Melt Your Man’s Heart
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* Warning: If Your Man has Become Cold, Distant and
Uninterested in You, Your Relationship May be on the
Brink of a Breakup and You Must Act Immediately
BUT THERE IS HOPE: LATEST RELATIONSHIP SCIENCE REVEALS GROUNDBREAKING
METHODS TO:
* Make You Irresistible to Your Man…
* Re-ignite the Passion and Romance in Your Relationship…
* Make Him Genuinely Interested in Re-building a Deeply Fulfilling
and Intensely Loving Relationship with You in 90 Days or Less…
I want you to ask yourself these 3 powerful questions:
* Has your man started to act cold and distant?
* Has he become non-responsive, dismissive or just plain
uninterested in you?
* Has he pulled back, is he no longer intimate and has he lost his
passion for you?
_IF SO, THIS IS A HUGE WARNING SIGN AND YOU MUST ACT IMMEDIATELY
BEFORE IT’S TOO LATE._
Why? Because all of these signs point to the single most devastating
thing that can happen when it comes to how your man feels about
you…and that’s apathy.
Apathy is just a fancy term for complete and utter lack of caring or
interest, in which all emotion has been completely removed… that’s
NOT a good thing for your relationship!
Apathy is like the canary in the coal mine – once your man
doesn’t seem to care anymore, that’s an indication that danger is
headed your way.
You see, once your man stops caring and has lost his emotional
attachment to you, it’s only a matter of time before your
relationship or marriage will self-destruct into a painful,
heart-wrenching break-up.
What’s worse is that when your man doesn’t care anymore, his
eyes start to wonder and he becomes a prime target for other women –
and it shouldn’t be any surprise if you come home one day and find
your man cheating on you.
Yes, that’s awful, it’s not right, but it’s true and it
happens all the time. Infidelity is one of THE most devastating things
that can happen to any relationship…
YOU CAN SAVE YOUR RELATIONSHIP, BUT ONLY IF YOU ACT NOW…
But I have good news for you...
* Just because your man isn’t opening up to you, it doesn’t mean
he won’t…
* Just because he’s uninterested now, it doesn’t mean he
doesn’t still love you…
* Just because he’s cold and distant, it doesn’t mean he can’t
be caring and loving…
There IS in fact hope for you, if you take this all-important step
right now that I’ll explain to you more in this research report.
This step has been scientifically proven to actually re-wire the
emotional connections in your man’s brain to react to you
differently.
This isn’t some type of unethical manipulation – no, this
involves talking and interacting with your man in a way that taps into
how he’s evolved to think, which is fundamentally and totally
different than the way you, a woman, think and act.
Remember the whole Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus thing?
Well, it’s absolutely true and it just plain works…but you have to
do it right or it could make things worse!
Without making this one shift in your relationship, you’ll be
locked into a frustrating spiral of feeling shut out, all alone, with
nowhere to turn and absolutely NO help from your man in saving your
relationship.
But once you make this shift, remarkable things happen:
* Your man starts to open up to you…
* He starts to pay attention to you…
* He begins taking care of your needs and your desires instead of
just his own…
* You unlock his heart and build an unbreakable emotional connection
with him…
* The love, passion and romance come exploding back into your
relationship…
What is this shift I am talking about? Well, let me explain…
WHAT YOU CAN DO TO MELT YOUR MAN’S HEART AND RESTORE THE PASSION,
LOVE AND ROMANCE AND SAVE YOUR RELATIONSHIP IN ONLY 90 DAYS…
Hello, my name is Stephanie Anderson, Editor-in-Chief at
MarriageSherpa.com, the leading authority at helping men and women
save their relationships and marriages no matter what problem they
face.
For the past 8 years, we’ve helped over 50,000 couples save their
relationship and restore the love and passion through the various
programs we offer through our highly-trained, expert, professional
marriage counselors.
Whether it’s infidelity, financial problems, lost passion, lack of
love or anything else, we’ve been able to help thousands of couples
re-build a loving and fulfilling relationship, stop a divorce or
break-up and save their marriage or relationship.
