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Sex Lies & Sabotage
















Are you longing to find the right man, the man of your dreams, your soul mate...without the fear of losing him? 

At Last!  The Secrets To A Long Healthy Relationship Revealed!
Quickly & Easily Learn How To Effortlessly Attract & Create An Unbreakable Bond of Love, Intimacy, and Excitement With The Man of Your Dreams!
 



From The Desk Of: Dr. Pamela










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Have you ever wished you could rub your hands across a magic lamp and instantly create the relationship of your dreams and find the right man who will love you and want to spend the rest of his life with you?  
While this may seem like a fairytale, you really can have a wonderful relationship flourishing with all the love, joy and happiness you deserve.
Yes, it's true! 
Imagine, one night as you’re drifting off into sweet dreamland, a magical Relationship Genie appears to you. She asks you to make three wishes relating to relationships with men.
One by one, as you make your wishes, she says, “Your wish is my command!”  And with each command, presto, it happens!
If this fairytale were possible, would you hurriedly use all three wishes?  Or, would you take the time and think through on your "true" desires for yourself and for the man of your dreams?
At this point you already know the clearer you are about your desires, the faster you can start enjoying your wishes.

In the light of day and in the dark of night, I am your magical relationship genie! 
No, I'm not going to offer you a magic lantern. I am going to do something far more powerful and realistic.









 

You’ll discover the amazing reason why so few women find meaningful love, heart throbbing passion and true excitement—and how you can easily avoid the same pitfalls—and have the man of your dreams.
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Success Starts By Discovering
The Magic Within!

I am here to help you tap into the magic within yourself, your true power, so you can create exactly what you desire in a relationship with a man – a man you are free to love, who matches the desires of your heart.
Like the hundreds of women I have helped in the past, I am here to help you make sense of your connections with men so your life can finally bloom in the heat of love, passion, excitement and intimacy.

The deepest desire of your heart is to find the man that will endlessly adore you and never want to leave your side.
No doubt you've seen others living the dream as you observed the intimate connection they share -- a connection that seems to make them magnetically irresistible to each other. It may very well be a close friend, a family member or someone in your neighborhood. Only you know.
But let me ask you...as you observe other couples, do you often retreat back to your own thoughts and emotions of feeling inadequate and question your own self-worth?
In the years I've been coaching women, I've heard these stories so many times. One of the most striking things I've observed as I sat and listened are women who continually compare themselves with other women.
You know what I mean...
They are always looking for the one special quality that makes "other" women irresistibly attractive. They want to know the secret power to arousing the "lion" within, so to speak…the key to unlocking the door to a man's heart and releasing all the possibilities for passion, excitement and long-lasting relationship success.
Sound familiar?
That is why I am excited to announce the release of my new ebook, "Sex, Lies & Sabotage". 
More on that to come but first...
Who am I -- and most importantly, why should you give me two minutes of your time to discover the hidden secret to finding your lifelong love?


My name is Dr. Pamela Zimmer.. I am a noted Psychospiritual Therapist, who has appeared in Who’s Who in Executives and Professionals. I am also a Relationship Connections Coach, Spiritual Counselor, and a Personal Motivator.
In many ways, you could say I am your new best friend. I've devoted my life to helping women like you rise to a new level of satisfaction, fulfillment and complete wholeness.
I founded the Human Relations Center for Women in 1989 and have been working to serve women ever since. In my capacity as a Therapist, I help women to become fully integrated spiritually, mentally, emotionally and physically.


To put it another way, I am here to help you:






Reach your highest potential from within



Realize your deepest desires



Recognize and honor your "true" connections 



Experience the relationship of your dreams, and...



Discover your true potential for passion, intimacy and meaningful love!





I've helped so many women to awaken to a whole new and exciting reality. By downloading your copy of "Sex, Lies & Sabotage", you can be  empowered with a new sense of confidence, assurance and truth.











