Handling Tantrums
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TANTRUM THERAPY
THE ESSENTIAL GUIDE
Dr. Nimmi Hutnik
D.Phil. (Oxon.) CPsychol. BABCP accred.
EXPERT INSTRUCTION ON HOW TO DEAL
WITH YOUR
CHILD’S TEMPER TANTRUMS
CHARTERED COUNSELLING PSYCHOLOGIST
AND
COGNITIVE BEHAVIOUR THERAPIST
OUTLINES HIGHLY EFFECTIVE TECHNIQUES THAT
YOU CAN START USING TODAY!
TO DEAL WITH YOUR KID’S TEMPER TANTRUMS
Download the Preamble (Introduction) to Tantrum Therapy: The
Essential Guide here.
FIND OUT WHAT YOUR KIDS REALLY WANT WHEN THEY THROW
TEMPER TANTRUMS AND BECOME DIFFICULT TO HANDLE
Learn how you can deal with the strong emotions that are aroused
within you when your child throws a tantrum
Teach your child or teenager how to effectively deal with anger
Acquire impoartant relationship skills that will help in
ANYrelationship
(Yes, even with a lover, partner, husband, wife of boss)
Dear Parent,
Does your child throw temper tantrums while you’re right in the
midlle of doing your weekly shopping, or when you’re cooking a meal,
or trying to get everybody out of the house in the early morning rush?
Do you feel embarrassed, angry or frustrated when this happens? Are
you at your wits’ end? Do you feel in need of some therapy to handle
the tantrums that your kids throw?
Would you like to find out how to calm your child down and find the
peace and happiness that you are looking for?
As a parent, I've had to deal with tantrums in my kids and have done
a lot of thinking and studying about why kids throw tantrums and what
to do about them. What I've come up with is a fail-proof system which
I call my BEST VACS system. This system certainly gives parents a
VACATION FROM TANTRUMS and it enables you as a family to have the best
quality vacations possible! NO MORE tantrum-y kids.
Often parents tell me that they do things to control tantrums in
their kids that later make them feel guilty.
Things like:
* Shouting or screaming at their kid to shut up
* Threatening to slap them if they don’t stop crying
* Physically dragging them, screaming, to the car where they can be
dealt with in private
* Banishing them to their rooms
* ‘Shutting them up’ with sweets
* Confiscating their toys
* Telling them they have to go without dinner
* Laughing it off in the hope that the tantrum will stop
* Ignoring them and pretending that they Don't Exist
* Grounding them for over a week and then letting them off the hook
too early
Overwhelmed parents do all sorts of things to manage the situation.
THAT DOESN’T MAKE THEM BAD PARENTS. OF COURSE, NOT!
They are just doing the best they can with what they’ve got. And
they don’t understand why it doesn’t seem to work. But they think
to themselves that there must be a better way.
And there is! I assure you.
Soon you will understand how you can stop these tantrums and EVEN
PREVENT THEM FROM HAPPENING.
In TANTRUM THERAPY: THE ESSENTIAL GUIDE I will enable you to discover
how for yourself
JUST IMAGINE:
* Being unafraid of taking your kids out shopping with you
* Being confident of how to handle your kids so as to avoid temper
tantrums altogether
* Never feeling embarrrassed again in public because your kid is
acting up
* Being able to lie in for that extra half an hour before the school
round starts because tantrums are a thing of the past
THERE WOULD BE
PEACE AND HAPPINESS AGAIN
IN THE FAMILY
IF YOU WERE ABLE TO CONFIDENTLY HANDLE YOUR CHILD WHEN
THEY ARE HAVING A TANTRUM!
I know how special you are because you are keen to get it right with
your kids. You belong to a very important (but small) group of parents
who want to do well by their kids. You want a close, loving
relationship with your children that will last a lifetime and so you
try to find out how best to handle difficult situations. That is why
you are here on this website, looking for good quality resources that
will enlighten you on your parenting pathway.
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In TANTRUM THERAPY: THE ESSENTIAL GUIDE you will learn
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What it is your child REALLY wants when they throw a tantrum
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The seven essential skills of dealing with tantrums in your kids
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How to ‘centre’ down and regain a calm sense of loving, parental
authority when dealing with a tantrum -ing child
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The peace and self confidence that you need as a parent
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How to bond even more deeply with your child, something you may not
have thought possible before
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I CALL IT MY BEST VACS SYSTEM. IF YOU FOLLOW IT FAITHFULLY YOU WILL
INDEED HAVE THE BEST FAMILY VACATIONS OF YOUR LIFE. BUT MORE THAN THIS
YOU WILL NEVER FORGET WHAT B-E-S-T V-A-C-S STANDS FOR.
