Repair Your Marriage - Feel Like Newlyweds Again!
I will show you what you need to do to save your marriage
Even if you are the only one who wants to save it.
Dear Friend,
I know you want to save your marriage.
Right now, you may be feeling confused, afraid or maybe even angry.
You don't know where to turn or what to do. When you stated your
wedding vows, you meant it and you still love that person that you
vowed to spend the rest of your life with.
Your vow is your compact and you want to save your marriage more
than anything else, and you should!
I can help you. Over the past ten years, I have discovered exactly
what works and what doesn't work when it comes to saving a marriage.
Sit back for a moment and calm down; we can get through this.
I know you're hurt. Maybe you feel betrayed or unloved. Perhaps,
when you look at your spouse, you feel anger, resentment, sadness,
anxiety or confusion. It wasn't always like this though; was it?
I want you to stop for a moment and think back to a wondrous day in
your past: Your Wedding Day. Do you remember how you felt? Do you
remember the Joy, the Happiness, and the Contentment that you felt
that day?
Sure you were nervous, but deep down inside you knew that you had
chosen the right person to spend your life with. You were right and
that person is still the right person.
Remember these words?
to have and to hold from this day forward
for better or for worse,
for richer or for poorer,
in sickness and in health,
to love and to cherish;
from this day forward until death do us part.
They meant something then and today they still mean something.
Simply put, you are here because you no longer feel the joy, the
wonder, the excitement and passion that you felt on your wedding day.
Maybe it's worse and you are on a path leading to divorce.
Today, what was once wondrous is now tedious; what was once brought
you joy, now brings you anxiety. All of the little quirks that were,
at one time, cute and adorable now anger you or disappoint you.
You feel tired, stressed and emotionally drained. Although you are
not alone, You Do Not Have To Feel This Way.
First, you met, then you fell in love. You did not think about it or
plan it. It just happened. That is why it is called falling in love.
After you were married, things changed though. Pressures bear down on
us and drive us apart. Time that was once shared lovingly now seems
tedious. We only want to deal with the "for better" part of our vow
but the reality of the "for worse" part comes crashing down on us.
Falling in love is passive but staying in love is active and you
need to take action to do it.
To save your marriage, you are now going to have to DO something.
Reading this is only the first step.
Keep reading so that I can show you exactly what you need to do to
save your marriage.
First, you need to understand what you are up against. You will need
to know what you are facing as you do everything you can to save your
marriage.
Everyone you talk to will share strategies with you and the problem
is that most are tired and old and do not work.
Here are some strategies that simply do not work. Do not do them.
Strategy for Failure #1
Give them reassurance: "I've changed." "I won't lie to you anymore."
"I won't have another affair." If you have betrayed their trust,
simply stating that you will no longer do the things that hurt them
will never work.
Strategy for Failure #2
Arguing: Trying to reason, use logic, or to talk them into feeling
different or doing things differently never works. You will never be
able to convince or provide proof to someone that you are deserving of
Love. Don't bother trying. Instead it is up to you to lead them to
their own conclusion that you are deserving of their love. Love cannot
be taken. It must be freely given and I can show you how graciously
receive it.
Strategy for Failure 3.
Being Pessimistic: It is easy to fall into the pessimism trap. This
will automatically set you up for failure. Deep down everyone wants to
be right. You want to be right when you choose your career, your
haircut, clothing, home, car, etc. The problem with pessimism is that
it is a paradox: you want to save your marriage but you want to still
have that sense that you were right even if it fails. It will fail and
you will be right... About the wrong thing!
Strategy for Failure #4
Tell them over and over again, "I love you." This simply never works
and may backfire. Remember all of those things that your partner
thought were cute when you first met but now make your spouse's teeth
grind? Doing this will only add the most wonderful thing that you can
say to anyone to this list of things.
Success is within your grasp!
By now you may be feeling like there is nothing you can do. You may
have read the strategies for failure and thought about all of the
times that you have tried them and failed.
You do not have to fail. Here are some things that you can start
doing right now to change the path of your relationship and start
putting your marriage back on course for success.
Success Strategy #1
Agree with everything your spouse says or does.
You must agree even if they state that they want a divorce! I know
that you think I am crazy for suggesting this. However, here is the
reason. This is what psychologists call negative suggestibility.
Success Strategy #2
Stop pressuring!
Simply put: stop criticizing, stop complaining, stop whining.
Success Strategy #3
Act Happy.
Exhibit contentment with the status quo. Agree with it and act happy
about whatever it is that they want.
When your spouse is pulling away from you, wanting a divorce or
wanting separation, they are almost always experiencing an opposing
perception of what they believe your perception to be. By agreeing
with them, you will shift the perception and feelings of wanting to
remain together will be fostered. Some people call this reverse
psychology but that is not altogether true.
