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Nancy Wasson, Ph.D. -- Co-Author of "Keep Your Marriage"
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_"If I had read your book three months ago, I wouldn't be having
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--MARRIED 5 YEARS, COLORADO
Dear Upset Spouse,
Of course you want a happy marriage. Everyone does.
But does it seem like your marriage is falling apart in front of
your eyes? And you don't know what to do?
Don't give up. There's still hope for you even if your spouse:
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REFUSES TO GO TO MARRIAGE COUNSELING,
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ISN\'T "IN LOVE" WITH YOU ANY LONGER,
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WANTS A MARRIAGE SEPARATION,
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DOESN\'T KNOW IF HE OR SHE WANTS TO STAY MARRIED,
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HAS ASKED FOR A DIVORCE, or
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IS ALREADY LIVING SEPARATELY FROM YOU.
It can feel like the end of the world when a spouse says "I DON'T
LOVE YOU ANYMORE" or "I'M LEAVING."
Especially if you didn't see it coming.
You've probably found that the announcement impacts every aspect of
your life, and now you may be wondering if you can keep your balance.
If you're like most people in your situation, you're probably
feeling scared and confused, not knowing what to do next. And the
truth is you're not alone. You've got plenty of company of others like
you who don't know what to do.
I CAN HELP YOU STOP DIVORCE AND SAVE YOUR MARRIAGE
For many years I've counseled so many spouses like you who've been
in a similar predicament. And I've learned a lot from clients JUST
LIKE YOU about what works and what doesn't work in trying to keep a
marriage together.
If you're going to stop divorce, you need to:
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Know that there's always hope that you can save your marriage,
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Avoid doing what hurts your relationship,
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Know what steps to take that have worked successfully for other
couples, and * Take immediate action to stop the downward slide and
start moving forward.
Besides my 25 years as a counselor, I think my personal experience
also gives me credibility. Through the years, I've learned the hard
way that "happily-ever-after" endings don't just happen and that I
can't pin the blame for all marriage problems on my partner.
The truth is, my husband Lee and I sometimes do have disagreements
that make us butt heads. But we've discovered that the quality of a
marriage doesn't depend on avoiding disagreement.
Instead the excellent quality of our marriage depends on being able
to disagree without inflicting permanent damage to the relationship.
And it depends on how we recover from conflict between us.
The good news for you is that it's never too late to change and to
decide to do a "makeover" project on yourself. As you change yourself,
the ripple effect of the changes will be felt in your marriage and in
every area of your life.
But you have to take the first step before anything different can
happen. And I want you to have what Lee and I have found to be
attainable -- a marriage of mutual respect, laughter, love and
passion. A soul connection.
You can have it too. All you do is FOLLOW A SIMPLE SYSTEM that I'll
show you.
You probably weren't taught positive marriage-building skills in
school. If you're like most people, you're having to learn on your
own.
And there are two main ways people usually learn: by trial and error
or by finding out what people who are successful do.
YOU DON'T HAVE TIME TO WASTE on trial and error attempts to
discover what will save your marriage. You need to know what precise
steps to take right now to keep your spouse from bolting out of the
marriage.
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--MARRIED EIGHT YEARS, MOTHER OF TWO
DO YOU HAVE THESE SYMPTOMS OF MARITAL DISTRESS?
Many in your situation experience these emotions and thoughts as
their marriage is unraveling:
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DEVASTATED - "I've lost my dream of marital happiness."
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HOPELESS - "I don't know what to do."
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PESSIMISTIC - "Even marriage counseling probably won't help."
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ANGRY, especially if there's been an affair - "How could he (or
she) do this?"
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EMBARRASSED - "What will I tell my family, friends, and neighbors?"
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AFRAID - "How can I handle this financially? I've read that an
average divorce in the U.S. costs over $20,000."
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WORRIED - "How will the kids be affected if we divorce?" * LONELY
- "How will I find someone else? I don't want to deal with the dating
scene again."
One of my clients who went through divorce told me "I\'D MUCH RATHER
HAVE 10 ROOT CANALS DONE ON ME THAT TO GO THROUGH THAT AGAIN. "
Unfortunately, this experience is all too common.
It doesn't have to happen to you!
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---MARRIED FOR 6 YEARS, NEW JERSEY
IF YOU WERE GIVEN ONE WISH...
ISN\\'T THIS THE KIND OF MARRIAGE YOU\\'D WANT?
Lee and I think of our relationship as if we had two bank accounts
in a "relationship bank". He has an account with me, and I have an
account with him.
Every time one of us does something nice for the other, it's like
making a "goodwill" deposit in that person's bank account. But if a
person does something irritating to the partner, it's like making a
goodwill withdrawal from their account.
We have a goal of maintaining a positive balance with each other on
a daily basis. Every single day, we want to make bigger deposits than
withdrawals with each other. By making sure our accounts with each
other are never "overdrawn," we keep our marriage healthy.