"Recently, I went through a very dark time. I felt so hopeless, I just wanted Dr. Pamela to leave me in my misery. And then, one day, she said, 'Ok, if that's what you want, then go.' And she let me go, or she tried to, because in that instant, I gained the courage to fight. Losing to my own pain and feeling sorry for myself weren't options anymore. Pamela knows when to hold your hand and she knows when you need to find your own way.
Now I not only have the courage to allow some one else to love me, I have the courage and the privilege of loving me myself. Pamela, you are the brightest of the bright, and I think you have more wisdom then even you know! Thank you for being you!" 

- Daria Kitano, NY 











And while there are many books and articles written about how to meet a good man, light a flame of passion, or tips for better sex and intimacy, they never address the root causes of why your relationship grows cold.
Really, this new awakening is all you need to know. Once you understand how it all works, it’s almost like having magical powers to:





Attract the exact man of your dreams



Become the woman men fall helplessly in love with



Be the type of woman men want to give everything to



Crush the barriers keeping you from experiencing a life of romance and heated passion



Transform you into the kind of woman that men want to truthfully spend the rest of their lives with





Let me tell you about...
Four Hidden Forces Shaping Your World  
Years ago I discovered an amazing inner truth, which is based on four healthy relationship success keys.
Here they are: You are always reflecting, projecting, emanating, and attracting.
As words alone, they may not mean anything to you.
But, when you understand that these words are actually dynamic forces working in your life right now, creating your daily experience, then they take on a whole new meaning! 

When all four are in harmony, effortlessly working succinctly, you will always have what it is you desire. If however, they become somehow harmoniously disconnected or misaligned, you are destined to live a lonely life... empty of the true and lasting love you deserve.
Since discovering these secrets, I have been able to share this truth with countless women around the world, who have used it and have experienced dramatic changes in their relationships with men. 
Like a Genie in the bottle, learning to use this amazing internal force instantly gives you the "power" to become who YOU really want to be, determines what you have and with whom you will share the rest of your life with. 











"Before I met Pamela, I used to allow myself to be emotionally tied to everyone and everything, out of fear of losing that person, situation etc... As a result, I lost myself. By the time I came to Pamela, I was a complete wreck. It was a long road but Pamela helped me to find myself again.
She has an easy down to earth manner and a sense of humor that will make you laugh on your darkest days. She never gave up on me, and I wasn't easy. I resisted every step of the way.
I had built up so many defenses and was so emotionally tied up inside I couldn't see clearly, and no one could see me... but Pamela could.”
- Jazmin Ruotolo, NY










 
What's even more interesting is that this power is never dormant, nor does it have an "on" and "off" switch.
It's always on - working for you 24 hours a day, 7 days a week, influencing the destiny of your life, carving out your future with men and shaping your daily experience for happiness, intimacy, and passion.
When I work with women, I help them to use the life-changing dynamics of this almost untapped power within to create the relationship they want.

Starting today, I am taking you by the hand to show you step-by-step, exactly what you need to do in order to attract the kind of relationship you truly desire.
In this way, you can quickly make better decisions and easily adopt new choices regarding anything you’re not happy with and want to change.
Instead of sabotaging your existing relationship or killing the chances for success in a future one, the power of these four dynamic principles will be working for you in a positive way, lifting you into new realms of confidence with the man in your life.
But it doesn’t stop there because…in my new book, "Sex, Lies & Sabotage" you will also learn the same process I've taught to others, showing them how to get rid of old, self-sabotaging patterns that no longer serve your best interest for who you "REALLY" are...and hold you back from experiencing what you truly want in life - right now.
You Can Have Your
Relationship
Desires Fulfilled
Once And For All!
"Sex, Lies & Sabotage" is your personal roadmap to long-lasting relationship success. By far, it contains the juiciest secrets to attracting the right man, making him fall in love with you and keeping him under the influence of your "inner power" so he'll want to fulfill your every desire. 











