Controlling Temper Tantrums in Older Children
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\"I'LL HELP YOU SOLVE AGGRESSIVE BEHAVIOR, LYING, AND STEALING!\"
_...AND I'LL HELP YOU DO IT IN AN UNDERSTANDING AND LOVING WAY THAT
PROMOTES TRUE HEALING!_
From: B. Bryan Post
Date: October 6, 2009
"Even children adopted as babies often display severe and
destructive behaviors. I was one of those kids."
Hi, my name is Bryan Post and I was adopted as an infant at four
months of age. My parents loved me and tried to raise me as best they
could but didn't know until I was an adult of the severe behaviors I
was displaying behind their backs. I was an expert at lying,
compulsively stealing, and even killed animals but everyone thought I
was the perfect kid--good grades and a star football player.
All the while I was suffering and doing things that could have
gotten me into major trouble. Deceiving my parents and teachers became
a way of life for me and it gave me a rush.
Of course, no one can live their whole life without natural
consequences for behaviors that severe. I was in college before I
began to realize how screwed up my life was and that something needed
to change.
Your child may be like me. You may be watching him destroy his life
as a teen or you may be recognizing the early signs children show when
they haven't attached to family members properly. Whatever the case,
you are looking for answers.
As you observe your child you know his life will never be what it
was meant to be unless you get help. She can never grow into the
fabulous person you see glimpses of until she decides to accept the
love of the people around her. But how do you, as her parent, get that
to happen?
I was asking myself these same questions as I studied social work so
I could help kids like me. I saw a system full of well meaning people
with solutions that simply weren't working. I was working with
families using traditional methods and I was frustrated by the
results.
I KNEW THERE HAD TO BE A BETTER WAY!
I started doing research and spent a lot of time sifting through
information, trying to figure out if my dream of helping traumatized
and adopted children could actually be a reality.
Could kids heal from the massive heart aches they had endured at
such early ages?
How could I help teens who were compulsively stealing?
How could I help toddlers who were unhappy nearly 100% of the
time--crying with no hope of being consoled?
What about children who were so anxious, they pooped their pants at
every transition? And what about their parents? Committed people who
wanted to love their children into healing but who had run out of
answers.
Every day I saw parents whose hearts were breaking for their kids
and who felt hopeless after years of therapy to no avail.
I wanted to find real, permanent solutions for these families.
I needed to figure out a way to help parents be avenues of therapy
for their own children.
I wanted to give teachers and therapists the tools to support these
parents on their journey and be a consistent support system for
families like these.
After reading the Great Behavior Breakdown, I found the ultimate
tool for my toolbox. This book covers all the toughest behaviors and
uses language that is easy to understand. I have recommended it to
numerous families and have received positive feedback about the
ease of implementing these tools as well as how helpful it is to
understand
the stress underlying the behavior. This is one of the most
helpful books I
