Self Esteem: Build a Positive Self Esteem Now!
I ALWAYS FELT LIKE A VICTIM... 'NOT GOOD ENOUGH'... LIKE I DIDN'T
DESERVE TO
LIVE A GOOD LIFE... THEN I DISCOVERED WHERE THOSE FEELINGS CAME FROM
AND _HOW TO END THEM_, WITH...
THE 7 EASY STEPS TO A POWERFUL SELF ESTEEM
INTRODUCING A SELF-ESTEEM BLUEPRINT YOU CAN FOLLOW TO:
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TAKE CHARGE OF YOUR LIFE - _ CONTROL YOUR OWN DESTINY..._
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STOP BEING 'USED' BY OTHERS -_ NO LONGER BE A VICTIM..._
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FIND YOUR OWN VALUE - _ STOP SEEKING IT FROM THE WORLD..._
From: Mark Ivar Myhre
Author of many self improvement products
Dear Reader,
My name is Mark Myhre, and I know _firsthand_ what happens when you
live every day of your life with a low self esteem. I know the
downward spiral into depression it creates.
It was a lonely, painful existence where I spent so much time being
a victim - feeling inadequate, not good enough, unworthy, not fit to
even be a part of the human race...
I never thought I measured up, because I didn't know what kind of
'measuring stick' I was using! Once I understood how self esteem was
really built, it became a simple matter to change.
And that's when my life began to soar!
(Here's what others have said about my information since then.)
But I'm not going to waste your time talking about me.
Cause what matters: either you 'get it' -
_YOUR SELF-ESTEEM IS VITALLY IMPORTANT!_
Or you don't.
And I'm writing these words _only_ for those
who want to improve their self-esteem.
Self esteem. Everybody throws the phrase around, but few really know
what it means.
Here's the true definition of self esteem:
SELF ESTEEM IS THE ESTIMATE - THE APPRAISAL -
THE EVALUATION - OF YOUR FITNESS... YOUR VALUE...
YOUR _RIGHT_ TO EXIST IN THIS WORLD.
It's like a Real Estate Appraisal for a piece of property; a
document that authorizes, or states, your value to_ LIVE_.
What's your value?
What are you worth?
Are you good enough?
Do you deserve a place on this earth?
It all depends on your self esteem.
THIS ESTIMATE YOU MAKE OF YOURSELF IS ONE OF THE MOST IMPORTANT
FUNCTIONS YOU WILL EVER DO.
See, you're _always_ evaluating your fitness to live. This
evaluation goes on behind the scenes, 24 hours a day. You probably
weren't even aware you're doing it!
But you're constantly evaluating yourself:
* _"HOW DO I MEASURE UP?"_
* _"WHAT GOOD AM I?"_
* _"WHERE DO I STAND IN THE WORLD?"_
If you stop and think about it, you'll realize what I'm talking
about. And you may even recognize some of those questions...
Because YOUR 'SELF ESTEEM METER' IS ALWAYS RUNNING. You can't shut
it off. Nor would you want to.
You _need_ to know where you stand in this world!
The problem is, we often seek false esteem rather than real self
esteem.
Not that it's your fault. Nobody's ever told you _how_ to build real
self esteem.
Oh sure, there's plenty of books with titles like:
_"101 Ways To Increase Your Self Esteem" _
These '101 ways' basically come down to:
* Pampering yourself.
* Asserting yourself.
* Affirming or reaffirming yourself.
Which is okay, except that doesn't build self esteem. Instead, these
ways - at best - are _EXPRESSIONS_ of - rather than _BUILDING BLOCKS_
of - your self esteem.
Affirmations, pampering, asserting - they all have their place.
BUT FIRST YOU'VE GOT TO BUILD YOUR SELF ESTEEM.
And if you don't know the building blocks of true self esteem, then
you'll end up using the tools of false esteem.
Such as 'outside validation'. That's where you expect some thing or
person or situation in the world to give you your self esteem.
Which never works. So you end up in a downward spiral; fighting
harder and harder to get approval from the world. It creates a host of
problems... too many to get into here.
Another reason why self-esteem is so important to your very
existence:
Your thoughts and feelings come _out of _ your self esteem.
Every thought you think...
Every feeling you feel...
Every one is a product of your self esteem.
Don't believe me? Every depressed person in the world is proving it
every day. Why do you think low self esteem is always linked with
depression?
Low self esteem _equals_ negative thoughts and feelings. You can't
have one without the other. So this becomes another downward spiral.
You can't break the habit of negative thoughts and feelings, and you
don't know why.
Here's what happens:
* You get caught in the grip of low self esteem because no one ever
told you how to build a positive self esteem.
* Since you can't break free from the low self esteem...
* All you can do is keep trying harder and harder to build esteem
_the wrong way_.
And it's costing you dearly. Cause when you're caught in the grip of
low self esteem, you can only think and feel in painful ways. Which
lowers your self esteem even more. Which makes you think and feel even
worse.
You keep sinking lower and lower. All because you don't know the
simple formula to building a positive self esteem.
Here's a short video I made that explains a little more about self
esteem:
