UnCrushable Confidence
_ ARE YOU READY TO CRUSH THIS TYPE OF__ THINKING..._
_ "I CAN'T..." _
_ "WHAT IF I..."_
_ "WHO AM I TO..." _
_ "WHAT WILL ___ THINK..."_
_ "IF ONLY I COULD ___ THEN..."_
_ "WHAT IF THEY DISCOVER I'M A 'POSER'..." _
_THE "LOSER" MENTALLY ANNIHILATES PASSION, PRODUCTION, AND PROFITS.
YOU CAN GET UNCRUSHABLE CONFIDENCE EXPLODE YOUR COMFORT ZONE, SHATTER
LOW-SELF ESTEEM AND GET ON TRACK FOR THE FIRST TIME IN YOUR LIFE._
From the Desk Of: PAUL EVANS, CONFIDENCE COACH
Date: Saturday, 4:32 a.m.
Dear Friend,
There's no doubt...
_GREAT WHITE SHARKS SMELL BLOOD IN THE WATER._
_GERMAN SHEPHERDS SENSE FEAR ON THE THIEF._
FEAR IS AN APHRODISIAC TO A PREDATOR!
They can smell it. They can sense it.
And it's no different for you and me...
People can smell fear fear on you and me as well. It's a BARRIER to
success in business and life. How many times have you said, "I love
being around him; he so insecure."
Exactly. Never. Why... CONFIDENCE ATTRACTS, WHILE INSECURITY REPELS.
WHY A LACK OF CONFIDENCE IS NOTORIOUSLY LINKED TO FAILURE
Lack of confidence prevents risk. A person who does not have the
faith in themselves does one thing... NOTHING. Sure, they dream. They
wish. They even plan. They work behind the scenes. But that's were it
stops. The moment they think someone might actually see and pass
judgment on them, they crumble.
Sad.
_Have you been there?_ You work hard on an idea and when it get's
close to launch, you collapse. You get nervous. You wonder if it is
good enough. You wonder if people will like it. You wonder if all your
friends were right when they told you that you were crazy.
Self-doubt is pure evil. It can snatch success away and leaves your
brain swirling in a soup of uncertainty. It's amazing the crazy
scenarios your mind can create when you lack confidence.
So nothing happens. And that's the WORSE kind of
failure..._UNPROVEN FAILURE._
At least a concept that doesn't work after an attempt can be put in
the "at least I tried" category. But the one that just rests in fear,
man, that's heart wrenching because _you never know what could have
been_.
Listen, we're just talking about ideas and concepts. WHAT ABOUT ALL
THE OTHER AREAS OF LIFE WHERE A LACK OF CONFIDENCE CAN CRUSH YOUR
CHANCES...
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The guy or girl you never asked out because you were too ______.
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The position you never applied for because you didn't believe you
could ______.
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The great plan you wrote on the napkin of that restaurant that went
up in smoke because you just didn't think ________________.
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The relationship with your child that you failed to capture because
you knew you blew it in the past and you knew there was no way you
___________.
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The humiliating insecurity that developed because someone close to
you took advantage of you and made you believe that you __________.
THOSE ____________S ARE SO DEFEATING!! Those blanks get filled with
negative, untrue thoughts because of a lack of confidence! What could
have been.
SPECIAL REPORT #1
HOW LACK OF CONFIDENCE CREATES FAILURE...
6 MINDSETS TO AVOID
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_ "I CAN'T..." CREATES THE DOUBT MENTALITY._ This mindset keeps you
from getting started, so you never know what could have been.
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_ "WHAT IF..." CREATES THE DREAM MENTALITY. _This mindset spends
time inventing mental scenarios that may never come about.
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_ "WHO AM I TO..." CREATES THE MOSES MENTALITY. _This mindset
concentrates on all the reasons they are don't deserve the success or
fame.
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_ "WHAT WILL ___ THINK..." CREATES THE ACCEPTANCE MENTALITY. _This
mindset is much more concerned about what other people think of them
than what they think of themselves.
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_ "IF ONLY I COULD ___ THEN..." CREATES THE VICTIM MENTALITY. _This
mindset believes that things are happening "to" them instead of
through them. They blame others for their lack of accomplishment.
