad techniques.
R = Relaxed & Resourceful - you have to be cool ...
E = Effective & Energized - you have to find your power and what works for you ...
A = Authentic & Alpha - It has to come from YOU, your genuine personality and character ...
L = Lifestyle & Lasting - This has to be a way of life for you, success in everything, not just women ...
And women are attracted to specific, confident traits in men, and your behavior demonstrates them. There is a set of specific behaviors that starts a woman's attraction mechanism for a man.
You need get dating advice for men and vital attraction rules to know EXACTLY what these behaviors are, and how to communicate them.
Carlos Xuma is one of the Internet's top dating gurus and authors.
You've seen him on numerous sites and respected dating publications, such as:
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Attracting women is a skill that anyone can possess. The guys who are most successful at dating and know how to get women and attract women shared their skills with me over the years.
Now I'm passing their experience - and my own - along to you so that you can learn how to get a girlfriend with dating strategies that work.
Here are some of the hundreds of field-tested men's dating advice secrets you'll learn in my [ Dating Black Book](dating-advice-for-men.htm):
The qualities of the High-performing man - The Alpha Man
How to overcome the de-motivators in meeting women and increase your success ratio
What the crippling behaviors are to success in dating
How to massively develop both your Inner game and External game
How to recognize the "Loser's Psychology" and avoid his evil power
How to eliminate the one secret source of all your dating pain, and stop it from messing up your confidence
How to dispel your "Male Guilt" and turn it into your power
What "Challenge" really is, and how to use it to pick up women
What Three Essential Dating Traits are - and how to develop your dating power for unbelievable success when you approach women
The Two Key Desire Factors a woman must have for you, and how to build them to a fever pitch
How to overcome the toughest hurdle in meeting women - getting her phone number
How to reverse your Downward Spiral - how to get a girlfriend by staying out of negative thinking
How to triple Your Dating Success with the D.O.W. Principle
Discover the Confidence Treadmill - the secret to developing your Self-confidence with women
The Critical Behaviors of Successful Men, as well as the Critical Self- Destruct Mechanisms
How to stop throwing money away on "low-rank" women
How to develop your complete dating strategy, including your Objective Plan to get a woman you can stay with ...
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