"When I met Pamela, I was in one of a series of unhealthy, dysfunctional relationships, one of them being with my Self. I had unhealthy relationships with men because of an unhealthy relationship with my Self. Pamela helped me to take my life into my own hands - to understand that I am not a victim of what happens to me, but I actually choose what happens to me.
Having the knowledge of that power, being conscious of that power, my power, changed my life. She helped me to express my deeply suppressed anger and disappointments that I held onto throughout my life, from childhood to adulthood, some of which I was not even conscious of, but realized had blocked me from my true potential.
She helped me build my self-esteem... my relationship with my Self, thereby building the healthy relationships I now have with men, women, my friends, family, and the one man I call my husband, soul-mate, and biggest opportunity for further growth. I have never been happier. I am very grateful to have found a person that truly has the best interests of her clients in mind and heart.
Thank you Pamela! "
- Lucie Lamster, Austria










 
When you download your copy today, here's a brief sampling of what you will learn:





How to attract the exact man that makes you feel intimately connected in love.



How to easily come into alignment with your desires and effortlessly create the relationship you want without settling for what you have.



Simple techniques to developing healthy emotional boundaries that tell your partner you are in control of your own self-confidence.



The secrets to uncovering and eliminating hidden, self-sabotaging behaviors lingering at the root of your sub-conscious mind, holding you back from experiencing your true desires.



How to get your mate to automatically open up to you and share his true wants, desires, and wishes.



The secrets to creating a genuine heartfelt bond, which makes you inseparable.



Proven strategies to get your partner to wholly accept who you really are and stop him trying to turn you into something he wants you to be.



The secrets to making men accept and respect your position, thoughts, opinions and point of view.



How to tap into the power within your soul to discover a sense of true intimacy.



A proven way to eliminate the doubt and fear of wondering if you are as sexually pleasing to him as he is to you.



How to harness the unique powers of your own "feminine energy" and use it as a never failing guide to keep you on track to success.





As you apply the principles in your life, one of the many things you will begin to experience is a new awareness of yourself on a “higher personal level”.
The way it affects your relationships is just amazing!  Even the small things change...things you didn’t think were so important.
For instance, no longer will you instantaneously react to small things that make you boil over.
To say it another way, your relationships with men will reflect your personal growth.

This reflection gives you a clearer perspective on things...what works and what you still need to focus on. It's simply your signpost to success. And like any signpost, it will keep you headed in the right direction.











"I had always believed relationships were about taking care of the other person and what their needs were, always above mine. Pamela showed me, through her own experiences, that every relationship is actually a reflection of you! So it's never about the other person, it's always about me! I couldn't understand this at first, because I never even considered my needs or desires when it came to relationships. How could it possibly be about me? And yeah, you always hear, 'You have to love yourself first, before you can truly love another...blah, blah, blah!'
"But Pamela has a wonderful way of explaining things and helping you to see things in a totally different way. And she somehow manages to make you laugh through your own tears. The fact that Pamela shared so much of herself and her own life with me made me think maybe this might work, so I started doing what she said, and putting myself first, and treating myself in the loving. supportive way that I had treated others, and things started to change. There is not one relationship in my life that has not been radically transformed all because I started treating myself better. I mean wow! Who knew this stuff really works! Thanks Pamela! You are truly amazing at what you do!"
- Carolyn Luna, NY











As you become more responsive and less reactive, your partner will become more receptive to you, more interested in how you think and feel and in what you have to say.

"Sex, Lies & Sabotage" will reveal things like:





How to tear down invisible walls serving as a barrier between you and a happy, healthy love relationship.



The secrets to opening your heart and expressing your true feelings, either in words or by simply changing the energy you release.



Easy techniques for breaking down destructive patterns so you can release positive energy into your relationship at will, to shape the mood and tone of your relationship.




The magic of "reflecting" and "projecting" and how to use it to positively charge your relationship with a true sense of meaning.



How to quickly and easily release yourself from unhealthy attachments, addictive and habitual behaviors you’ve relied on as a crutch.



The secrets to healing “old wounds” from the past so you can have assurance and confidence with your guy.



How to leap forward on a new path of faith and courage knowing your future relationships with men are bright.



How to find inner peace and strength in the midst of the storm, when your world seems to be turning upside down.



How to bridge the gap between your heart and mind so your true feelings are always expressed and never left to interpretation.