Using this method, when you've built up large positive reserves of
goodwill with each other, your relationship is in good shape. That
way, when you need to ask for extra understanding or patience from
your spouse, you have enough goodwill accumulated in your account to
cover the request.
What Lee and I get from this system is we feel motivated to put
frequent deposits into our account with the other person. Deposits can
be STROKES OF AFFECTION, A GESTURE OF RESPECT, AN ACKNOWLEGEMENT FOR
SOMETHING THE OTHER HAS DONE, OR SOME KIND OF COMPLIMENT TO THE OTHER
PERSON.
Yes, it takes some effort to establish the habit of making goodwill
deposits on a daily basis. But building up large goodwill reserves
with each other feels so good that it's addictive. And once you get
started it feeds upon itself! As you repeat making your deposits with
your partner, you condition yourself and you condition the
relationship itself.
YOU FIND YOUR MARRIAGE SPIRALING UPWARD TO HEIGHTS YOU NEVER
IMAGINED. And as you apply this and my other recommendations, you'll
find that you are bonding more to your partner. Emotional intimacy is
enhanced, mutual respect is increased, and sex becomes better. And
aren't those the things that you really want?
CHECK THE KIND OF MARRIAGE IMPROVEMENT YOU WANT
Which of the following kinds of improvement do you want in your
marriage?
Increased intimacy
Enhanced communication
More fun
Better sex
Less conflict
What if you could have some or all of these things with your
spouse? What would it be worth to you?
DON\'T GIVE UP ON IMPROVING YOUR MARRIAGE! There's still hope for
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November 2004
(Later, the same person wrote me the following email.)
_"Just a small note to tell you that I am back with my beautiful
wife, working on our fantastic future...Anyway, our lives are back on
track and I am the luckiest person alive. With the kindest regards and
thanks." _
--MARRIED FOR 12 YEARS, AUSTRALIA February 2005
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Your spouse's announcement of unhappiness is serious but it doesn't
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DON'T ACCIDENTALLY PUSH YOUR SPOUSE OUT THE DOOR
It's important to realize that certain impulsive reactions from you
could push your partner to leave the marriage. Don't blast him (or
her) with questions. Don't overpower him with rage.
Yes, you may feel justified to act in these ways.
But be careful with behaviors that could shatter your chances for
marital recovery. You can shoot yourself in the foot if you do the
wrong thing now.
I've seen clients throw a fit when they got the announcement "I
don't love you anymore." But just as a raging bull can destroy a china
shop , unleashed fury can ruin any chance of patching things up.
Explosions never hold anything together. Especially in a marriage.
But they can SABOTAGE YOUR FUTURE with your spouse if you're not
careful. Because there's still a chance for you to have a happy
marriage if you know what to do.
_"I have devoured the book! It has totally changed the way I view
my situation, my responses and my attitude...I see definite areas of
needed improvement. I thank you for such valuable information."_
-- MARRIED 25 YEARS, FATHER OF ONE, ARIZONA
WHY YOU CAN'T ARGUE WITH YOUR SPOUSE'S FEELINGS
You may want to tell your spouse that she (or he) is wrong for
having feelings of wanting to leave the marriage.
I've seen quite a few partners who try to talk their mates out of
having the feelings that have finally bubbled to the surface and now
threaten the marriage.
But it won't work.
Such efforts to change the mind of the partner are futile and are
destined to fail. Why? Because there is a history of unhappiness
behind the words.
And YOU CAN'T CHANGE HISTORY WITH AN ARGUMENT!
What has happened is that a history of dissatisfaction has built up
on the side of the spouse threatening to leave. Whether the surprised
partner considers the reasons given to be valid or not doesn't alter
the fact that the unhappiness exists.
_Whatever you do..._
_DON'T FALL INTO THE TRAP OF ARGUING OR TELLING YOUR PARTNER THAT
SHE (OR HE) IS WRONG._
Why?
Because her perception is her reality.And it's the basis for her
feelings and the decisions she makes. You will only make your mate
defensive and more entrenched in her viewpoint if you make the mistake
of arguing.
_"Thank you so much for writing this book! Last night my husband
told me that he wasn't sure that he wanted to stay together. Well, I
read the majority of the book and wrote my husband a note that took
responsibility for my actions over the last 7 years. _
_Up until that note he didn't even know if he wanted to have dinner
with me to talk things over. He also admitted that he is part of the
blame, too. But it was probably the first time that I took full blame
for what I and only I have done. _
_Thank you so much for giving me the chance to work out my marriage.
It is now up to me and God to follow through with my promises! All My
Gratitude."_
--MARRIED 7 YEARS, FLORIDA
WHY FIGHTING YOUR SITUATION WILL HURT YOU
The first thing you must do is accept the situation as a given.
You'll need to accept your spouse's discontent if you want to
positively influence the disastrous turn your marriage is taking.
Even if you disagree with the reasons your mate gives you for being
unhappy.
THIS DOESN'T MEAN YOU HAVE TO AGREE with your partner's reasons.
Not at all.
Nor does it necessarily mean accepting the partner at his (or her)
word if he says that he's leaving.