Recently, one of our top marriage therapists Randy Bennett, a
Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist with over 25 years of
face-to-face- counseling experience, explained to me that he had
discovered a simple, but startling effective change that women can
make that virtually guarantees they’ll get what they want from their
husband.
IT’S LIKE NATURE’S VIAGRA FOR YOUR MAN…
By simply being more clear and direct with what your needs are, a
series of events automatically kick in, both physically and
psychologically, that take over and melt your man’s heart and get
him to treat you the way you’ve always wanted.
This may sound like an overstatement, but it’s not.
When you become more assertive, it’s literally like nature’s
Viagra for your man…he won’t be able to keep his hands – or his
attention – off of you! You’ll become the apple of his eye.
WHAT THE ASSERTIVE WOMAN DOES…
When you follow Randy’s 10-Steps to Becoming an Assertive Woman
you’ll develop a healthy sense of self. You’ll be able to tell
your husband what you want, but you’ll never feel the need to hit
him over the head with a stick to express yourself or tiptoe around a
topic.
To a man, this ability to affirm yourself is sexy because a woman
who values herself is giving off a very attractive message that men
respond to… “I value me and I expect you to value me too.”
HOW THE ASSERTIVE WOMAN INFLUENCES HER HUSBAND…
For a husband faced with an assertive wife, he’ll become more
comfortable with you because he knows where you stand. What he’ll
love the most is that he knows he will never have to read your mind
(and we all know how men hate reading our minds.)
Just think about that for a second…how many times in YOUR
relationship has your man begged you to either just tell him what you
want, tell him what to do or tell him what NOT to do????
By being direct and sharing with him exactly what you want, you’ll
relieve him of his biggest sticking point in getting you what you
need.
He’ll trust that you will express to him what you want in an
honest and open way and that you will always let him know if he is
pointed in the wrong direction when it comes to fulfilling your wants
and needs.
WHY THE ASSERTIVE WIFE GETS AND KEEPS YOUR HUSBAND’S ATTENTION
The assertive woman is successful with her husband because her
directness is something a man can understand and relate to. Consider
this…
Think of how men generally communicate with each other: they say
what they need to say. And with women it’s not different: successful
women communicate to men the EXACT way men communicate to men.
* Direct...
* To the point..
* Tell him what you want...
For example, if your husband asks you what you are making for
dinner, you may always respond with, “I am not sure—what do you
want?”
The next time he asks, try this: “I am not sure, but I am leaning
toward making spaghetti because I have a craving for Italian
tonight.”
It is simple, straightforward—and it may be refreshing to your
husband to not have to make the decision. Plus, all men agree that…
BEING ASSERTIVE IS SEXY AND SEDUCTIVE…
To a man, the ability of a woman to stand up for herself is
undeniably sexy—not ‘bitchy’ in the least. When you show your
man that you are someone who can take care of yourself… you’re
proving that you can take care of him (and men drool over that.)
But here’s the important reason why assertiveness is the critical
first step in bringing REAL change to your relationship.
When a woman projects herself with confidence, her ideas and
opinions are heard (especially by her husband.) So, if you want your
husband to change the way he treats you… he needs to hear you.
And this isn’t just psychobabbly nonsense or some theory that
magically came together…NOT, this is a proven technique that the
latest science in research shows works incredibly well.
Let’s take a closer look at what I am talking about.
THE LATEST SCIENCE SHOWS THAT YOUR MAN CAN CHANGE…
What’s remarkable about you becoming more assertive is that the
latest science has shown us that in fact it can actually re-wire your
man’s brain to change.
There is NO biological or neurological reason why your man cannot
transform his habits or behaviors. The simple truth is that he may not
feel motivated to change. At least not until today…
Let me explain by asking you a question…
Have you ever wondered why a certain look, action or word seemed to
flip an internal switch in your man?
Brain research reports published in the New England Journal of
Medicine and research studies performed by Robert Heath of Tulane
University School of Medicine revealed that the brain is equipped with
a number of special-purpose circuits which, when activated, create
powerful mood states that dramatically influence perception,
interpretation and motivations.
Simply stated… the brain has automatic switches that react to
external cues. This is why an innocent word or look from you may
release either an unexpected attack or retreat from your spouse.
