Distance Relationship Secrets | Surviving a long distance
relationship
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EVER WONDERED WHY ONLY SOME COUPLES SEEM TO HAVE GREAT LONG DISTANCE
RELATIONSHIP WHILE THE REST STRUGGLE?
LET ME SHARE WITH YOU SECRETS THAT I DISCOVERED THAT ENSURED WE HAD A
GREAT LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP. THEY WORKED FOR US, AND I GUARANTEE
THEY CAN WORK FOR YOU AS WELL.
by Leon Louw - Author, Long Distance Relationship Secrets
The pillars of a successful long distance relationship are:
Communication, Commitment and Trust
Which one of the three corners of a triangle is the most important?
Or to put it another way, which once of the three can you take out and
still have a triangle? It's obvious that if you take out any one of
them, your triangle will collapse. Thes same goes for any relationship
- but I'll show you why they are so crucially important in a long
distance relationship.
COMMUNICATION
Communication is such a basic part of life that you'd think people
would naturally be proficient at it. I mean, breathing is an essential
part of living and most people seem to manage just fine! Unfortunately
that's not the case with communcation.
The sad part is that can be no such thing as a successful
relationship where there is little or no communication between
partners. I don't mean trivial communication like asking how your
partner's day was. What a relationship needs to develop is deep
communication - the type that can only be had between two equals in a
loving relationship.
What do you think is the most common reason for relationships to
break? Maybe it's unfaithfulness? Or what about violence? Maybe sexual
problems? No. In a recent survey it was found that 85% of
relationships end due to a lack of communication.
COMMITMENT
In order for a relationship to work, you have to decide that you
will make it work. It really is as simple as that. But how do you stay
committed to someone that you can't see or touch? Commitment builds
heavily on communication and trust. The better you communicate, and
the more you trust each other, the easier it will be for you to truly
commit to your partner.
TRUST
I bet you didn't expect me to say this, but distrust is normal and
not necessarily bad for your relationship. You should be worried that
your partner may leave you - if you didn't worry, it would mean that
don't think your partner is worth fighting for_._
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__ Irrespective of how you ended up apart, you will undoubtedly be
faced with many of the following questions all the time:
* Do long distance relationships REALLY WORK?
* How do you really TRUST your partner to be faithful?
* Will it feel WEIRD when we get back together?
* When we're finally back together, will my partner still love me
as much as BEFORE?
* How far is too far, and how long is too long?
* How and when do you get together?
* How do you fill the EMPTINESS inside without going mad or
becoming unfaithful?
IF YOU'VE EVER ASKED ANY OF THE ABOVE
QUESTIONS - I CAN HELP YOU!
Spare me a few minutes and I will show the easy approach to long
distance relationships that we discovered through trial and error.
Feel free to leave the site at anytime... but just realize that if
you're looking for support on the internet you're in for a shock. I
tried,
believe me, I did, but it's just not worth it.
I recently did a quick survey on the questions asked on
a popular online forum. Out of 145 answers compared, I
found the following:
- only 49.7% of people thinking long distance
relationships may actually work - some weren't
even very positive
- 40% said there's no way they can work
- 10.3% of the people had no real opinion
Judging from their answers, most of the 49.7% of people
thinking long distance relationships may work, if
questioned, would probably not give it more than a 50%
chance of eventually working.
If you want real advice, that's not full of fluff and
cuts straight to the point, you've just landed on the
right website. Keep reading and I'll show you what you
need to know in order to have a great long distance
relationship.
WHY DO I HAVE ANSWERS WHEN OTHERS DON'T?
If you asked that question - bravo! You won't be fooled by
imitators. Especially those "experts" saying that a long distance
relationship doesn't work. You can trust me, because:
I'm in a long distance relationship since 2005!
My job sends me to far-off, remote places a lot - mostly alone
...at the moment I'm now working in the Democratic Republic of
Congo. The worldwide economic collapse forced me to take this job. I
really had no other choice. The pay is really good, but...