The secrets to using the “boomerang” effect to keep your relationship filled with laughter, joy and happiness.



How to ignite the sizzling flame of passion quietly crackling between you and your man.



Uncovering the secrets to the heart-pounding, hair-raising, spine-tingling, toe-curling, breathtaking, deeply satisfying relationship you always wanted but never thought you could have… until now!


 
And so much more!




Are You Ready To Put An End To
Relationship Hopping And Find The
Lifelong Man of Your Dreams...Your New
Best Friend, Your Intimate Soul Mate? 
I could go on and on telling you what this new book will do for you. Like many others who have come to me hoping I could breathe new life into their relationships, your best results will come by putting it to the test.
I've prepared this timely information to address the "whole" woman, to help you discover the power of your “true” inner self and to use that power to create the loving relationship you crave.
No longer will you be able to sit back and make silent excuses for why you are unhappy or unfulfilled.
You will know the way.
Discovering the man of your dreams starts
here, even if you are single or married.

In the past, I've coached women who seemed to be very unhappy. Many thought they had simply chosen the wrong man.
However, with my help, I was able to show them that...it was the self-sabotaging actions of their behavior combined with inner feelings of unresolved fear and low self-esteem, fueling the fire of their own self-fulfilling prophesy...a prophesy they know all too well.
Most of the time, this led to making all the wrong decisions about the man they were with, and thus, came to all the wrong conclusions about their relationship.











"I started seeing Pamela when I was in a relationship and things were not going well. I knew that some of the problems stemmed from issues I had not resolved from childhood. She was able to help me figure out why I was doing the things I did that were sabotaging my situation. At times, I was reluctant to believe that maybe I was creating the problems myself.
That was definitely a hard thing to realize. Of course, I wanted to blame someone else but I realized that I can only change myself. I continued my therapy sessions and after some time had passed, I began to feel better. I became more aware of my actions and tried to take steps to improve my situation. Pamela has helped me to better understand my actions. It hasn't always been easy but, with her help, I get a different perspective on the situation. This allows me to approach things differently. She has given me tools that I can use when I am in my head for too long. I still have challenging moments but at least I know I have Pamela to go to for help when I am in a crisis. She is amazing. Her wisdom and knowledge are one of a kind."
- Susie Rabines, NY










In some cases they were ready to give up and walk out, not realizing they had the one person who would completely satisfy them in every way, waiting to be understood and fully received.

Only when I showed them what you are about to discover in "Sex, Lies & Sabotage" were they able to quickly remove the blinders keeping them from seeing the truth. In many cases, they have told me they’ve experienced wonderful changes in the way they relate to each other.
Their relationships, which used to be lifeless, bone-dry and as boring as a dead cactus, were now new and full of life, full of happiness, joy and excitement!

Are you ready to enjoy a deeper sense of intimacy, experience enduring passion and rise to a new realm of relationship bliss?
You can have the same results they had...starting today!











"I accredit all my recent success to Pamela. She is the only person who could teach me how to know myself and love myself. Our discussions have enabled me to realize my inner truth. I recognize things about myself now that I would never have known before...things that I love! Fear and anxiety are gone. Now that I know who I am, and moreover accept who I am, I have been able to flourish as an independent woman. Inner peace has arrived. Pamela has made me see my inner goddess and I will never ignore or suppress her again. Friends and family comment about how great I look. My boss compliments me on how much money I am bringing in.
I now feel great about my external relationships as well - with my family and friends. Also, my boyfriend and I have never known such compatibility until I met Pamela. We connect on a much deeper level now. Pamela opened up my eyes to so many mistakes women and men make unknowingly in their relationships. Most can be easily avoided - if you know what to look for. Pamela can help you with that. My boyfriend and I are now both getting what we want out of our relationship with each other and we have never been happier.
Thank you Pamela."
- Jennifer Saccone, NY










