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A better life awaits you both!
Do you want . . .
More Intimacy
Less Conflict
Better Communication
Fewer Arguments
Less Distance
More Respect
Less Defensiveness
More Kindness
Less Criticism
More Security
Less Anxiety
Most importantly, are you looking for professional advice that is tailored to you?
You must know that, while general advice is always helpful, my advice is tailored to your temperament.
It will offer you greater relevance and usefulness.
The Preface will help you to understand which of the 4 Temperaments you are, and which is your partner.
Learn about the 2 Common Denominators in All Marriages.
How to manage your feelings when they get out of control.
How your frustration can be used to channel your energy.
The difference between needs, and wants.
What to do with “The 4 Killer Viruses” that are attacking your marriage.
Just how close to death is your marriage?
What to do if you have already tried therapy?
Are you struggling with a sexless marriage?
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What defines “abuse” and what to do about it?
The place of apathy in your relationship.
The single most powerful antidote for a dying marriage.
How to become a strong, healthy, and centered YOU!
How to grow from being a Child, to a Rebel, to an Adult, to an Outlaw . . . and on to being a Lover.
Learn about the importance of being a non-anxious presence.
Discover what makes a truly healthy person.
How to strengthen your heart and soul.
Why it is better to connect with your souls, than your egos.
How to move from an ego-to-ego relationship, to a soul-to-soul marriage.
Evaluate which of the 4 Healthy Relationships you have, or want.
Do you have the 1 Type of Relationship that NEVER works?
Identify the 12 Incubators in which grow the 4 Viruses that will kill your marriage.
Why we can’t stand real intimacy, and what to do about it.
The 8 Treatments that will cure you from the 4 killer Viruses.
The 6 Ground Rules that will keep you in effective control while you are rebuilding your marriage.
The 4 Keys to Creating Health in your marriage.
How the “Fever of Negativity” is sucking life out of your marriage.
The “4 Prescriptions” for the Fever of Negativity.
The “Double Binds that Drive You Crazy”
How to calm down and hold your own hand in the midst of anxiety.
5 Exercises for Strengthening Your Grip on Life
6 Steps to follow when you just want to get a grip!
3 questions to ask when you want to lighten your grip.
How to survive the breaking point, when it’s do, or die!
9 tips on how you can keep your new marriage strong and alive!
When to encourage others to save their own marriage.
What makes me convinced I can help you?
You might be wondering who I am and what qualifies me to offer advice to you. Well, I’m a “seasoned Marriage and Family Therapist,” which means I’ve worked over 60,000 hours with people just like you, over a 30-year career. Trust me, I’ve heard just about everything from the literally thousands of people who have sat in my office and poured out their life story. Oh, I still get surprised now and then, but not often. I study Marriage and Family Therapy in order to keep my skills sharp, and for the sheer enjoyment of it. I am truly doing work that thrills me.
Back to the Appendix!
I’ve read a lot of “self help books” in my day. One of the features I wish was included in every such book was a list of questions, chapter by chapter, that would help me to think through the critical issues presented in the body of the book.
Dr. Andrew D. Atwood
Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Certified Social Worker, Clinical Member of the American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy
Well, that is exactly what I’ve done for you. 6 pages of questions, corresponding to the topics in my book, are all included in the Appendix. I promise you, that if you take the time to read You Can Save Your Marriage and the work through the questions in the Appendix, you will be on top of your marriage in no time at all. I promise.
Of course, You Can Save Your Marriage comes with a 100% guarantee. If, after honestly working through my book . . .
The Preface with the material on your Temperament Types according to Myers and Briggs
The Body of the book itself
The 6 page Appendix with all the Questions that will sharpen your thinking and decision making . . .
If, after all of that you are still unsatisfied, you have 90 days to ask for a complete refund, no questions asked.
Are You Aware of the 5 Stages of Change?
The FIRST Stage is “Precontemplation.” You are already past that.
The SECOND Stage is “Contemplation.” You are here, now, because you are considering a change in your relationship. The Contemplation Stage can go on for some time, most likely months.
The THIRD Stage is “Preparation.” This is where planning takes place.
The FOURTH Stage is “Action.” You guessed it; this is where you put your plan into action.
The FIFTH Stage is “Maintenance.” Yes, you will get to the point where you will have saved your marriage, and you can maintain the new life you have created.
You Can Save Your Marriage
is 134 pages long.
You can order a downloadable eBook easily, and have it in your possession in minutes.
And here is a FREE Gift!
“How to confront your partner.”
A lot of people email with a question, and one of the most frequently asked questions is this: “How do I confront my partner with my need for a change, without hurting my partner?”
The woman who really spurred me on to write this 10 page paper, in a dialogue format, specifically wanted to know how to confront her husband about the extra weight he had put on and how it turned her off sexually. A really tough question.
“How to confront your partner” is yours for FREE. It will be delivered to you on our "Thank You Page" right after you order my eBook, You Can Save Your Marriage.
So there you have it!
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Thanks so much for taking the time to read through this. You are on your way to saving your marriage!
Dr. Andrew D. Atwood
Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist
Certified Social Worker
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