It’s automatic and before you even know what’s happening the
damage has already been done.
And all this havoc happens because of a walnut sized part of your
brain called the amygdala. In fact, the two most powerful of the seven
operating systems in the brain are activated by the amygdala: RAGE and
FEAR.
This groundbreaking research was revealed in 1998 by neuroscientist
Jack Panksepp. Not only did this research do wonders for further study
on the connection between the brain and emotional intelligence, but it
opened the door for all kinds of research on relationship studies.
And what we now know is that we can help couples re-wire the
intimacy even when they believed all hope was lost. Here’s how…
HOW TO RESTORE THE INTIMACY EVEN WHEN ALL HOPE IS LOST…
When you continue the same bad habits over and over, the little
walnut size amygdala instructs your brain to go on auto-pilot and lash
out or retreat. This is the “fight or flight” tendency we’re
programmed with.
That would explain why your hair-trigger reaction felt out of
control or why your husband “always does this…” or “never does
that…”
It’s the brains automatic response to bad relationship habits and
it’s a shield designed to protect us from real or perceived harm.
The truth is… you can turn all this around, simply by eliminating
these bad habits.
The good news is that we now know how to help couples stop the
habits that cause their intimacy circuits from getting crossed…this
all goes back to being more assertive.
When you become more assertive, you’ll identify and eliminate the
bad habits that stop the intimacy circuits from shutting down.
You will learn what to do and say to automatically calm his anger
and fear as well as stimulate more vulnerable, connection-generating
states with your husband.
In fact, when you eliminate the bad relationship habits that squeeze
the oxygen out of the love bubble, your brain begins to operate freely
and you’ll both begin to experience feelings of tenderness, the
desire for emotional connection and the urge for passionate sexual
contact.
In fact, it’s amazing how many of Randy’s couples say they feel
like newlyweds again!!!
IT’S REMARKABLY EFFECTIVE…
Not only does the latest science show us the how behind why becoming
assertive is such an aphrodisiac to a man, Randy’s hand’s-on
experience has proven that his methods work in the real world.
For example in 60% of the cases Randy’s worked with, when the
woman changed her approach to become more assertive, she got the
response she’s always wanted because.
This is because the assertive woman:
* Knows understands what motivates her man
* Uses just the right words that accelerate intimacy
* Is irresistibly sexy to her man
Let me share an example of how this works from a real couple:
Loretta and Tom
Loretta and Tom were struggling in their relationship, just like you
are today. Loretta was at the end of her rope, and didn’t think that
that anything would ever repair the damage. Tom had given up in his
own way too – not even willing to try counseling.
But Loretta took the plunge: she implemented changes in herself, and
you see how Tom responded to those changes.
It is possible for you, too. The above is a real story about a real
couple. I know it can be possible because I have witnessed it happen
for couples like Loretta and Tom, over and over and over again, but
there is one warning I must give you…
Because of Randy’s 25 years of experience he understands what
works and what doesn’t work. More importantly he understands the
steps you need to take and the setbacks you may experience when you
decide to take this major step in your relationship.
And in Randy’s 25 years of counseling he’s learned one important
thing…
UNLESS YOU DO THIS THE CORRECT WAY,
YOU COULD ACTUALLY MAKE THINGS WORSE…
Well, you may think that becoming more assertive is as simple as
telling your man exactly what you want. And in some respects it is
that easy, but as you’ve probably guessed, just blasting off demands
left and right probably won’t get you anywhere…in fact, it could
actually make things worse…MUCH worse!
There’s a specific way you need to approach it because if you do
it wrong, you’ll only accelerate the destruction of your
relationship and you’ll soon find yourself either on Match.com, in
divorce court or worse, all alone, so emotionally scarred that you are
afraid to even try the “relationship thing” again!
To do it right, you need the expert guidance from a professional
relationship-saving pro like Randy Bennett who has decades-long
experience specifically with this powerful technique.
But up until now, for many of you, it’s been too expensive to get
access to his expertise.
