What Women Want!
September 21, 2007
How many men out there would love to be a fly on the wall when numerous women
divulge what it is they are really looking for from a man?
In order for you to understand what it is that women want you must change your
way of thinking. If you are reading this, then you are probably looking for some
solutions. For those of you who want to continue getting the same results you’ve
been getting, don’t change a thing. If you want better results and a better
understanding of what women want, you need to a look at it from a different
perspective. Her perspective! A lot of it just involves being a typical MAN! The
average woman has a lot to say about what works with her. Lets face it guys, if
women don’t respond to you, I wouldn’t count on them to change. This is the point
where those who are ready for change leave behind those who aren’t willing to
change. If you want to understand what she wants, then you have to learn how she
thinks. If you can do so, you will cease to be the invisible guy and start to become
more like the guys women are attracted to.
Instead of telling you my opinion of what women want, I went straight to the source
and asked numerous women what they were looking for in a man. If you pay
attention to not only her words, but also how she describes grabbing her attention,
you will get a much better understanding. Here is what I asked: When a guy
introduces himself, what is it you notice that grabs or holds your attention to him?
"I look for good eye contact, hygiene, and the lack of a chip on his shoulder. An
honest smile and good conversation are important too."
"First thing I take note of are his eyes. Do his eyes match his smile and his words?
How comfortable is he with eye contact, etc."
"I notice the eyes and the smile they both have to grab my attention."
"His eyes and voice hold my attention. I pay attention to what he's talking about
and the way he talks. He would have to say something that I didn't like or come off
too strong."
"Physically… smile, eyes and hair. Personality…(first 10 min)…polite and
respectful; can make me smile; what kind of company he keeps."
"He definitely must maintain eye contact--if they don't I assume they are lying or up
to no good."
"First, his eyes, second, the way he talks, and last, the way he presents himself. If
he walks up standing up straight and looking like he is sure of himself, that is a big
perk. Also, you can tell immediately if a man is honest by his eyes."
"Personally, I feel that good sense of humor is the best thing on a guy."
"He has to be confident.. that's a major thing.. well-spoken, smiles, and offers a
little humor, but not excessive. If he was too timid, you might think he lacked decent
social skills and couldn't hold a conversation."
"Smile, teeth, and eye contact during introduction. Those would be the things I
would notice upon introduction. Intelligent conversation would hold my attention."
"How he introduces himself and if he initiates/maintains eye contact. His
confidence Overpowering or too confident is a turn off. Feeling his undivided
attention, he's not taking cell phone calls, etc. A 'line' is so phony. I watch his lips
and check out his teeth. Hands too. Points if he uses my name when carrying on a
conversation --- not sweetie or honey or baby or sugar. Arrogance is a turn off.
Confidence is a plus. There is a difference. Overpowering cologne is a turn off. If
we are in a restaurant/bar, etc, how he treats the waiting staff. Is he smiling? Does
he seem happy? Is he too pushy? Friendly? Showboat type? Is he a
namedropper?"
"I usually notice his eyes and his smile. I like a man that looks me straight in the
eye and has a nice smile. I then notice his grooming and whether he is clean and
neat. This is strictly my opinion but I know a lot of my friends share this opinion as
well."
"His overall attitude and if he seems genuinely friendly and respectful. I would be
turned off by a man whose appearance was sloppy, if was rude or disrespectful, or
he didn't make eye contact."
What do women want? Women want a man who defines himself by who he is and
what he does. Who he is, is defined by your characteristics. What he does, is
defined by your positives and negatives. If your character is someone who she is
attracted to, and your positives outweigh your negatives, you will have what women
want. The question is, do you have the will to be that kind of person?
~ William Edwards
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