The Modern Man eBook
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WANT TO KNOW WHAT IT TAKES TO BE THE VERY BEST?
THIS WILL HELP!
SOMETHING THIS SIMPLE WILL PROVIDE YOU WITH ALL THE HELP YOU WILL EVER
NEED TO BECOME THE BEST MAN YOU CAN BE!
ASK YOURSELF. WHAT ARE YOU WORTH AND HOW FAR WOULD YOU BE WILLING TO
GO TO BE THE BEST YOU CAN BE?
WHAT MAKES A MAN ATTRACTIVE?
Is it confidence, looks, expensive accessories, or do the clothes
really make the man as the old saying goes? What divides an
‘attractive’ man from an ‘unattractive’ man and how can you
know which category you’re falling under?
For decades, these have been the types of questions that have haunted
your modern man. Unless they were born with the secrets of GQ and
Cosmo already implanted into their brains, it’s not uncommon for
guys to worry almost as much, sometimes more, than a woman about what
the opposite sex is thinking of them at any given moment.
What that should tell you is that it’s long past time that a
solution be found. It isn’t enough to simply consult dating manuals
or to pick up bestsellers guaranteed to provide you with new and
innovative one liners to shell out at your local single’s bar.
No, to survive the twisting cesspool that is a woman’s brain, a man
must be willing to take that one crucial step further.
A ROSE BY ANY OTHER NAME
Let’s face it, going out into the wonderful world of dating is very
much like a gazelle throwing itself willingly into a pit full of
hungry hyenas.
You, of course, representing the gazelle, while the opposite sex
represents the ravenous carnivores that cackle in demented glee as
they consume the flesh from your bones.
Gory right?
Well life, love, and especially happiness ain’t exactly all guns
and roses (note that that isn’t how the saying goes, I just like the
band). To change what a woman sees in you, there needs to be a way to
change what you see in yourself, and no avenue can teach you how to go
about doing just that better than THE MODERN MAN BY JOHN VAN PUTTEN.
Despite what the Lion King and Animal Planet have taught you in the
past, Hyenas aren’t nearly as intimidating as they’re made out to
be. As a gazelle, you don’t always have to try and outrun the teeth
snapping at your heels. Nor do you have to dread the actual
confrontation once that curvy hyena finally manages to catch you.
Or, trip over you. Whicheverwouldn’t necessarily smell as
sweet. The mistake that a lot of guys make, is that when they’re
trying to ‘get the girl’ they’ll change themselves. It’s
great if you’re going for self improvement, but lying to yourself or
someone else in such a way isn’t the best way to start off a
relationship, no matter if that relationship is casual, based on
friendship, or hot an’ heavy.
HERE’S HOW IT USUALLY PANS OUT:
* The man finds out what the girl likes in guys. Or, more
realistically, he watches a lot of female based television (usually
Lifetime and WE) and then assumes that these alternate realities are
accurate depictions of what the average woman wants in a man, and then
goes from there.
* The man (i.e. you) now seeing himself as an expert on women,
proceeds to use a ton of gel in his hair, wear tight pants that cut
off circulation to important body parts, and change his regular walk
to a weird sort of hop type strut that is reminiscent of a wounded
animal…primarily a gazelle.
* The man will then combine his ‘new look’ and his ‘improved
knowledge’ with either one of a couple of well known personalities.
HE WILL EITHER BE:
• The womanizer (cause chicks love a lady’s man)
• Mr. Sensitive (who always comes across as either too sensitive or
just fake)
• The bad boy (who walks a thin line between The Fonze from Happy
Days and Ike Turner)
• The cool guy (who is rare since most of the legit ones seem to
have died out after graduating high school)
• The strong but silent type aka the ‘Mysterious Stranger’ type
(who could either be hiding the fact that he’s a murderer, a married
man, a woman, or a spy)
• The All American Boy (who is often just a bit too wholesome), or
• The jester (who has a hard time finding a balance between
annoying and too funny to take seriously in a romantic relationship)
THERE ARE WAYS
Not all women are going to appreciate a guy who falls into one of
these categories. Those types of men don’t really exist except as a
generalization for a man’s reigning personality traits.
Which means that the ‘cool guy’ isn’t suave and sophisticated
even when he’s brushing his teeth or eating his captain crunch.
He’s a guy who has a certain undeniable something about himself.
Something that makes the best parts of his personality seem to shine
when he’s around other people.
In other words, he’s a modern man with tons of charisma and stage
presence. Sort of like a potential cult leader or serial killer, only
with no creep factor and more sex appeal.
So how can you produce the same effect?
Well the answer to that is simple. You can.