Whether paying $250 per hour for the standard 10 sessions (over
$2,000 in total) for personal one-on-one counseling (or couples
counseling) or subscribing to our marriage coaching service delivered
via email for $99 per month (add up to hundreds over several months),
many of you found this out of reach.
Which is why I am so thrilled to announce today that Randy has
created a revolutionary program that you can instantly download and
starting using today, called Melt Your Man’s Heart.
This powerful relationship-saving program will show you the precise
way to become more assertive, save your relationship and restore the
passion, romance and love that’s been missing.
For a limited time, Melt Your Man’s Heart is available at a
specially discounted price (more on that in a minute) that’s within
anybody’s budget – particularly if you can just feel something is
wrong and you are afraid your relationship is spiraling out of
control.
I’ll explain in a second how you can get your discounted copy of
Melt Your Man’s Heart, but first, let’s take a closer look at
exactly what’s included in this program.
WHAT YOU’LL GET WITH MELT YOUR MAN’S HEART…
Melt Your Man’s Heart is the new approach to couples therapy.
Inside this new powerful program you’ll learn exactly what to do and
say to influence your husband to treat you better.
I have seen it happen over and over again as editor at
MarriageSherpa.com. Women have come to us desperate for the key to
unlock their husband’s heart so he will fall in love with them once
again.
The good news is that Randy’s program is the key and it’s only
up to you to take action.
You are going to learn new things about yourself in this program as
well as new things about your husband.
You may think you know everything there is to know about yourself,
but you are going to receive some insights that are sure to surprise
you—and make you begin to look at yourself differently, more
objectively, so that you can become the woman who is capable of
becoming more assertive (but in the right way) melting your
husband’s heart and the woman with the…
CONFIDENCE THAT DRIVES HIM WILD…
Inside Melt Your Man’s Heart, Randy will teach you exactly how to
drive him wild by becoming more assertive. You’re man is craving
this because an assertive woman is very attractive to a man…
Once you begin these steps Randy outlines in his program you’ll
start to notice that your ideas and opinions are heard (especially by
your husband).
After you follow Randy’s 10 Steps to Becoming Assertive you’ll
develop:
* THE SKILLS THAT MAKE YOU A PERFECT 10 IN THE EYES OF YOUR HUSBAND.
(These are the skills that attract men like a magnet.)
* 3 QUESTIONS THAT WILL HELP YOU GET CLEAR ON WHAT YOU WANT. (Men
absolutely adore women who know what they want.)
* THE DIRECT METHOD OF COMMUNICATION THAT MEN FIND ATTRACTIVE.
(You’ll learn how you can quickly change the course of a bad
conversation by using a method called Emotional Reaction Redirection.)
* A HIGHLY EFFECTIVE AND HEALTHY WAY TO RELEASE ANY PENT-UP ANGER,
RESENTMENT, DISAPPOINTMENT AND FRUSTRATION BEFORE YOU TALK TO YOUR
HUSBAND. (This will stop every fight before it starts and help your
husband “hear what you’re saying” without feeling overheated.)
* ONE WAY TO ASK HIM FOR ANYTHING AND GET IT WITHOUT HEARING HIM
COMPLAIN OR CRITICIZE. (Your man wants to crawl over broken glass for
you and simply changing how you make a request will instantly remove
any defensive feelings that stop him from giving you what you need.)
This is the woman’s manual for communicating with her man.
Whether you already feel confident, or you feel like your
self-confidence has been run over, the promise of Melt Your Man’s
Heart is that it will help you…
CHANGE YOU AND CHANGE YOUR MARRIAGE…
We’ve already learned how science supports that your spouse can
change… well the good news is that you can change too. And it’s
remarkably easy to kill the bad habits that quash the love when you
have the right coaching.
The truth about lasting change is this… Real change only happens
when we stop the habits that trigger negative responses in the brain.
Inside of Melt Your Man’s Heart, you’ll quickly identify
what’s tearing your relationship apart and what you need to do and
say to draw your husband like a magnet.
Now for the first time you’ll receive Randy’s expert help to:
* STEP INSIDE A MAN’S BRAIN AND SEE HOW HE THINKS. (Get him to
feel more comfortable with you than his buddies.)
