DIVORCE RECOVERY BLUEPRINT
HOW TO GET RID OF PAST-BAGGAGE AND
BUILD THE LIFE YOU WANT!
DISCOVER STEP-BY-STEP EXACTLY WHAT TO DO, TO RECLAIM YOUR LIFE FROM
TOXIC DIVORCE OR SEPARATION.... EVEN IF YOU FEEL LOST, DEPRESSED AND
DON'T KNOW WHERE TO TURN!
The marriage is over. But the pain isn't. You struggle to break free,
but there's a longing to go back and undo the past.
YOU WANT TO MOVE ON. You're ready to put the past behind you, but you
dread the future and what it holds for you.
"Why me?" You wonder. "How did the man I loved, become an alien to
me? Where did the love disappear? How will I ever get over this? Why
does it take so long to move on? What is wrong with me?"
You want to bounce back from one of the biggest setbacks in your life
- a failed marriage. You want to give your kids a happy and secure
childhood. You want to stop feeling so tired and broken and believe in
love again. But you think you've hit a dead-end and you don't know
where to turn. The pain is unbearable and you feel stuck in your
situation. You're angry, scared and you don't know whom to trust.
You are not alone!
Almost 60% of marriages end in divorce. Yet it is one of the hardest
things to cope with. Just because it is so hard, you think you're
being punished for a terrible mistake. Before you know it, you have
set up an elaborate trap of over-analysis, trying to rationalize the
past and control things beyond your power. You end up reliving the
pain over and over - unable to forgive, unable to forget, unable to
move on.
THE MORE YOU FIGHT WITH REALITY, THE WORSE YOU FEEL
You cannot wish away your pain. You cannot feel better by running
from your circumstances. The more you resist your bad feelings, the
stronger they seem to get. You struggle to make the pain to go away,
but you only end up more bitter, lost and frustrated.
DO YOU HAVE THE RIGHT COPING STRATEGIES?
Nobody really wants to struggle for months or years, only to deepen
the pain and frustration. Nobody wants to feel powerless over their
bad feelings, unable to break free from the cycle of anger,
resentment, despair, shame, fear and loneliness.
But most women go through needless pain and struggle. Why? Because
they don't know what to do or know how to cope. Because nobody is
there to tell them that there are effective ways to cut short the
pain. To take charge of their future. To pull them out of a dead-end
relationship and stop the bitterness from poisoning their body and
mind.
Divorce is not a mistake - it's an acceptance of reality, a step
toward positive change.
Are you ready to stop the pain and discover effective ways to move
on?
Valued at: $397.00 Sale Price: $97
LEARN FROM EXPERTS WHO TAUGHT THOUSANDS OF WOMEN LIKE YOU, EXACTLY HOW
TO MOVE ON AND REBUILD THEIR LIFE!
"...After listening to the interviews I was reminded that the grief
we experience from divorce is an organic process that our body knows
how to manage.
_When feelings of failure and loss seem overwhelming, Dr. Witt
counsels us to have compassion for our self, reconnect and then listen
to our feminine voice; which will always remind us of the miracle we
are. _
_I discovered that our sole responsibility is to thrive. First by
loving one's self, and then broadcasting that love to the rest of the
world."_
_Susan Pelissier, M.A._
_www.AgeandAttitude.com_
THE BEST IS STILL TO COME!
"THE WHO'S WHO OF PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT" join me to help you to
recover from the pain of divorce, follow your dreams and find love
again.
_Learn the secrets of Leading Psychotherapists, Professional Coaches
and Authors of best-selling personal development books:_
__
Barbara Stanny
_barbarastanny.com_
__
Philip Friedman
_f__orgivenesssolution.com_
Diana Kirschner
lovein90days.com
Joe Rubino centerforpersonalreinvention.com
Diana Fletcher
dianafletcher.com
Susan Epstein
ferocecoaching.com/susan-epstein.html
Evan Katz
evanmarckatz.com
mmKeith Witt
kwwitt.com
Richard Nicastro
strengthenyourrelationship.com
Tammy Landau
SummitProfessionalCoaching.com
You want to feel better, to take charge of your life. You want to
believe in your dreams once more and you should! In fact, that's what
you need to focus on, more than anything else in the world. With the
right help, it's much easier than you think. And that's where I come
in.