HOW DO YOU KNOW THAT YOU ARE GETTING GOOD VALUE IN THIS FIRST EVER
ONLINE COURSE ON TANTRUM THERAPY?
There is a lot of information out there on the web. But not a lot of
it is good quality. Or it is based solely on common sense and
experience. Things that anybody can think up.
Not so this course! This is the first ever online course of its kind
for tantrums. It is based on sound expertise.
SO WHAT ARE MY CREDENTIALS?
My name is Dr. Nimmi Hutnik.
I am a qualified and accredited Counselling Psychologist and
Cognitive Behaviour Therapist practising in Britain. In the USA you
would call me a licensed psychologist. So I regularly see people in my
office to help them with their difficulties.
I have also taught in University settings in the West and the East
for many years. I train my students to deliver good quality therapy to
people.
I am also a parent. My kids are now 23 and 19. I’ve been a married
parent, a divorcing parent, a single parent and I now have
step-children. So, believe me, I have seen a lot!
I have the benefit of training, teaching and experience and this
informs all my work including Tantrum therapy: the Essential Guide.
My approach to tantrums is to base my tips and techniques on the
proven benefits of my integrative training in Counselling Psychology
and Cognitive Behaviour Therapy.This means I combine the benefits of
different approaches to child rearing
Parents often ask questions such as:
* What is the best way of dealing with tantrums?
* How do I stop my kids from pushing my buttons?
* How can I control my own anger, frustration and embarrassment when
my child throws a tantrum?
* Am I spoiling my children by giving in to them?
As a Cognitive Behaviour Therapist, I’ll explain to you how our
thoughts determine the way we feel and act. Most of us think that our
feelings produce our thoughts but actually it is the other way around.
If you think of yourself as a bad parent because you cannot control
your kid’s temper tantrums, you will probably get very embarrassed
in public or feel very bad about yourself in private when your kid
throws a tantrum and you will act accordingly. If you however school
yourself to think different sorts of thoughts based on sound evidence
that you have collected, then you will be able to respond very
differently to your tantrum -ing child.
Cognitive Behaviour Therapy (CBT) enables parents to feel more
empowered in their parenting. A CBT approach to your child’s
tantrums will enable you to ‘mindfully’ parent your child, regain
your own equilibrium and re-discover your self-confidence and your
ability to be a loving, caring and calm parent.
It’s not just about Behavioural Control
It’s all about Emotional Intelligence
Just dealing with the behaviour of a tantrum –ing child is a short
term solution that often destroys the long-term loving relationship
that you so long to have. A loving long-term close relationship with
your child will develop as you practice your new parenting skills.
You can start learning these today.
In fact, you can start right NOW!
To be honest, no-one, especially not a child, can grow and develop
when they are being threatened and punished a lot. It may well be that
you love them with all of your heart, but if you’re shouting at
them, they will _feel_ unloved, even if they really are loved.
Trying to distract them works the same way. Ignoring them, too.
These are short term solutions. They may work for some parents, some
of the time. And you will need to find the best way that works for
you.
But if one of your best friends came to you with their eyes swollen
and red from crying would you immediately tor to get them to stop,
distract them with food or with the TV, or ‘tune out’ and ignore
them, saying to yourself that they will get over it?
No, of course not!
What would you do? You would probably make them feel comfortable,
loved and cared for and you’d try to understand why they are feeling
that way. You would probably allow them the time and the space to vent
their feelings and you would express your love and concern for them
Wouldn’t you? If you could learn to take this sort of ‘ empathic
observer’ position with your child when they throw a tantrum, you
might find that your child starts feeling a lot better a lot quicker.
And you will be the empowered parent that you always longed to be.
Taking an empathic observer position with regard to your child and
their tantrum is a skill that can be learned.
In this essential training guide for parents you will learn how.
You will learn all that you need to know to make your life easier and
more peaceful when dealing with your kid’s tantrums. In it I
condense the wisdom of the ages and the stuff that psychologists have
been figuring out for decades. In the space of a few weeks, seven to
be precise, in some case even days or hours, you should see a
significant difference. It is not hard, but it does need you to follow
some simple steps. Of course there will be times when even the simple
steps don’t seem to go right but with some perseverance, you’ll
get there.
