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"ALL THE WORLD'S A STAGE,
AND ALL THE MEN AND WOMEN MERELY PLAYERS...."
-- Shakespeare, _As You Like It_
'MERE PLAYER' ?
BE THE DIRECTOR OF YOUR LIFE'S MOVIE SCRIPT!
'MERE PLAYER' ?
JOHN HOOK, C.O.C.
CERTIFIED ONTOLOGICAL COACH
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WHO WANTS TO BE A "MERE PLAYER" ?
There's a simple but little-known reason why our daily dramas are
so turbulent and upsetting. In the course of living together things
happen which trigger emotions and before we know it we find ourselves
swept along, trying to understand what's happened while responding to
the other 'actors.'
Yet it's the _emotions_ of dramas which make it so difficult to
take command of those situations. Emotions produce the compelling side
of drama.
Now you can master the Ten emotional energies so that YOU become
the DIRECTOR. From this new vantage point, you see drama for what it
really is and you can redirect it to a timely and satisfying
conclusion.
THE FIVE PASSIONS FOR COMMUNICATING LOVE
If you're in an intimate relationship, but you and your partner
repeatedly experience periods of dissatisfaction, you can accelerate
your ability to permanently shift those negative patterns. In just ten
minutes you will learn which of the five passions you can utilize to
redesign your relationship for ongoing joy and satisfaction.
TAKE CHARGE OF ANNOYING BULLIES IN SECONDS
If you're one of the many with a chronically irritating colleague
who repeatedly draws you into an uncomfortable pattern -- perhaps a
subject you don't like or a criticism which makes you uncomfortable --
you can take out the 'sting' and redirect the entire interaction in a
matter of seconds.
_SECRET # 1 IS_ understanding _THE EMOTIONAL BACKGROUND OF THE
CONVERSATION_ rather than reacting to the 'content.' Scientists have
found that the emotional background or foundation of a conversation
predetermines the content of the conversation. Therefore, to react to
the content is to be trapped along with the content in the mood or
emotion that is setting the parameters of the conversation.
SECRET # 2 comes with knowing the natural flow of emotional
energies. If you're in a debate with a 'know-it-all,' you don't have
to play his or her game when you know the emotional energy which has
primacy (_precedes and has influence_) over the energy that he or she
is 'operating' from.
SECRET # 3 Emotions pre-determine two kinds of action: effective and
non-effective! Emotional energies have 'directionality' like other
energies. Take for example, _ water energy_. When it's 'allowed to
flow' it doesn't run uphill or horizontally across the hill. Water
doesn't move in reverse or stop for no reason. Emotional energies have
the same quality. When someone is in a contemplative mood, they don't
take aggressive actions to re-organize their company. They may do so
later, but in a different mood. Herein lies the secret of why so many
relationships fade......too much of the time they are 'designed' and
'conducted' in the wrong mood.
THE LIGHTNING FLASH OF EMOTIONAL ENERGIES
ULTRA SIMPLE, IMMEDIATELY EFFECTIVE
Understanding the Flow of Emotional Energies can be so fast and
effective, it's revolutionary. While most coaches and students of
self-development go through long questionnaires to determine a
checklist of 'traits' and 'characteristics' then another checklist of
strategies and sub-strategies, this method of hyper-fast observation
is a heretofore unknown 'fast track' to effective action.
It's doesn't require a degree in philosophy or psychology -- it's a
praxiology--a _ PRACTICAL STRATEGY_ for dealing with everyday
emotions. Emotions pre-determine two kinds of action: effective and
non-effective!
Get out of the 'slow lane' and into the 'fast lane' for successful
results in your personal and professional interactions.
BONUS: Inside this fast lane is an even *faster track* known as the
Middle Way. Some traditions refer to this as being 'centered' or 'well
grounded.' Apple CEO Steve Jobs is one of the icons of The Middle Way
in modern times. If it weren't for his passion for the Middle Way and
his courage to stay the course, he would have _lost his way_ several
times (when he dropped out of college, lost his status as CEO of
Apple, and contracted cancer).
We don't know of a functioning tradition offering the Middle Way,
fast track or not. This is the *one* strategy which does -- and it's
composed of *one* emotional energy. This is the only place where you
can learn to observe and flow the primary energy of the Middle Way.
Launch date for "Love Is Just the Beginning...." is January 7th,
2011. Order yours and take command of the emotional energies in your
life.
John Hook, C.O.C. (certified ontological coach) (c) 2010
Love Is Just The Beginning.... is a pdf file easily read in Adobe
Acrobat, a free downloadable program at
You get 36 pages of easy-to-understand exercises, illustrations, and
assessment tools for just $24.95.
It takes just a few seconds to download and you're on your way to
mastering your passions and emotional energies.
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