My name is Vanaja Ghose and I am a life-coach helping countless
divorced women to rebuild their lives. If you think you have it bad,
that I couldn't possibly know what you're going through, imagine this.
In the year 1996 I was in a near-fatal traffic accident which left me
severely disabled - just as I thought things couldn't get worse, I had
to sort through the wreckage of my broken marriage and my life, to
piece together a future for myself and my children.
_"...you will learn endless tips and thought provoking insight into
the topic of women, money, power and success. Hear how one woman
shares her own story and road to success including her obstacles and
personal challenges. Learn how beliefs that we hold impact the
financial success we realize. Also, learn that our under earning very
rarely has anything to do with money itself. Learn that women
typically live in a fantasy world where money is concerned. We expect
to be rescued or that some magical event will occur and bring us
financial security. Learn how to tell if you are an under earner or
are in a state of resistance. Barbara also shares in this interview
steps to take in spite of the fear that we feel. Learn how to step
through fear and into forward motion despite the resistance that you
feel so that you keep moving forward." _
_Janet Breitmaier, Signature Personal Coaching_
http://home.cogeco.ca/~sigpcoach/Website.htm
_Certified Financial AlchemyMaster Coach_
Faced with the tough task of rebuilding my life, gaining financial
independence and raising happy children, I sought help everywhere I
could. I turned to therapists and social workers, read books and took
courses, leaving no stone unturned. I was determined to make it,
determined to rise above the negative trap of self-pity and reclaim my
life.
As I achieved my goals one by one, I realized how much easier it
could have been with the right skills and attitude. But above all, I
discovered what works and what does not work for women in my
situation.
SOON I'LL SHOW YOU STEP-BY-STEP, EXACTLY WHAT TO DO TO FEEL BETTER
NOW AND CHANGE YOUR SITUATION.
LEARN THE IMPORTANT STEPS TO BELIEVE IN YOUR DREAMS AND MAKE THEM
HAPPEN!
_"...Low self esteem has been a lifelong problem for me. It has held
me back from true success in life. I never felt as good as others. I
had a need to be perfect; I was afraid to fail and thus
underachieving. In short, it was exhausting just living with decades
of negative self-talk._
_In Joe Rubino's interview I learned that millions of people have the
same self-esteem problems as I do. I discovered that to improve self
esteem we need to heal and complete our past, forgive ourselves and
others. I learned I have to assess what is right in my life, live from
a position of gratitude, define my life purpose and create a vision
for living those values._
_I learned that I am responsible for my own well being now. I can
transform fear into courage and self-confidence. I now know how I can
recognize my positive qualities and abilities - the personal assets I
never believed I had. Change is less frightening than continuing to
live as I had been. _
_Carol Davies,Success Coach_
Free Your Spirit Now Coaching,
www.freeyourspiritnow.com
Know Thy Enemy:
The Enemy Within
The first thing you need to do, is to identify the factors that work
against you, in your recovery from a broken relationship.
Know the stumbling blocks you face, as you do everything in your
power to stop the pain of divorce or separation. You must remove these
blocks to move on as quickly as possible with the rest of your life.
1. "I DON'T KNOW WHAT I WANT"
Fear and uncertainty can cloud your mind and keep you running in
circles. The first thing you need to know, is what you want.
Do you want in or out of your marriage? Is your partner willing to
work with you, or are you running down a dead-end? Perhaps you want to
remain in the relationship but are unable to forgive. Perhaps you want
to make a fresh start but are trapped in the same cycle of thoughts
and feelings.
If you have been in a bad relationship for years, you can easily lose
touch with your feelings. You could be distorting your reality or
misinterpreting your feelings about your marriage. Your fights and
struggles could be a cover for some other issues. Perhaps your beliefs
and perceptions about yourself are hurting you.