THE MODERN MAN IS BROKEN UP INTO TWO VERY IMPORTANT SECTIONS.
The first part involves your external attractivness, while the second
half deals with inner attractiveness.
It covers a number of things that you may not have even considered
before. Including:
• How to take care of your teeth, hair, eyes, and even your lips
and nails
• How to eat and exercise right so that you feel as good as
you’ll look
• How to change from the inside out
• How to express the qualities that you have without being pushy
about it
This last point will likely be the most important, if for no other
reason than that very often people can’t see all of what they’re
capable of. In order to succeed there needs to be a level of open
mindedness and approachability to your character that brings people in
instead of driving them away.
You want to come across as the interesting person you are and not a
four letter adjective.
These days, being unique is no longer taboo, but rather something to
be acknowledged and praised for. Hiding that part of yourself beneath
layers of what you believe would actually attract a woman is unfair,
not only to yourself, but to whoever approaches you.
And honestly, would you really be attracted to the type of woman who
only wants the guy she sees and not the person you actually are?
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CAN ANYONE SAY ‘NASTY BREAK UP’?
By learning how to be real and being willing to take chances…
There are around 6,879,967,920 people in the world right now. Out of
those, 310,652,173 reside in America.
You’d think that out of all those people, it would be possible to
find the one who is meant for you. Or even just a handful that like
you alright. The Modern Man teaches you that in order to find that
special person, you have to be willing to do a number of things.
INCLUDING:
• Learning how to be real
• Being the one to approach other people and not simply waiting
around for them to come up to you
• Flirt and take various social risks. Not to gain attention but to
push yourself in situations that you may usually find awkward or
boring
• Not just have integrity and morals, but behaving in a way that
let’s others know that you follow those ethical guidelines
The point of The Modern Man isn’t just to get a date. It’s an
ebook meant to help you become a better person and therefore a better
man.
And no other type of guy has an easier time getting a date than a
good one.
…you’ll never have to fear those hyenas again.
The dating world can be scary, it’s true.
But I’m sure with the help of John van Putten’s The Modern Man,
you can somehow find the courage and wherewithal to survive it.
Hey, if you’re lucky, you may even come out of it alive.
TESTIMONIALS
I used to hate talking to women. I would always feel as if whatever
came out of my mouth was making me sound like an idiot. But after I
managed to read The Modern Man, I found that the whole thing wasn’t
nearly as big a deal as I had always made it out to be. It actually
surprised me to think of how many years I wasted stressing, when I
could have just followed the suggestions in this book from the very
start and had a lot more fun as a result. -CHRISTOPHER SIMPSON (23),
EERIE, IL
I’m almost thirty years old and I still look at social gatherings
as if they were the most horrible things known to mankind. I still
don’t like socializing, but after I read what john had to say, at
least I’m more relaxed with myself and the people around me. Parties
and bars are no longer torturous, and you have no idea how grateful I
am for the change.-ROBERT TREVAYNE (28), PIERRE, SOUTH DAKOTA
I’ve never been very confident in myself. I always felt as if I had
to overcompensate to make up for something I lacked. Like, I don’t
have a six pack or anything, but I figured if I acted like I did and
kept my stomach tucked in then the woman wouldn’t notice until it
was too late. Well that didn’t work. Then I read John’s book and I
tried accepting the things about myself that were different. All I can
say now is that women rub my belly now like I’m Buddha. I don’t
even need a six pack at this point. It’s awesome. TYLER EVANS (31),
JEFFERSON CITY, MISSOURI
Do you know how hard it is worrying about gray hair and creaky joints
when you’re trying to get a date. I never know what age group I
should go after. Should I go for someone younger than me and if I do
will she be turned off by an older guy, and if I go for someone older
than me will she even be worth the trouble…you know…in the looks
department. Then I read The Modern Man and it occurred to me that if a
woman could take me for who I am despite my age and how I look, then I
should be able to return the favour. It’s a simple thing to judge
and say that we don’t, but it’s harder to live by the non-judgment
rule. It shocked me when I realized just how much I had in common with
women I never would have approached before. Once I adjusted how I
thought and was willing to open myself to new things and new people it
really brought home how many amazing women I would have never met if I
hadn’t changed my ways. - ROBERT PENNINGTON (47), SYDNEY, AUSTRALIA
GET YOUR COPY NOW FOR ONLY $39.99!
So what are you waiting for. Become the man you have always wanted to
be.
I guarantee it will be the best investment you have ever made.
Best Regards,
JOHN VAN PUTTEN
_THE MODERN MAN_
P.S. Buy now and and become the man you have always wanted to be.
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