Dear Friend,
To say that I was shocked would be an understatement.
My friend Barb, a vivacious 34 year-old divorcee with a wonderful 8 year-old son made a confession…
"Ever since my divorce, I just haven't been able to meet anyone I'm the least bit
attracted to. I'm begining to think that perhaps I never will. The guys that come
up to me are a bunch of creeps, and those I wish would approach me, never do.
Maybe I'm just not worthy of a great guy."
The reason I was so amazed by this confession was that if there was anyone who deserved a great guy, it was Barb. Funny, smart, attractive…she was by anyone’s standards, a great catch.
Yet here she was, 9 months after her divorce feeling as if she wasn’t worthy of a great relationship. And that was just WRONG.
My conversation with Barb got me thinking about something that makes no sense to me…Why are so many great women without great guys? Why are there so many smart, fun, attractive women sitting alone by themselves on Saturday night?
Unfortunately, most women just don’t have a clue about how a guy thinks. What attracts us. What we’re afraid of. How our outward shell so often dramatically hides who we really are inside.
If you could only understand how we think, I guarantee that you could attract any guy you wanted, without ever changing anything about yourself. And that’s precisely what I want to share with you today.
Marian would often come to me and ask my opinion on the relationship issues her clients were facing. She never betrayed any confidences, but apparently my advice was helpful. Word got out and I found that I was spending a lot of time giving “a guy’s perspective” on the challenges women face with finding, attracting and keeping a great guy.
Over the years Marian suggested that I expand what I was doing informally for a few people, into a business that could help a larger number of women. I’ll admit that I wasn’t all that interested, but Marian kept after me. One day she said something that both pumped up my ego, and made a lot of sense.
“Think of this as a way to give back. I mean you’re precisely the type of guy lots of women would like to find. You’re well educated, earn a very good living, not too hard on the eye, good sense of humor, self-confident and you genuinely like and respect women.
The reality is that women don't understand how men really think. Women need to understand these differences and I think you’ve got a unique ability to translate what guys do and say in a way that women understand.”
Here’s some good news… There are a lot of guys like me out there. Guys you’d love to meet and date. But here’s the irony… much like you, most of them haven’t yet found that really great woman.
They'd love to meet you. But...the odds are they won't.
Unless something changes. Which only YOU have the power to do.
Let me tell you a quick story. It explains why the types of guys that Barb wanted to meet, never introduced themselves to her.
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Please allow me to share a quick story with you.
I was a speaker at a conference two years ago. After the talk I went to relax at the hotel bar. I’m an incorrigible people watcher and what I saw just fascinated me.
The bar was semi-crowded, and this being Los Angeles, it was filled with very attractive women. Sitting at a table with a girlfriend was a woman in her 30s who later became a dear friend of mine, named Gabriella Sobranni.
As she would be the first to admit, Gabby was not blessed with anything close to classic good looks. Nose a bit to large, eyes set a touch close together, a figure that perhaps could best be described as “lanky”. In other words, Gabby was not someone who was ever going to stop traffic with her looks.
I could tell that she and her girlfriend were playing some sort of game. Apparently the wager was for a dollar since I noticed her friend paying off the “bet” periodically, as I became more and more intrigued.
As best I could determine, the bet was whether Gabby could get a guy at the bar to come over to her table and start up a conversation. It seemed that Gabby couldn’t leave her seat, call out to the guy or send a waiter over with a drink. She had to get their attention, and get them to respond strictly through her body language and facial expression.
Nothing sleazy or tacky was going on. Gabby wasn’t trying to “score” like the pickup artists do…she wasn’t going to sleep with any of them. All she and her friend were trying to do is see if they could get guys they found attractive to come over and strike up a conversation.
Now I will tell you that while Gabby may not be classically beautiful, she has an inner radiance. She sends a strong message that she’s at ease with herself and most importantly…fun to be with.
As I looked on in amazement, guy after guy came over to her table to talk. And these weren’t day laborers grabbing a Bud after work. No, this was the lobby bar of the Four Seasons. The guys were well dressed, attractive, obviously the type that most women would find extremely desirable.
Time and time again, Gabby’s friend would point to a guy at the bar, and in less than 15 minutes…there he would be at their table, engaged in an animated and obviously enjoyable conversation.
I shook my head in amazement, and gazed out onto the lobby to reflect on what I had witnessed. I couldn’t have been more surprised when a minute later I looked up to find Gabby and her friend standing by my chair asking if they could join me. As much as I might have wished that it was my animal magnetism that attracted them, the truth was that they had attended my relationship workshop that afternoon and wanted to talk “shop”.
This was two years ago, and this chance meeting set the path for my discovering a secret that will enable you to attract any man you desire. What I learned that afternoon explains why you so seldom meet the types of guys you most want to develop a relationship with.
I’d like to share with you the lesson I learned from Gabby,
and tell you how you can apply it in your own life.
It starts with understanding the type of guy you want to attract. If I had to guess it’s someone who’s:
Self-confident, but not egotistical. Successful, but not consumed by work. Knows when to be serious, and when to be light-hearted. Genuinely likes women. Curious about you, your dreams, hopes and ambitions. Both a good listener and a good conversationalist. A great sense of humor.
There’s probably more, but I think we’d agree that this is not a bad start.
As I mentioned, the good news is that there are actually a fair number of guys like that out there. Not huge numbers, but enough to go around.
But here’s the problem, and it’s why we tend not to meet you. It’s hard for me to explain this is a way that doesn’t sound incredibly egotistical, but I’ll give it a try.