"Mind fog" is the No.1 enemy you will encounter as you move on to
better things. I will help you to sort through your feelings and
discover what you truly want. Once your needs and wants are clearly
defined, it becomes much easier to go for it and find your happiness.
Discover the secrets of achieving more clarity in your life, to
follow your dreams with conviction!
2. "I AM MY PAST"
Divorced women often feel lost and undeserving. Don't fall for that
trap and don't settle for bad relationships, toxic people and
underpaid jobs.
How can you hold on to your self-worth, when all you have is a
history of gross neglect, betrayal, rejection and failure?
NO AMOUNT OF 'PEP TALK' WILL CHANGE YOUR BELIEFS.
What you need is a clear strategy to identify flawed beliefs and stop
distorted thinking in its tracks. Break the addiction to self-pity and
self-loathing and learn to draw strength from positive, empowering
beliefs.
Connect with positive women who defied their background and
limitations. Set goals that are in line with your beliefs and your
expectations from life. Only then you can begin to move on!
STOP MAGNIFYING YOUR FLAWS AND SETBACKS.
You are not who you were. You are who you can be, who you want to be.
It's time to reconnect with empowering goals and draw strength from
them.
BREAK FREE FROM LIMITING BELIEFS about who you are and who you can
be. Learn how to restore self-esteem, achieve business success,
maximize joy and fulfillment in life and productivity at work.
_"...tremendous value for listeners who want to raise their level of
self-esteem and how they view themselves. This audio effectively
covered things from self-esteem affecting all aspects of one's life
through actual steps to be taken to raise self-esteem. There were many
helpful distinctions mentioned such as feeling confident vs. having
high self-esteem and that helped to gain clarity as to how pervasive
self-esteem issues are for most people. I highly recommend this audio
for those who want to understand how their low self-esteem came about
and then how to feel better about themselves now."_
Marion Franklin,
MS, MCC, Life Coach, Mentor, and Coach Trainer,
www.lifecoachinggroup.com
_"Dr. Witt offers in his audio a tremendous opportunity to discover
strategies to use shame and guilt positively. Learn how we hide
emotions from ourselves and others and the reasons behind our natural
propensity to do this. He also shares steps on how to get over the
emotions and the grieving process that manifests at the death of a
marriage. This audio is packed with solid information that you can
easily identify with and use immediately to begin honoring and growing
into the goddess that you are."_
_Janet Breitmaier, Signature Personal Coaching_
http://home.cogeco.ca/~sigpcoach/Website.htm
_Certified Financial AlchemyMaster Coach_
Be inspired to lead a fuller, happier life
Valued at: $397.00 Sale Price: $97
3. "WHERE DO I GO FROM HERE?"
Just because you're unable to see your future, doesn't mean you don't
have one. Swap the magnifying glass for a telescope and see the
infinite possibilities for the future!
Many women have difficulty acknowledging their ambitious, competitive
nature at work. The need for financial independence brought out a side
of me that I barely knew before!
Work can be a great source of fulfillment and security for you. Find
out how to go from being a frustrated under-achiever to a focused
go-getter. In this part of the course, I've laid down the stepping
stones to financial success:
How to tell if you are an under earner and master the steps to
overcome it
Discover the biggest lie you tell yourself that affects your
earning your full potential
Learn the key to success for women (or learn the secret to getting
over the blocks that keep you from achieving success
Find out if you are a "doer" or a "dawdler"
Dismantle the biggest barrier between your decision to make more
money and actually having it
Find out how low self esteem affects your ability to earn more
money and.how you can overcome it
4. "NOBODY LOVES ME"
Finally there comes the obstacle you dread most. Letting go, moving
on and opening your heart to love again. Many mistaken beliefs can get
in the way of finding the man of your dreams. Perhaps you believe
you're not worthy. You might not trust your judgment again. You might
be unable to forgive yourself and let go.