* DISCOVER WHERE HIS NEGATIVE ATTITUDE OF YOU CAME FROM. (And how you
can slowly change it forever.)
* DISCOVER THE SINGLE MOST IMPORTANT SUBCONSCIOUS NEED OF A MAN.
(Take notice of this ONE thing and you’ll immediately generate good
feelings and make him feel encouraged, wanted and supported.)
* HOW TO TALK TO HIM THE WAY HE FEELS COMFORTABLE. (I’ll show you
how men communicate and how you can modify your communication to help
him feel relaxed opening up to you.)
* UNCOVER THE ONE SENTENCE THAT WILL STOP HIM FROM TREATING YOU
TERRIBLY. (Once a man hears this, his brain immediately understands
what’s at stake and is hard-pressed not to respond.)
* DISCOVER THE 3 COMMON CRITICISMS WOMEN UNKNOWING MAKE THAT
DISMEMBER THEIR MAN’S SENSE OF MANHOOD. (Men won’t tell you what
discourages them… now you’ll know what not to say before he
retreats.)
* UNCOVER HOW YOUR MAN WANTS TO BE REASSURED. (If you want to see a
smile on his face, start by complimenting him on this...)
* LEARN WHY THE LATEST RESEARCH STUDIES SAY YOU SHOULD NEVER WITHHOLD
SEX. (Sex is a major validation for men. Discover 5 reasons why
withholding sex is relationship homicide.)
* DISCOVER COMMUNICATION DO’S AND DON’TS. (What women say and
what men hear.)
* HOW YOU CAN HELP YOUR MAN EXPRESSES HIS THOUGHTS AND FEELINGS TO
YOU. (Women’s communication tactics often make men feel overwhelmed.
Your man’s distance may simply mean he’s trying to connect with
what you are saying.)
ORDER MELT YOUR MAN’S HEART TODAY…
MELT YOUR MAN’S HEART is the quickest, most easily accessible
source that you have to the latest relationship research findings to
“influence your husband” and “get a positive response” without
resorting to expensive face-to-face therapy.
The sooner you start, the better you’ll feel.
However, before you order, I want to share just one more tool that
is proven responsible for accelerating permanent change.
Through MarriageSherpa.com’s email coaching program, Randy has
been able to test new methods over the last year to help women see
changes in their relationship more quickly, and one effective tool he
developed is a program called Your Life Script.
Inside _Melt Your Man’s Heart_, you’ll learn the skills to
getting the relationship and love you want.
_Your Life Script_ is a special companion guide designed to help you
personalize the program just for your marriage. A one-size-fits-all
approach NEVER works, which is why this companion guide is SO
important.
Through this special program, you’ll work through _Melt Your
Man’s Heart_ and learn how to personalize all four sections:
* 1. Why some women succeed when other’s fail
* 2. Healthy vs. unhealthy relationships
* 3. The biggest sex organ: intimacy starts in the brain
* 4. The new woman: drive your man wild with the new you
_Your Life Script_ will become your personal coach, helping you
initiate changes and help you accelerate success.
Because _Your Life Script_ encourages you to write down changes,
you’ll watch as your relationship transforms and your husband
changes right before your eyes.
This personalized companion guide is worth at least $39.99, but
today, it’s 100% free when you order _Melt Your Man’s Heart_.
ORDER MELT YOUR MAN’S HEART TODAY
AND RECEIVE YOUR LIFE SCRIPT AS A SPECIAL BONUS
It’s impossible to place a dollar value on turning your husband
around, flipping on the emotional connection, sparking physical
interaction and igniting deep meaningful conversations.
If I were to try and put a figure on predicting this kind of
relationship success, I would guess that you’d need to go to
face-to-face therapy for at least 10 sessions.
And therapy with Randy Bennett is $250 an hour.
However, if you couldn’t meet with Randy, there’s no telling
what another therapist would tell you. I’ve heard a lot of horror
stories of bad advice given by counselors and marriage therapists.
Also Randy Bennett is the only Licensed Therapist with 25 years of
experience that I know of that has developed a program as focused as
this.