The best part is that once you have learned the skills that I will be
introducing to you, you can use them, not just with your children, but
with the love of your life, your boss at work, your parents, anybody
with whom you may be encountering difficulty. These skills are
important life skills and once you have learned them you will never
forget them.
Let me tell you about what is contained in thie essential training
guide for parents.
There are 7 modules with more than 110 pages packed with information
and activities. Each module is fully explained with examples drawn
from experiences of both parents and psychologists.
There are questionnaires for pre-school age and kindergarten kids,
for school age kids and for teenagers, so you will find everything you
need, whatever age your child is. In each module there are FUN
activities (and serious ones) for you to do by yourself, with your
child and for your child.
As I said, You’ll learn the principles of CBT, which will help you
not only in your relationship with your child, it will help you in
your relationship with your partner and your colleagues at work: in
fact everyone you meet, because the amazing thing is, once you know
the basics you can use your new found skills and knowledge anywhere,
any time and any place.
This really is a Life-skills course, but in the beginning applied to
your most urgent problem – tantrums.
As a parent, you are part and parcel of a very important cause. You
are nurturing the next generation so that the world is a happier place
for all of us. That’s why it’s so crucial that you find and keep
this knowledge.
My BEST VACS system is the first ever of its kind to deal with temper
tantrums in kids using a Cognitive Behaviour Therapy approach.
Cognitive Behaviour therapy is internationally well known and
respected for its high success rates with depression, anxiety and
anger. The BEST VACS system is designed as a self-help course for
parents dealing with mild to moderate temper tantrums in their kids.
If your kids are showing very severe conduct problems, such as they
are bullying other children or vandalising public property or getting
in trouble with the police, you may need to access local counselling
support.
If you were to come to me for 7 sessions of face to face Cognitive
Behaviour Therapy, it would cost you over $1300 I am offering you the
full 7 sessions in 7 different training modules, in a way that you can
help yourself, for just $47 (plus taxes). This is one quarter of the
cost of one face to face session!
And the best part of it is that you can access this kind of
therapeutic help in the privacy of your own home! That's a real
advantage if you are keen on remaining unknown.
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LISTEN TO WHAT SOME PEOPLE HAVE SAID ABOUT
TANTRUM THERAPY: THE ESSENTIAL GUIDE
NISHI (FATHER OF TWO, INDIAN-BRITISH):
“I HAVE NO DOUBT THAT THE SUBJECT MATTER WOULD BE OF GREAT VALUE IN
THIS COUNTRY WHERE OFTEN PARENTS JUST DON'T KNOW HOW TO HANDLE THEIR
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WHAT WOULD THESE RESULTS BE WORTH TO YOU?
I PREDICT THAT IN ALL PROBABILITY
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YOU WILL FEEL MORE EMPOWERED AND SELF-CONFIDENT AS A PARENT
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YOU WILL DISCOVER THAT BEING AUTHORITATIVE BUT NOT OVERBEARING IS
MORE EFFECTIVE
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YOU WILL LEARN TO UNDERSTAND YOUR CHILDREN BETTER
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YOU WILL LEARN TO UNDERSTAND YOUR OWN REACTIONS BETTER AND CHANGE
THEM
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YOUR CHILDREN WILL LEARN TO RESPECT YOU, ADMIRE YOU AND LOVE YOU
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YOUR PARTNER, IF YOU HAVE ONE, AND YOUR PARENTS WILL RESPECT YOU FOR
KNOWING HOW TO HANDLE A DIFFICULT AND DEMANDING SITUATION.
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I have two lovely daughters who are young women now and I was really
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Let me reassure you:
It is possible to learn how to handle your kid’s tantrums.
You can do it without shouting, or bribing or threatening or
punishing. LIfe will become more manageable and you can START RIGHT
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I wish you all Peace and Happiness in your family for the future.
Dr. Nimmi Hutnik
Chartered Counselling Psychologist and Cognitive Behaviour Therapist.
P.S. You deserve to know how to deal effectively with temper
tantrums. Learning how to handle you child’s tantrums will lead to a
warmer, brighter, happier future for you and your family.
P.P.S. It will also increase your ability to handle other difficult
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