I don't get to see the person I love the most, for 10 straight
weeks.
(As a side note, I wouldn't trade my relationship with Mari for
anything in the world, whether it's a long distance relationship, or a
"normal" relationship)
SO HOW CAN A MAN TELL A WOMAN
ANYTHING ABOUT RELATIONSHIPS?
I'm not going to! I would like to introduce my Secret Weapon - MY
WIFE, MARI.
She gave an invaluable woman's perspective on many issues. We even
included sections where we SHARE OUR OWN OPINIONS. You'd be AMAZED how
different men and women can interpret certain things.
We'll share with you how we used those differences to our
advantage, and how you can also use it to strengthen your
relationship.
Don't just take my word for it
Look at some of the great testimonials
I've been getting
I've just skimmed over the book and so far it looks great. The first
part
is a really good guide to help understand personality differences. I
totally agree with you that both people in the relationship need to
develop themselves and their interests and keep themselves occupied.
Long
distance relationships give you the space to do these things and to
get to
know who you are as a person, without your partner "getting in the
way"...lol.
I also liked the practical things, like managing finances, changing a
tyre
and time management. I am working full time as well as a full time
student
and really need to organise myself and get ahead to make regular time
to
meet up with my partner for a couple of days at a time without
feeling
guilty or that I am neglecting work or study.
Carole Brown, UK
THE WORLD DOESN'T LIKE
LONG DISTANCE COUPLES
For some reason, society is against you when you're in a long
distance relationship. They seem to forget that it's not something
new. Through the ages, countless others before us have had very
sucessful and fulfilling long distance relationships.
But for some reason, when you seek support from friends or family -
they usually think you're CRAZY FOR EVEN TRYING.
Sometimes they even DISCOURAGE you from going into a long distance
relationship! Who are they to decide on the strength of your love? We
sure had that. Most of Mari's friends tried to discourage her. And
even those that didn't seemed surprised every time she told them that
we're still together!
THE INTERNET IS FULL OF LIES ON
LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIPS!
I've already given you the statistics. People really are cynics
nowadays! Don't they believe in true love anymore? We sure do, and it
worked out great for us!
We've been there. We've searched for the ever elusive answers. We've
looked for the support when it wasn't there. It took us years to find
the right answers.
AND THAT'S WHEN IT HIT ME - MAYBE WE COULDN'T _FIND_ THE SUPPORT -
BUT WE CAN BE THE SUPPORT!
Trust me, when you say you're looking for answers - we REALLY know
what you mean. And we've narrowed it down to the important ones for
you.
TO HAVE A SUCCESSFUL, FULFILLING LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP,
WE'VE FOUND THE FOLLOWING VERY IMPORTANT:
* How to have _pleasant_ phone conversations each and every time!
* How to REINFORCE YOURSELF TO EASE THE PAIN and fill the
EMPTINESS YOU EXPERIENCE.
* How to SAY GOODBYE and avoid making a scene - especially on an
airport or bus stop.
* Building your relationship across the distance to become an
unbreakable bond!
* Strengthening your relationship through trust.
* How to have wonderful and affordable get-togethers regularly!
* Getting together - how to avoid disappointment by
over-excitement or high expectations.
* How to ADAPT when it suddenly becomes a long term proposition.
This is only the tip of the iceberg of what we want to share with
you.
Most of this information can not be found anywhere else!
The information we're giving you was gained by personal experience -
both our own and the experiences of others that have gone through the
SAME PROCESS.
We've also employed the help of seasoned relationship counselors on
those sticky areas where we didn't have the appropriate knowledge to
ensure that we give you the absolute best advice.
HOW TO HAVE PLEASANT PHONE CONVERSATIONS,
EACH AND EVERY TIME!
Ask any expert - the key to any successful relationship or success
for that matter, is GOOD COMMUNICATION. But what do you say to each
other and how do you avoid phone-fights? I'm sure you've fought over
the smallest little things over the phone. We sure did.