So instead of requiring months of therapy at $250 an hour we’re
able to offer the complete program: _Melt Your Man’s Heart_, plus
the bonus companion program _Melt Your Man’s Heart: Your Life
Script_ for less than the cost of a full hour of counseling with
Randy.
THIS COMPLETE PROGRAM IS JUST $147.
However, because we live in a digital age where we all appreciate
getting instant access we’re able to offer both of these programs as
instant downloads and extend this remarkable savings to you.
That means instead of paying $147 for this complete 2-set program,
you’ll receive instant download access to both programs for only
$47.
_AND HERE’S THE BEST PART: YOU ONLY HAVE TO PAY FOR IT IF THE
WORKS…_
_MELT YOUR MAN’S HEART_ PERSONAL GUARANTEE:
Even though there are countless strategies inside Melt Your Man’s
Heart that will work instantly for your relationship, we know that
real lasting change takes time.
And that’s why we want to offer you our 60-Day Risk FREE trial. ()
If your husband doesn’t learn to value you, if you don’t
instantly learn what you want to change, if you don’t overcome his
unwillingness to change, if you don’t win him back and experience
the love, passion and romance come exploding back into your
relationship…then simply call or email our customer support and
we’ll issue a complete refund.
PLUS since the program is downloadable, we’ll allow you to keep
both programs just for trying it.
Remember two things:
* Just because your man isn’t opening up to you doesn’t mean he
won’t. It simply means that everything you’ve tried so far
hasn’t worked.
* When you go first, there are strong psychological factors that
influence your husband to WANT to change his behavior.
START TODAY AND BEGIN 90 DAYS OF MARRIAGE TRANSFORMATION
(with _Your Life Script_ bonus) for more than 80% OFF the
cost of one face-to-face counseling session (only $47) and discover:
* Which wife gets and keeps her husband’s attention (And WHY)…
page 34
* 4 common communication styles (And one that drives men wild)…
page 28
* 10 steps to becoming assertive (Female assertiveness is nature’s
Viagra)… page 37
* 3 personal behavior enhancements (That help you get what you
want)…page 41
* How to avoid the 5 relationship wreckers (That shred intimacy)…
page 46
* Why marriages go bad (Quickly diagnose what went wrong)… page 47
* The Baker’s Dozen Marriage Manual (Become your man’s dream)…
page 65
* The biggest sex organ (Get inside his head and ignite his
heart)…page 81
* What women say (What men really hear)… page 83
* What motivates men (And 3 criticisms that turns him against you)…
page 87
* 3 praises that instantly encourage him (And keep a smile on his
face)…page 89
* The #1 skills for hearing what he’s really saying (He’ll never
stop talking)… page 92
* How to become the woman he adores (every man has triggers – find
his)… page 98
* How to develop self-confidence that drives him wild (Be your sexy
self)… page 102
* How to light up the castle (How you can both get what you want)…
page 111
* The fastest way to kill intimacy (The fastest way to build a love
cocoon)… page 116
* Turn back the clock (Turn up the relationship spice)… page 124
* How to create emotional connection opportunities… page 137
After you spend just 90 days following Randy’s instructions inside
Melt Your Man’s Heart, you’ll replace feeling lonely and cast off,
with feeling secure and content.
You’ll replace feeling ignored and taken for granted, with feeling
loved and cherished.
Instead of feeling frustrated because you can’t get through to
him, you’ll both enjoy talking for hours.
This is the new approach to marriage therapy and it’s based on the
science of relationships.
TRY MELT YOUR MAN’S HEART RISK-FREE FOR ONLY $47
The sooner you start the better you’ll feel. Don’t wait any
longer.
Begin in just 3 minutes and order Melt Your Man’s Heart.
Stephanie Anderson
Editor-in-Chief
MarriageSherpa.com
P.S. There are 13 specific skills that woman who seem to “have it
all” use to get their husbands to treat them the way they want.
These skills are not manipulation, artificial or trickery; they are
healthy ways to interact with your husband that will create an
atmosphere of love, acceptance and security. Developing these skills
isn’t magic, but they work like magic. It’s all within your grasp,
just place your order today…
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