But if you understand the true meaning of acceptance, you'll
understand how it can mean the difference between divorce and a happy
union.
You have to start where the other person is when you're trying to
understand why they feel as they do. And you have to acknowledge the
reality that your spouse has differing perceptions and feelings.
They aren't "wrong." They're JUST DIFFERENT FROM YOURS. Failure to
acknowledge this will hurt your chances of patching things up.
IS YOUR HANDLING OF YOUR MARRIAGE CRISIS ACTUALLY HASTENING DIVORCE?
Your actual reaction to crisis isn't based on what happens to you.
Instead your reaction is based on your interpretation of what
happens to you and what you believe it means.
One man's wife might announce that she wants a divorce. His
unconscious belief is that his wife is leaving him because he is
inadequate and this means that he's not a good person. And therefore,
he's not lovable or attractive. _So he reacts with rage because he
feels threatened._
Another husband might react with sympathy and concern for his wife.
He might believe that the wife is under stress and needs emotional
support. He asks himself if his excessive hours at the office have
driven a wedge between them.
He reaches out to her to try to reestablish a connection.
These are two very different reactions. And each response will
produce its own very different outcome in a marriage.
I'll show you how to reevaluate your reactions to get the results
you want.
FOUR DIFFERENT REACTIONS TO A CRISIS SITUATION
WHICH ONE IS YOURS?
There are four typical ways in which you might react when your
spouse threatens to leave you:
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GIVE UP. You might decide that your spouse has already made up his
mind. Maybe you are thinking that divorce is a done deal. But this
could be a hasty judgement on your part.
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TRY TO CONTROL YOUR SPOUSE. Here, you might try to talk her out of
leaving. You could try to make her feel guilty or tell her that she'll
never find someone who'll love her like you do. This approach will
almost always backfire on you. * DECLARE OPEN WAR. In your raging
fury, you start telling anyone who'll listen how you've been done
wrong. You criticize your spouse loudly and often. This is a direct
path to divorce.
These approaches will not save your marriage.
The fourth strategy is the one that works:
* BOUNCE BACK LIKE A RUBBER BALL. In this scenario, at first you
are thrown off balance like everybody else. Your emotions rage like a
storm. But then you recover your balance and you start taking
proactive steps to recover your marriage.
THIS IS THE STRATEGY I'LL TEACH YOU.
HOW YOU CHOOSE TO REACT IS YOUR CALL
BUT THE WRONG CALL COULD END YOUR MARRIAGE!
It's up to you to decide which of these approaches you want to
follow. If you've chosen a response but you're not happy with the
results you're getting, you can choose to change your situation.
You don't have to stay stuck in a way of reacting that isn't working
for you or helping your marriage.
It's important to remember that YOU CAN CHOOSE TO CHANGE YOUR
REACTION ANYTIME.
Just decide to do so.
You're probably familiar with the saying, "If you keep doing what
you've always done, you'll just get more of the same."
You always have the opportunity to decide how you will react to a
situation.
If your first reaction is to give up, you can decide to take a
different approach instead. If a painter doesn't like the colors he
has initially picked, he paints over the canvas and selects different
colors.
A writer who doesn't like the story she's writing can decide to
start a new story. So can you.
I'll teach you ways to transform your self awareness in ways that'll
help you react to stressful situations differently.
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YOU CAN CREATE A NEW MARRIAGE EVERY DAY...IF YOU KNOW HOW
But if you don't know how, you'll stay stuck where you are. And
unless something changes, your marriage is in trouble.
In one sense you're like a writer of a movie. You are writing the
script of your life each and every day with the decisions and the
choices you make.
And if you have the courage to face the truth and admit that what
you've been doing has not given you the results you want, you can
change yourself and your own actions.
AND THIS WILL CHANGE YOUR LIFE.
If you're willing to take responsibility for your behavior, the way
will be paved for positive change in your marriage. One of the most
powerful decisions that a spouse can make is to commit to taking
responsibility for the quality of his relationship with his partner.
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---MARRIED 12 MONTHS, ARKANSAS
WHAT'LL HAPPEN TO YOU IF YOU DO NOTHING
My guess is that you're afraid that your marriage is probably headed
for divorce, otherwise you wouldn't have read this far. And if you
don't change your direction, you won't change your destination.
But before you make a decision on what to do, I want you to ask
yourself:
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What will be the true cost of your divorce, besides thousands of
dollars? Enormous stress, hundreds of hours of your time, your own
health going downhill? The list goes on.
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Is your marriage worth the effort of learning new ways to reconnect
with your partner?
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If you don't take action now, how much regret will you feel if you
lose your marriage?
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How much pain are you suffering because your spouse is threatening
to leave?
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How would your divorce negatively affect other family members, such
as children, parents, and grandparents?
The answers to these questions give you a good idea of HOW COMMITTED
YOU ARE to keeping your marriage.
So have you convinced yourself to do whatever it takes to preserve
the precious treasure you have--your marriage? Why not take immediate
action instead of continuing to spin your wheels?
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