We know that we’re a good catch. (Much like you should know that about yourself.)
As a result, we are deathly afraid that you’ll lump us into a group that we have no respect for.
Who are those people we’re so terribly concerned you’ll associate with us?
The pickup artists…the players…the sleaze-balls who come up to you uninvited with their inane pickup lines. The seemingly ever-increasing hordes of guys who view meeting women as some sort of stupid contest in which they judge their “success” by the volume of bed partners and phone numbers they can collect.
We’d rather chaperone a high school dance than have you think we’re that type of person.
So I think you see where I’m going with this.
The unfortunate reality is that we probably won’t come over and strike up a conversation because we’re afraid that you’ll think we’re just yet another slick asshole who’s only interested in quick score.
Or, at least we won’t come over…Unless something happens first. (Which I’ll explain in just a moment.)
Not only do we not want to be lumped into the category of players and pick-up artists, but also we’ve seen what you women do after an advance has been rejected. The huddled heads and giggling. We can only imagine what you’re saying.
No, the truth is that we don’t go where we’re not invited. It doesn’t have to be a huge invitation. We’re smart. We pick up clues. But if you want us to introduce ourselves, you’ve got to make it safe for us to do so.
In a classy way.
In a fun way.
In a way that’s consistent with who you are.
That was the beauty of Gabby’s approach. She made it safe and fun for the great guys to approach her. I remember watching the buxom blond chicks at the Four Seasons scrutinizing Gabby out of the corners of their eyes. You could see their tiny brains spinning, “Why is that guy going over there to talk with her? I’m much hotter.”
You see, most women don’t get this. Sure guys like hot chicks. They’re fun to look at. But that’s not what we’re really looking for.
So if you want the great guys to introduce themselves to you, you need to learn how to send out the signals that they’re looking for.
Which is why I want to show you a proactive approach for meeting great guys. It’s based on what guys really respond to, not what women think turns us on.
I’ll discuss both the mindset that you should develop, as well as the techniques that will enable you to meet men in a way that’s both FUN and SAFE
When you finish this program you’ll not only have a new perspective, but also a compete set of tools and insights that will enable you connect with any man you want and begin things right.
I’ve spent the past 2 years putting this program together. It’s not just another ebook but a complete downloadable audio & visual presentation in which you’ll hear me explain precisely what you can do-without changing a single thing about yourself-to attract great guys. It’s based on over 115 conversations I’ve had with my own personal group of Great Guys You’d Love To Meet, and a lot of women like Gabby.
But let me warn you…it’s totally candid. I’m going to share information with you that’s probably very different than what your girlfriends tell you. But…if you’re finally ready to take a proactive approach to finding the proverbial man of your dreams (and “YES” he does exist) then this is information you need to have.
You’ll learn.
What signals to send that let a guy know you’re interested in having him approach you. How to be both innocent and hot in your initial conversation. The art of flirting. Great Guys love women who can flirt. I’ll show you how to be classy and seductive at the same time. What words to use? I’ll share with you precisely what to say. Body language. Can you really attract great guys without saying a word? You bet you can! Here are the methods that women have used over the ages to get us guys to pay attention. What really attracts us? Physical beauty isn’t at the top of the list, but this is. If you tend to be somewhat shy, or get nervous when you see a guy you’re attracted to, you’ll find these techniques to be both natural and easy to use. What Great Guys say are the most effective ways to get our attention (and keep it). How to instantaneously tap into a man’s subconscious mind and appeal to his greatest desire. (And that’s not what you think.)
Naturally, meeting great guys is just the first step. I’m also going to share with you…
How to make a guy want to see you again. This is how you get him to think of you positively when you’re apart. What guys mean when we say, “I’m just not ready for a serious relationship.” or “It’s not you, it’s me.” How to keep the attraction building. The dumb things that guys do that you need to overlook and forgive. What to call us on, and what to let slide by. How to get out of “dating casually” and into a committed relationship as quickly as possible. Why you make bad decisions about guys and keep dating total jerks. (Many of us great guys just shake our heads in wonderment when we see you make the same mistake over and over again.)
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“I was beginning to think that there was something wrong with me after my divorce. I’d gotten myself into that mindset of maybe I don’t deserve a great guy. As I now know, it’s pretty impossible to attract a quality man if you think that way. Which is why I really value Mark’s advice. Not only does he share the techniques that make this fun and doable, but he also really boosted my self-confidence in the way he presented the material. Now I really believe I’m a great catch and
I’m attracting the quality of guy I deserve!”
Stacey L.
“The moment I saw a great guy I would get real nervous and never know what to say or do. The techniques that Mark shares are ones that I can actually use, not something that would work only in some movie. They enable me to send out the right signals without feeling cheap or not true to myself. I’m meeting some really great guys and having more fun than I ever thought I would again. Thanks.”
Carol B.
“After my divorce I had some real self-esteem issues. I actually thought that I was attracting jerks because that was all I deserved. Mark taught me that I am worthy of a great guy but that only jerks try to pick you up without a green light. Since I didn’t know how to send out the right signals I was hopeless. That’s all changed now :)"
Toni M.
“I never really thought about it, how the great guys desperately don’t want us to compare them to the ‘pick up artists’. It’s not that they’re shy or lack confidence, but if we don’t give them the right signals they just won’t take that first step. I’m pretty shy myself so this was something that I really didn’t think I’d be comfortable doing. But Mark showed me how to send the right messages in a way that’s comfortable, fun and safe. Thanks so much!”
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