Few people know this, but phone conversations rock! If you know how
to use them effectively you can even have fun and strenghten your
relationship in ways that no other form of communication can even get
close to! We've had some of the best conversations in our whole
relationship over the phone! (nothing beats in-your-arms conversations
though...)
You probably thought phone conversations would be _easy if you're in
love_ We did, and we were wrong. Communication is an art that very few
people learn. It sure took us long enough to figure out what to say
and when to say it. You can have months of frustrating phone calls if
you don't follow this advice.
Months of frustration that I would like to spare you.
HOW TO EASE THE PAIN AND FILL
THE EMPTINESS__ YOU FEEL INSIDE
I never felt more lonely than after arriving home alone from a
weekend together. I'd sometimes go into a mild depression and either
don't want to eat at all - or eat everything in sight! Mari showed it
more openly by crying sometimes, but believe me, I think I felt worse
(just don't tell her I said so... )
* Discover how we used the time effectively to strengthen our
relationship and ourselves - for the rest of your lives.
* Discover the great ways we found to keep ourselves occupied - I
actually GOT IN THE BEST SHAPE of my life while doing it! (I lost
about 15kg (33 lb) by positively channeling my negative feelings.
* Learn the #1 method we discovered that you can use to
instantly and positively channel all negative emotions towards your
own greatness - FOR EVER!
These proven tactics goes above and beyond just your relationship. I
believe they've literally set us up for GREATNESS - for the rest of
your lives! We're just not the same people anymore, and it's all
thanks to our long distance relationship. I actually pitty people that
haven't gone through a long distance relationship, because their
missing out on so many growth opportunities.
HOW TO SAY GOODBYE AND _AVOID MAKING A SCENE_
Probably the hardest thing I ever had to do in our relationship was
saying goodbye. Even now it still gets my stomach into knots. As I
mentioned, it's not a picnic for Mari either...
It litterally took us years to figure out how to get rid of the sick
nauseating feeling we always get when saying goodbye. That's until we
learned how to occupy our minds and use the time for personal growth.
I'll also tell you the last words you need to say before leaving
that will put you both in a better mood!
BUILDING YOUR RELATIONSHIP ACROSS THE DISTANCE
TO BECOME STRONGER THAN BEFORE
People who say that long distance relationships can't work should
keep quiet and stay out of sight. We're on a quest to prove them
wRONG!
A long distance relationship may be the best thing that has ever
hapened to your love life! You'll learn the secret to writing emails
that always bring your message across clearly and without possible
confusion. And also how to re-read emails that may have had you in
tears first. I'll also show to you the best ways to plan a surprise
visit - you don't want to suprise to be on you!
It literally took us years to uncover these amazing tips. Why would
you want to waste all that time?
STRENGTHENING YOUR RELATIONSHIP
THROUGH TRUST
Even as a truly commited loving couple, trust wasn't always easy in
our relationship.
In Long Distance Relationship Secrets, we show you just how
important trust is in a relationship and we show you how to reaffirm
your trust without sounding hollow.
We also share some easy trustbuilders that are often overlooked.
HOW TO HAVE AMAZING, AFFORDABLE
GET-TOGETHERS
You definitely don't see each other nearly enough. That's the whole
definition of a long distance relationship!
But dont' worry. Regular get-togethers can be achieved!
If you're really good, you can even get your boss to pay for your
visit - and I'll show exactly how I did it to go and visit Mari as
often as possible! Failing that, you still want the best traveling
rates, don't you - well, I've got you covered there as well. Just
follow these simple steps and you will pay less than you ever thought
possible.
We also share with you a whole range of activities that you can do
that will ensure you have the time of your life - and help you avoid
that nagging feeling that you're about to leave again in a few days.