Do not defend yourself. It is ingrained in our nature to fight
opposing forces and to protect the helpless. If you simply agree with
the negative things your husband or wife is saying, the response will
be one of protection and caring. This alone can bring your
relationship a lot closer to being mended
What do I do?
These three steps are powerful tools and must be applied
consistently.
Covered in my book are more powerful tools and strategies that are
guaranteed to work. If you do take the steps that are clearly written
in my book, you will save your marriage. You will get back that
passion, contentment and love that you felt when you first got
married.
These strategies work and they are only a glimpse of what is inside
my book. Let me tell you about a situation involving someone close to
me.
Recently, a friend called me and told me that his wife had been
telling him that she did not love him anymore and that their "marriage
can't work and I don't want it to work." He was tired, and frustrated.
I had known that they were going through some tough times but I did
not realize how bad things had gotten. I sent him a copy of my book
even before it was finished. Inside my book there are specifics that
enable you to diffuse these situations. He read the book and put it
into practice. I didn't hear from him for two weeks, but then I
received this email from him:
Last night Cindy came home after work and it looked like she had
been crying. She sat down on our bed and started telling me how she
didn't love me anymore and that this marriage can't work. She told me
that we were through and she had absolutely no desire for it to work.
She then looked down and got up to leave.
I simply followed the advice that was in your book and said what it
told me to say. She had reached the door and she turned around and
stared at me. I don't know how to describe the look she gave me. She
left the room and I thought it was over.
Ten minutes later, she came back into the room, stood at the foot of
the bed looked at me and said: "I'm sorry, I do want our marriage to
work and I really think it can work."
Thanks Alex, I think we are going to make it.
This can happen to you!
Your situation is not unique and more importantly - your situation
is NOT hopeless.
This material works. When it is applied in a consistent manner, you
will save your marriage. Thousands have already benefitted from it and
remain happily married. This is a proven system that has been working
successfully with people in all kinds of situations and circumstances.
Stop Doing What Doesn't Work
By now you have already made enough mistakes on your own. There are
a lot of people that have made the same mistakes and more. Maybe it is
time to learn from others that have made the mistakes that you haven't
yet made so that you can avoid making them! Learn wisdom. Stop doing
the things that you think should be helping your marriage but are
secretly destroying it.
It is time that you learn what other people just like you have
learned and done to successfully win their lover's back. Many people
have saved their relationships, and restored all those wonderful
things you had in the beginning...the happiness, the affection, the
love, the communication...and even the sex!
Here is How I Can Help You Repair Your Marriage
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Traditional marriage counseling and advice books only work when both
parties are willing and active participants and are committed to
saving the relationship.
Here's the problem, most often, there is only one person in the
relationship who wants to repair the marriage and stop the divorce.
This is why marriage counseling almost never works, and in most cases
drives the other person even further away.
The book shows you exactly what needs to be done to repair your
marriage. The mood to set in the household and how to feel what your
partner is feeling are just some of the insights that you will
experience when reading the book.
Here are some of the topics discussed in my book
* The key to romance
* Finding the right path back to your mate
* Bring your mate closer to you
* The mindset of a healthy marriage
* Making your marriage your top priority
* Why all the advice that well-meaning professionals and friends
are giving you is actually making it impossible for things to work
out.
* Why "working" at your relationship isn't working, and what to do
about it.
* How to overcome the most self-defeating mindset. Once you realize
it, it's like flipping a switch that will allow you to get exactly
what you want.
Here is what a reader in Paramus, NJ had to say.
For almost twenty years my husband and I were "together for the
kids." After our youngest went off to college, I didn't know what to
do. Being alone frightened me but now we didn't have any reason to
stay together. After reading your book and doing what it told me to
do, I actually have a feeling of "togetherness" with my husband. I
cried a bit when I thought of all those wasted years. But we still
have plenty left to come.
Thank you Alex, We are in love again.
Fran and Mark K.
Paramus, NJ
A reader in Vancouver, British Columbia Writes:
After the twins were born, there just wasn't any romance in the
marriage. We fought all the time and when we weren't fighting, it was
just cold. If I had known how easy it was to put the spark back in our
marriage I would have done this stuff from the start.
My wife smiles at me when I walk through the door! Just like she
used to. That may seem like a small thing, but it makes me feel like a
million bucks!
Frank Mirrop
Vancouver, BC
The next step is yours to take.
Remember your marriage is not a passive thing. It is active and to
repair it, you must take constructive action right away, or the very
thing you fear the most will come true, and your situation will become
hopeless.
You are in a critical period right now and everything you do right
now is either helpful or harmful, and most of what we do and say
"naturally" often pushes your husband or wife further away.
"Repair your Marriage!" will give you the Knowledge and wisdom you
need to do and say the things that will be crucial in repairing your
marriage.
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You married your spouse because he or she was the most precious
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I look forward to hearing from you today.
Sincerely,
Alex Smith B.S., M.B.S
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