If You’re Single This May Be The Most Important Information You’ll Ever Receive.
Why? The time to start working on your "own best self" is not after you are married, but now!  
Sure, you could experiment by trying to figure out what you really want in a man, but wouldn't it be a shame to waste a lot of time on that alone when you could be enjoying a satisfying and fulfilling relationship from the start?
Start tapping into your inner power right now to attract the exact person you desire without having to spend years going from one relationship to the next.
See, the fact of the matter is, you can't argue with results and "Sex, Lies & Sabotage" will produce the results you quickly desire.
By now, you are probably wondering
what it’s all going to cost?
The real question you should be asking is how long are you willing to live your life in an unsatisfied and unfulfilled way?
Even more, how long are you willing to delay the pleasure of discovering true passion, intimacy, and the excitement of your own soul mate?
I am convinced many women will live and die and never connect with the one true person which life has wonderfully planned for them.
If you are like most, you will continue to struggle in your relationship for years, always feeling unhappy, dissatisfied and looking for the next person in line…your Knight in Shining Armor...the person you think is destined to mysteriously show up in your life and rescue you from your own self-inflicted unhappiness.
You will continue to attract into your life what you've always been getting, unless you learn the secrets to changing it all.
My friend, it doesn't have to be that way.
Seriously, has your relationship been that good?...and even if it has signs of life, wouldn't you like to make it better?  Things can be better for you starting today!



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This never before shared manifesto contains the same affirmations I’ve developed and used to quickly transform my subconscious mind to a level of power producing results. But more than a manifesto to live by, it’s my personal mantra.
I’ve never released this to the public before, but now, for the first time, I’ve decided to include these life-changing affirmations to help you encounter rapid changes during this refreshing time of rediscovering the power of your true inner Self.
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By now, you are already beginning to sense a growing feeling of "excitement" knowing you have never been as close to discovering your true partner as you are right now. 
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You owe it to yourself to at least check it out. I can promise... you won't be disappointed.
Today is the day of decision. In every person's life there's one BIG moment that either leads them to life-changing solutions they need to get through critical and painful periods, or it slips by without notice.
This is YOUR moment. You'll either click away to another site, go on one more boring date with another man or seek to find the answer in other activities which only brings temporary results. Or, you'll order today and learn the secrets to attracting and keeping your soul mate, which is what your heart truly longs for.

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Your Relationship Genie,

Dr. Pamela
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Still not convinced?
Now that you’ve discovered you can tap into the magic within yourself, your true power, so you can create exactly what you desire in a relationship with a man who matches the desires of your heart, I thought I’d share what four others had to say below:












I've learned through my connections with men that the most important person I have to connect with is my Self.
"I've known Pamela for years. She has seen me through many ups and downs. Pamela has always been there for me with her loving support - when I fell, when I rose up, and when I hit a plateau. The amazing part is that she never judged me; she just accepted me where I was at each point in time. I felt true unconditional love and real acceptance coming from her always. Wow! "I've learned through my connections with men that the most important person I have to connect with is my Self. When I don't honor me, in fact, I allow others, and especially men, to dishonor me as well. It's as if they follow my lead and learn from me how to treat me. Who knew? "I am now at a place in my life where my career is taking off, I am beginning to make lots of money and, best of all, I am loving my Self. I can see how this love within me is my True Power and how it automatically emanates to others. When it comes to men, I am actually in the process of creating that ideal soul partner connection and relationship within my Self first. Then, through the Law of Attraction, I'll be able to draw into my life exactly what I desire with clarity and bring that desire into full manifestation. "Thanks to Pamela, I am feeling fulfilled without an actual man in my life, so that, when the time is right, I won't need him to complete me. I'll only desire him to complement and enhance my life. YAY TO EMOTIONAL INDEPENDENCE! YAY TO CONTINUAL EVOLVEMENT! YAY TO SELF-LOVE! YAY TO ME! YAY TO PAMELA!
THANK GODDESS SHE'S HERE!"
- Alana Karagianakis, NY










 