GETTING TOGETHER - HOW TO AVOID DISAPPOINTMENT BY OVER-EXCITEMENT OR
HIGH EXPECTATIONS
You can't help but be afraid to get back together again. So much
could have changed. What if the "spark" has gone out and you just
haven't noticed yet? What if you get a "cold" welcome? For some silly
reason, I still get that feeling sometimes, even though I know it will
be great to see Mari again.
* How to guarantee that each and every get-together is EVEN BETTER
THAN THE LAST!
* How to make use of FREE services like FACEBOOK to ensure that
you are always up to date.
* Do you fight a lot? We sure did, and it's good news! If you know
how to interpret the fights...
* Why a little "time-out" is so important - even though your
time is limited.
When we started sticking to these simple guidelines, we started
having THE MOST AMAZING TIME each and every visit. Avoid wasting your
time by making the mistakes we made as well by countless others before
us.
WHAT IF IT BECOMES LONG TERM - HOW
TO ADAPT TO AN EXPANDED TIME FRAME
The last thing you want is to be APART EVEN MORE. What do you do
when there is NO OTHER CHOICE? WE THOUGHT LONG DISTANCE WAS OVER FOR
US, BUT HERE WE ARE AGAIN.
MAYBE YOU JUST NEED TO TAKE A FRESH LOOK AT YOU SITUATION TO SEE IF
LONG DISTANCE IS REALLY YOUR ONLY OPTION (IN OUR CASE, IT REALLY WAS).
WE'LL HELP YOU TO GET YOUR PRIORITIES SORTED OUT QUICKLY AND EASILY
WITH A VERY SIMPLE TEST. MAYBE YOU'RE SUBCONSCIOUSLY SABOTAGING YOUR
OWN HAPPINESS BY BEING AFRAID TO BE TOGETHER! WE'LL SHOW YOU HOW TO
DEAL WITH IT.
Before heading into a long-term long distance relationship, you
absolutely must review the situation following these easy step-by-step
guidelines. There may be SOLUTIONS THAT ARE A LOT EASIER than you
think.
There's a ton of great info in here and I especially like the
section on
"reinforcing yourself" -- definitely something I'm finding important
in
making long distance work. The parts with practical ideas about
travel and
visits and thinking about your life situation were also great. I
actually
think it would be great if the chapter on reinforcing yourself were
LONGER, becaue the information is so useful.
M. Greenlee, Illinois, USA
HOW MUCH DO YOU REALLY
VALUE YOUR RELATIONSHIP?
Can you place a monetary value on your relationship?
How much would you pay to ensure that you stay in a loving, caring
relationship for the rest of your life?
Can I even ask you such a question without offending you and
bringing your reputaion into disrepute? Obviously you love your
partner, otherwise you wouldn't be here. I believe most people to be
far more in touch with their emotions than is widely believed - and
that includes you!
Let me ask you straight: Can you even risk losing the love of your
life due to some silly little misunderstanding?
You can try and filter through all the garbage and fluff out there,
or you can take our helping hand. We've narrowed it down for you,
including only that which you need and eliminating all the useless
"information" that only serves to confuse you.
INTRODUCING LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP SECRETS
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Long Distance Relationship Secrets is not written like a scientific
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live in a fast paced world, where there is no time for beating around
the bush.
You want information and you want it now!
YOU ARE LITERALLY SECONDS AWAY FROM STARTING
A NEW CHAPTER IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP!
We wrote this book out of a desire to really help people that
struggle with their relationship the way we did. It really breaks our
hearts to see desperate people getting useless advice on forums. We
know long distance relationships work, because we've seen them work -
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Thanks a lot for the book. It's the best purchase I've made in a
very long
time. I really liked the Conflict Managment part. I've started
implementing
some of your ideas, like sending him food that he can't get there,
and an A4
scrapbook with some of our photos. So we're implementing a few
things, and
then we take it day by day. It really also helps when he has to go
again. I
try not to be so emotional, as it upsets him.
Contrary to the fact that long distance drivers have bad reputations,
not
all of them are like that. That is where trust comes in. I'm still
working
on that, but it's getting a lot better.
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