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_ "WHAT IF THEY DISCOVER I'M A 'POSER'..." CREATES THE IMPOSTER
MENTALITY. _This mindset makes the person feel like an imposter. They
are afraid people will discover they are not really talented or
deserving.
BELIEVE IT OR NOT WE ARE ACTUALLY PROGRAMMED FOR INSECURITY.
This part of this letter is worth the time you are spending on this
page.
Read closely. Do not skip a word.
You are being PROGRAMMED to be insecure.
This is not a wild conspiracy theory, it is a FACT. You are being
"trained" to be skeptical, negative, lazy and filled with self-doubt.
You see, everything that enters our minds makes an impact. What we
watch and listen to (directly or indirectly) shapes us.
THINK ABOUT THAT FOR A MOMENT.
From birth you have been TOLD THINGS...
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You're an idiot.
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You'll never make it.
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You deserve better.
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That's crazy.
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What makes you think you can do that?
From birth you've been SOLD THINGS...
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You need to be this weight to be accepted.
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You need to be this smart to enter this school.
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You need to make this much money to be important.
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You need to wear these clothes to fit in.
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You need to drive this care to prove you've made it.
Messages similar to those bombard your life thousand's of times a
week. Whether it's the media or a friend, you are constantly
surrounded with negative messages about yourself.
And the evidence begins to stack up! You begin to SEE how you
don't fit. Even though you don't say it out loud, you begin to FEEL
like you're a misfit.
That's even true in the internet marketing field.
GOOD NIGHT! Have you noticed how EASY it is to make money online? I
mean have you noticed how many people seem to making millions? Have
you picked up on how simple they say it is?
What's the result? You buy the product and it doesn't work for you
the way it did for the guru. Internally, you begin to think something
is wrong with you. You chalk up another defeat. You see a pattern of
failure in your ventures. And you continue the negative cycle because
your programmed by the failures.
IT'S TIME TO BREAK THE CHAINS...
CONFIDENCE: THE GREAT EQUALIZER
Insecurity is a decision that you do not have to make. You can
actually reverse the programming. You can totally control what
influences you, and control the outcome.
Do you really believe the most successful are that much smarter or
more talented than you?
I'll tell you right now; they are not!! (if you don't believe that
you've got a long way to go.)
But I do know this... THEY ARE MUCH MORE CONFIDENT!
They believe they are right. They believe their ideas will work.
The do not listen to the doubters. They surround themselves with other
believers. They work hard to prove themselves right. They fail and
still believe. They learn from the disappointment and try again
because they KNOW it's going to work. They go back to the drawing
board and start again. They make it happen through a certainty that
has the power of a rocket thrust.
They do not whine, make excuses, sit around and mope or pack it in.
When YOU have confidence like that, you'll immediately "discover"
success like never before.
WHY AM I SO CONFIDENT?
I shouldn't be confident at all. I've actually had people tell me
that!
Here's why...
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My father left home before I was born.
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Raise in a single parent household.
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Teased about my height.
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Teased about wearing glasses.
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Teased about my crooked teeth (pre-braces).
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Teased about my metal mouth (with braces).
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Failed business at the age of 21.
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Occupations where I had conflict after conflict.
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Wife died when our son was 5 weeks old
Are those enough reasons for you? Technically, I shouldn't be
confident, but I am because...
CIRCUMSTANCES HAVE NOTHING TO DO WITH CONFIDENCE.
Those events of life did not change me negatively. They made me
better, stronger. You examine the average life that has been through
something similar you will often find a shell of a person. Defeated by
life.
But those things made me more confident. THEY MADE MY LIFE MORE
VALUABLE.
I can HELP people who doubt their dad's love.
I can HELP single moms discover that they can do it alone.
I can HELP the misfit at school recognize their value.
I can HELP the fail business owner learn from the disaster.
I can HELP the discontent worker find their way.
I can HELP the man or woman who loses a spouse find their way
again!!
Why shouldn't I be confident?! I am making a HUGE difference in the
lives of thousands of people. And you can too!
It's time to...
CRUSH THE LIMITS!
I want to help you get confident. It's time to CRUSH SELF-LIMITING
BELIEFS and reach your goals. It's time to stop making excuses, suck
it up and launch out with assurance.
