Have you ever had an argument where you began talking about one thing and ended
up fighting about something completely different?
Do you find yourself arguing about the same things over and over again?
Do you tend to have your worst fights with the people you care about the most?
If so, you may be getting taken out by the hidden pattern I call, "The Gauntlet." It doesn't
have to be that way.
Arguments follow patterns. “The Gauntlet” is the most widely-used, destructive dynamic
that shows up the moment people attempt to work out their problems. While they're trying
to make things better, suddenly, everything gets worse.
Are you tired of:
Fighting with the people you care about?
Being made wrong or being misunderstood?
Never solving problems or moving forward?
Sweeping problems under the rug just to "keep the peace?"
Feeling stressed-out, frustrated, lonely, or withdrawn?
Learn the system that defeats the negative conflict pattern.
For most of us conflict is confusing because communication that begins consciously can
quickly turn unconscious. Not only do we not know how to get through conflict effectively,
much of the time, we feel like we don’t even know what just happened.
Do you ever feel bewildered in the midst of an argument?
Why? Because many aspects of relationships are hard-wired in to our instincts which are
largely invisible to most people. How can you change what you don't even know is there?
Because we don’t understand the larger context underlying conflict, we often respond
incorrectly to what is happening, blaming the other person, or blaming ourselves.
Fortunately, because conflict does follow patterns, there are signs to read. Once you learn to
read the signs, communication that was once unpredictable is suddenly predictable. There is
a path through the chaos and a method to the madness.
In this book, you will learn:
Conflict is nothing more than a relationship’s attempt to change.
That negative conflict indicates you are merely caught in the negative conflict
pattern.
That conflict has natural origins that can be understood.
What is happening in the moment which will curb your reactivity and make you less
likely to harm your relationship.
Tools and strategies to interrupt the pattern and a system to approach conflict in a
constructive rather than destructive way.
So that you will feel the benefits of:
Happier relationships
Elegant communication
Connection and love
Positive energy
Healthy environment for you and your family
Security and support
The ability to find solutions
More productive and successful work environment
Intimacy and sharing
Peaceful home life
Purpose and clarity
Increased passion
Affection and warmth
Congruency and balance
Joy and fun
This book gives a fast, straight-forward, comprehensive yet simple approach to handling
conflict differently, starting right now. It has been written so that most people can
comfortably read it in one sitting and get answers today. When relationships are in deep and
serious trouble, the point comes eventually when the next fight is the last fight. This book is
meant to provide immediate tools, immediate understanding, immediate change, and
immediate damage control for relationships.
People rarely know when they use these patterns because word selection is an unconscious
process, but having learned the skills and knowledge in this book, you can feel better now
because once you know the pattern you can never 'not know it', again!
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The skills in this book are easy to learn because you relate the tools to your own situation.
As soon as you are made aware of them, you are already there, so implementing the new
learning is almost effortless.
Imagine having the skills to understand your situation with clarity and handle conflict
episodes elegantly.
Doesn’t that feel better already?
When now would be a great time to take control of your life, to see and feel the difference in
your level of happiness as you uncover these secrets?
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“People tend to leave relationships only as a last resort of self-preservation
when they feel they have no alternatives and don’t know what else to do. If
you ask someone who has left a significant relationship, they will generally
admit that had they known a way to resolve things, they would have tried
it. Most people will also generally share that they still love the person who is
no longer a part of their life. Even if we don’t leave our relationships, some
of us simply give up.
"If your relationships are hitting the same rough spots, if you find yourself
withdrawing, if you feel frustrated, hurt, or unresolved, especially if your
conflicts are with the people you care the most about, I wrote this book for
you." - Faith Deeter, MFT
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Best Wishes and Good Luck,
Faith Deeter
Faith Deeter, MFT is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist
in private practice. She is a Life Coach, Transformational Trainer,
and founder of Galloping Thru Life equine facilitated therapy.
Faith is an author, speaker, horsewoman, and cancer survivor.
Visit me at: www.faithdeeter.com
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I read the book "Conflict Pattern Revealed" out of sheer curiosity. It was written in clear,
comprehensible prose, and was easy to read through in one sitting. What struck me when I
read it, is that even though I have come far in revealing my own pattern, there is always
something to learn by everything we encounter. From this book I will take with me that on
my part, I do deliver some pretty nasty parting shots, when enough stressed by a sibling who
does excel in the guilt trip. I have realised I must even harder strive to find common ground
by asking more questions, and by being more clear in my validation of my sibling's feelings.
Both of us will gain from such an approach. - Viktoria Harrysson, Sweden