Fear of rejection can isolate you, making you turn down every
opportunity to meet new people, to learn and grow. Know that our
greatest need is to be loved and we can never be happy by denying this
need. Stop trying to be perfect and allow yourself to enjoy this
process.
Yes, you know what you want and you can find it! Find 'the one' with
the essentials of dating success, including:
The secrets of getting back out there and meeting the love of your
life
How to make the online dating experience work for you
Learn some make-it-or-break-it steps that women can take to pick
themselves up and move on after a divorce
3 things women can do TODAY to increase their chances of getting
into a great relationship
How to make online dating experience work for you
Avoid the Common Relationship Mistakes.
Find the Love you Want!
"I have been divorced for three years and have been dating for the
past two years - without any success. I tried online dating also a few
times, and gave up. After listening to Vanaja's two interviews with
dating experts, I realized I had been making so many mistakes! Evan
Katz and Diana Kirschner give a man and a woman's perspective
respectively, and talk about the mistakes I can avoid, the red flags
to watch out for, what men would really like us to know, things we can
do to increase our chances of getting into a great relationship, and
so much more! WOW!
_And THANK YOU also for the much-needed information about how to be a
better single parent. Parenting has been tough these last three years
as my children were 4 and 6 when I divorced. But Susan Epstein gives
very helpful advice for all ages, and I learnt how I can stop myself
from yelling at the kids (I get stressed!), get my children to be more
respectful, get them to do their homework, how not to give in to their
whiny demands, how to recognize warning signs of drug and alcohol
abuse and what I can do to protect my kids from it._
I really hope women who are in similar situation as I am in will
listen to these audios so that they don't make the same mistakes I
did."
_Jessica Maris_, _Vancouver, BC_
5. "I have deprived my kids"
How do kids cope with divorce and how can you make it easier for
them? I spoke to experts with decades of psychotherapy practice, with
a special emphasis on family and parenting. Here's what you will
learn:
The most important thing you can do to ensure that your children's
lives are stable after your divorce.
What you should be telling your children about the divorce.
Prevent situations where you find yourself yelling at kids
Rules for dating again when you have children
How to get your children to be more respectful to you.
How to stop nagging the kids to get them to do their chores and
homework
How to control your children's habits of cell phone use.
Warning signs of alcohol and drug use/abuse and what you can do to
protect them.
Dangers of "giving in" to a whiny child's demands.
What you can do to instill good values in your children.
Let go the guilt and become a better parent - it's easier than you
think!
_"...Thank you for helping me to the next phase of my forgiveness
arc!! I recently had a breakup of a relationship. I consistently
blamed my boyfriend for what he did. The info from Dr. Friedman was
empowering! I went from that blaming state to beginning the
acceptance, contentment and happiness process with myself. My previous
state of un-forgiveness was stagnating and hurt me immeasurably. This
process of forgiveness is helping me seek the "higher self" Dr.
Friedman mentions. As a coach, I help others move on. As I move to the
next level myself, I'm on my way to do this even more exponentially
with my clients. As Dr. Friedman says I can be that beacon of light to
others. Thank you again!!_
__
Crystal Williamson
coachingwithcrystal@yahoo.com
www.coachingwithcrystal.com
6. "I CAN'T REPEAT THE SAME MISTAKES!"
Forgiveness and trust are the Keys to Letting Go. You can't move on
until you clear the toxic debris of the past and make room for
positive feelings.
Forgive the past and stop picking your hurts - allow the healing
process to begin!
Forgive yourself as quickly as possible
4 key words that stop you from forgiving someone and keep you angry
.and stuck
The consequences of not forgiving yourself or another person
Understanding betrayal and rejection
Putting yourself in their shoes
To make this vital step much easier, I've outlined in clear points
how to loosen your grip on the past and open your heart for better
things!
Discover what's missing from your life.
Click here to start your personal journey from divorced to
dazzling!