Thru the years, with Pamela's guidance, I've been able to see more clearly the role I've played in my relationships with men!
"From the very start, Pamela has worked with me on helping me to better understand myself as an individual and to gradually learn to fit into my own skin and love the woman that I am. She has fully supported me in this process with the right amount of nurturing and insight. Pamela has guided me in recognizing how to take responsibility for my place in this world. "As far as my relationships with men...hmmm...yes, we know how much I HATE to LOVE that subject... "Thru the years, with Pamela's guidance, I've been able to see more clearly the role I've played in my relationships with men. How the men I chose to become involved with had more to do with reflections of how I actually saw myself. And the type of men I attracted as a result. Because Pamela has helped me to see that, I can make better choices that are in my best interests and that come from a loving place within myself."
- Marilyn Mineo, NY










 











Pamela completely blew my mind when she told me her take on relationships!
"When I first met Pamela, to put it mildly, I hated men. I didn't realize this at the time. Then, I blamed them for being such losers. I remember Pamela used to cringe at the stories I would tell about how badly I treated them, but my heart was so closed, I didn't see it myself. I thought it was all on them. I didn't see that I literally beat them into being losers. Then Pamela completely blew my mind when she told me her take on relationships. She basically put all the responsibility on me. She told me how men live for us, and they can only go as far as we let them. She showed me that the anger I had at them was really with myself. I believed I was unlovable and any man who had the nerve to love me was going down. I was terrified of love itself! Pamela helped me release the anger and the heartbreak underneath all that rage. She's very brave. I had some very dark, scary moments and she stayed with me. "Recently, I went through a very dark time. I felt so hopeless, I just wanted her to leave me in my misery. And then, one day, she said, 'Ok, if that's what you want, then go.' And she let me go, or she tried to, because in that instant, I gained the courage to fight. Losing to my own pain and feeling sorry for myself weren't options anymore. Pamela knows when to hold your hand and she knows when you need to find your own way. Now I not only have the courage to allow some one else to love me, I have the courage and the privilege of loving me myself. Pamela, you are the brightest of the bright, and I think you have more wisdom then even you know!
Thank you for being you!"
- Daria Kitano, NY










 











If you believe you are deserving of a good and equal relationship, then you can have that too!
"One way Pamela has really helped me is in the way I view myself today. Before, I didn't really think in terms of me being 'empowered' in my relationships with men. Without consciously being aware of it, I operated as if men had the power, so I in turn put men 'above' me without realizing it. One of the first things Pamela said to me when we started our sessions together was not to put men on a pedestal, that they are not above you. At first, when she said that, I thought, 'Well, of course not, I don't do that.' But as we got deeper in our sessions, I realized that, by not feeling like I had any real power in my relationships with men, I was in fact putting them above me and operating as if they had all the power. So if I'm not acting like I have power, and she's saying men don't really have the power, then who has it? And I came to realize, as a woman, if I'm acting disempowered, then my relationships are going to suffer because they're only going to thrive if I feel empowered. But I learned from Pamela it has to be real. I can't just say it and think it. I have to start truly empowering myself. "How many times have we heard women utter the words 'women are stronger, men are weaker,' etc, but somehow while they're saying it, you get the sense that they've either become fed up with men (and you can't have a good relationship if you're fed up!), or else women say it, but they don't really live their lives like they believe it. "My point is, Pamela helped me to see how if you as a woman start out feeling disempowered in your relationships, then you're pretty much going to guarantee yourself having a 'disempowered' relationship. If you believe you are deserving of a good and equal relationship, then you can have that too. But you can't just believe it with your mind. You have to feel the truth of it in your heart and soul. That's where real change comes from, and that's what Pamela helps you get at. Because in order to have healthy relationships, every part of you has to believe you can help create them, and if some part of you doesn't believe it, Pamela is gifted in helping you become aware of your own internal blocks to start unblocking and freeing yourself. "Pamela has helped me to become more self-aware and get way more in touch with myself, all the different parts of me, particularly the parts that aren't 'pretty' or parts I was conditioned to believe are unacceptable because I considered them bad. But in the couple of years I spent working with her, she helped me to 'get' how it's not about being good, or bad, but being whole and working with and accepting all the different parts of myself, so that I could begin to have a healthier relationship with myself, and that automatically helped with all of my other relationships."
- Liisa Lunden, NY










 

 
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