You just read about all the reasons I shouldn't be confident.
However, this confidence has led to some great successes - personally
and professionally. And that has just catapulted my confidence (just
when you thought it couldn't go any higher!)
Now if negatives life experiences can boost confidence, then
successes can propel you to the highest levels of productivity and
profitability.
If you want to stay where you are that's up to you. You have that
right. But if you want to take the needed steps to gain uncrushable
confidence, then keep reading.
SPECIAL REPORT #2
CONFIDENCE, NOT ARROGANCE...
Some will use this excuse to stay insecure...
"I don't want to become arrogant."
There is a HUGE difference between confidence and arrogance.
* Confidence wants to help others.
* Arrogance is self serving
* Confidence believes we are all on the same level. We just get to
choose what we do at that level.
* Arrogance believes it is better than others and thinks others
should agree.
HOW UNCRUSHABLE CONFIDENCE WILL ALTER THE DIRECTION OF YOUR LIFE
AND BUSINESS
In order to succeed you need a confidence that is not demolished by
people or events. You need to become unbending in your self-belief.
But I'm not talking about a foolish, unproven belief.
With Uncrushable Confidence you will...
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Demolish the fears that are holding you back.
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Complete the products you shelved because of insecurity.
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Build your business around strengths.
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Destroy the lies you've believed about yourself.
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Take more accurate action.
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Stand up to whatever "bully" there is in your life.
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Discover your value and begin offering it to others.
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Face your anxieties with boldness.
And it will lead to...
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Better business.
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Better products.
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Better relationships.
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Better websites.
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Better conversations.
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Better open doors.
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Better results.
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Better attitude.
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Better....
You become a better person with more confidence. Better for
yourself and better for those around you.
UNCRUSHABLE CONFIDENCE
EBOOK | VIDEO | AUDIO | WORKBOOK
The system reveals blow by blow how to gain confidence. It's what
I've learned about confidence through experience and study.
But this system will not make you like me (you don't want that). It
will make you the you your supposed to be!
Quick sidebar: Did you know that's the #1 reason online
entrepreneurs fail? They buy the "expert's" product and try to become
like the expert instead of staying themselves and matching the
techniques to their own personal personality and productivity.
Here's what you get with Uncrushable Confidence...
VIDEO/AUDIO/IPOD/EBOOK: ($97)
You'll gain confidence as you read each word and apply it. Here are
just a few of the power principles you'll tap into to catapult your
confidence...
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The confidence formula and exactly how to apply it to YOU.
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How to move toward unconscious confidence.
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A seven step system for taking ANY product you buy and make it work
for you.
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How to product confident change without the backlash of anxiety and
fear.
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25 confidence builders that you can use any time and any place.
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Confidence crushers that you have to avoid or at least learn to
control.
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The top five confidence crushers and how you can destroy them.
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A simple confidence secret that will immediately allow you to feel
and act with certainty.
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The real reason lottery winners lose it all within a few years and
how you can use the principle to propel you forward.
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How the combination of purpose and passion creates an irreplaceable
life.
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4 confidence builders you can tap into for a surge of assurance.
WORKBOOK:
This is a critical component. This workbook will help you discover
your areas of value. It will help you take the ebook and audio and
apply it.
This is a WORKbook. _Confidence is not automatic._ Remember, you
are being programmed with negatives all day long. You cannot skim
through a book or listen to audios one time and expect a miracle.
Yes, you will notice an immediate difference after reading and
listen. But you need to take the next step and discover how to make
these principles work for you personally. It's not hard, but it is
essential.
Q & A SESSION: ($49)
In addition to the training session the following questions will be
answered in this bonus session. These questions come directly from
online entrepreneurs
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I don't want to commit to a strategy in case it is the wrong one. I
don't have time to waste.
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Easily overwhelmed with mountains of start-up info. Afraid of
deeper-in-debt investing. Time and money are going out the window.
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Do I have to give up integrity to appear confident, ie, exaggerate
my abilities to appear knowledgeable?
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How can I strengthen my confidence and make it stay on top for good?
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How do I go about making myself known on a topic without thinking I
am boasting and being a "fraud