ONLY
_"I didn't realize....how many opportunities there really are in our
lives for forgiveness. Whenever we feel disconnected from ourselves in
any way, and not particularly peaceful or accepting, there is probably
an opportunity to forgive that can help us feel more at peace. The
interview reminded me of the importance of forgiveness and how much
life energy -- physical, emotional, and spiritual -- we free up when
we choose forgiveness. I also very much appreciated the discussion
about the relationship between forgiveness and gratitude and how
forgiveness can take us across the bridge from negative emotional
states to more positive ones. I got a lot out of it, thank you!" _
_Jason Howard_
_Your Infinite Playground_
_I found your interview series to be both instructive and
interesting! In particular I liked Dr. Friedman's reminder about
unforgiveness to be most helpful. As Dr. Friedman says "Unforgiveness
is about blame and judgment. And only by letting go of these lethal
emotions can we return to our rightful place of personal power."_
_Thanks,_
_Susan Pelissier, M.A._
_www.AgeandAttitude.com_
How to deal with
The Enemies Outside
You wish your divorce could be more private, but there are a number
of people who feel very involved. Everybody seems to have a vested
interest or a bone to pick. No wonder the entire process feels like a
vicious tug-of-war between your in-laws, kids, step-children, exes,
divorce lawyers, the new woman in his life, the new man in your
life...and many other 'well-meaning' friends and relatives.
Here I will address specific situations and issues, to help you deal
with them as they arise. You can be practical and diplomatic, when you
know what to expect and have the ground rules clearly laid out for
you. Save your dignity and your private space by marking boundaries
clearly. You are in-charge of your life and your decisions. Put your
needs first and stand up for yourself!
Gain crucial insights on the practical aspects of coping with
divorce:
Dealing with burnout
How to tell if it is an "urgent" or "important" task
The negative impact of procrastination on your health
A sure-fire way to demand more from others
Reduce your financial stress
Tricks to save time, reduce stress and have fun at the same time.
MAKE YOUR OWN HAPPY ENDING
How to create a Happy Outcome to a Painful Past
Divorce is a beginning, not the end. You can create a positive
outcome and turn the process into a stepping stone to lasting
happiness. If you are tired of clutching at straws and want powerful
advice that works, hop onboard and let me steer you step-by-step
through the raging emotional storm of divorce and separation.
LEARN HEALTHY WAYS TO COPE WITH YOUR SITUATION FROM A WOMAN WHO KNOWS
WHAT IT'S LIKE TO BE ADRIFT.
Turn your divorce into a constructive process of change. Get
compassionate, no-nonsense advice instead of prolonging your pain with
denial or procrastinating on important issues and decisions.
REMEMBER, I CAN'T HELP YOU TILL YOU LET ME!
Even with all my experience and resources, I can't help you till you
want me to. Are you ready to break free from the past and see the
wonderful future that awaits you?
"THE JOURNEY OF A THOUSAND MILES BEGINS WITH ONE STEP"
Ready to take the first step? It's really simple. Click below to
purchase my life-changing course _"DIVORCED TO DAZZLING STEP-BY-STEP
BLUEPRINT TO CREATE YOUR SPARKLING NEW LIFE" _
Buy Now For Only $97.00
Fast Action Bonus:
THE FIRST 10 PEOPLE to Order will get a 60 minute fast track personal
coaching session with me. Act now so you can start living your new
life with passion, purpose and joy! This is a value of $150 but is
limited to the first ten people so hurry!
Remember, I stand 100% behind the information I'm offering you. If in
the next 60 days you decide you didn't enjoy the audios and the
workbook, just let me know and ask for your money back. It's that
simple!
"Yes, Vanaja, Show Me Quickly
How to Create a Sparkling New Life for Myself "
I understand I will receive:
Barbara Stanny - how to overcome under earning, key to success for
women, get over blocks or barriers, how self esteem affects your
ability to earn more money, and live a life of financial empowerment
Dr. Philip Friedman - Releasing anger and guilt through forgiveness
- will learn how anger can affect your physical and mental health, how
to release anger and guilt through forgiveness, even when something
seems unforgivable and you are stuck.
Dr. Keith Witt
