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NOW YOU CAN STOP YOUR BREAK UP OR DIVORCE AND GET YOUR EX BACK
EVEN IF YOU'RE THE ONLY ONE TRYING
You Can Get Your Love Back Often Within Hours
Even If Your Situation Seems Hopeless
Jason screwed up. He cheated on Jen, got caught and kicked out. He
felt like an idiot and wanted desperately to get back together. He
begged and pleaded with her to give him another chance. "It meant
nothing, it's you I really love!" But Jennifer said what most women in
this situation feel: "No Way, I can never trust you again." Both of
them were hurt and feeling miserable.
Jason had lost his love over a "meaningless" fling. He was desperate
for RELATIONSHIP ADVICE. Jen felt betrayed and could see no way to get
back to the feelings of love for her man. Was there any marriage help
for her?
Relationship breakups happen all the time for all kinds of reasons.
Cheating is one of the biggest causes, but it can be anything.
Constant fighting and arguing. One mate just "isn't that into" the
other one anymore. Or one of you is too controlling and the other
feels smothered. Whatever. Relationship problems lead to breakups.
But what if YOU CAN GET YOUR EX BACK, even for the worst of
transgressions? Using the information you're about to discover, Jason
made a specific kind of call to his soon-to-be ex wife
THAT TOOK LESS THAN TEN MINUTES.
In that one phone call something remarkable happened for Jen. She
actually began to feel like maybe she could trust him again. So they
got back together that same night. Yes, they still have some things to
work on, but they got back together because Jason learned something
about helping his ex move back towards trust.
What if _YOU_ could get your ex back? And in the process build a
stronger love relationship than you had before? It happens a lot, and
it can happen for you. What if you could move beyond ANY AND ALL past
mistakes made between you and get over a break up in hours?
My name is John Laney and I teach courses on Relationship and
Emotional Intelligence. I've written a book called _ HOW TO GET YOUR
LOVE BACK NOW_. The 7 Minute Reconnect Method Jason used is just one
of the powerful approaches you can learn to win back your ex.
What if your relationship ended over another huge problem -
your ex just isn't that into you?
The passion died away. Like when Mike told Debra "Things just aren't
the same anymore you're not The One for me" and walked out of her
life. Debra felt crushed. Another guy she really liked had dumped her.
Ouch! But what could she do when he just wasn't that into her?
Can you get your ex back when
they're just not that into you?
This kind of common relationship problem requires a whole different
approach than Jason needed with Jen. And its not hard to learn at all.
Debra made a different kind of call to Mike. Again,
IT TOOK LESS THAN TEN MINUTES.
She followed it up with a second call the next day and they were
back together and got over their breakup _within two days_. She and
Mike are now both back in love and having more fun than ever before.
You can learn exactly what she said in the call to win back his heart.
You see, relationships deal in Emotional Logic. Learn it, and you can
turn your ex back into your love.
Jason used some compelling Emotional Intelligence to get back with
Jen. The 7 Minute Reconnect Method that he used won't work for
everyone. Yet it's _perfect_ for some situations. It is powerful and
it will help you to move beyond mistakes with your ex much more
quickly.
Debra used a very different kind of Emotional Logic to get back with
Mike. Even after Mike said the dreaded words "Maybe we can still be
friends." And, she had A LOT OF FUN doing it.
I am going to tell you in this letter one of the first basic pieces
to winning back the love of your ex. But first, here is a short video
I put together on some relationship intelligence you can put to use
today in getting your ex back.
Next, please understand
IT'S NOT HOPELESS!
Look. If you are in the midst of a BREAK UP or DIVORCE, I know it's
a hard time. A BREAK UP is an _emotional hurricane_ of very difficult
feelings to deal with. Heartache. Sadness. Loneliness. Desperation. In
Jason's case guilt and shame and in Debra's case sadness and grief.
Break up's trigger some of the _worst feelings_ in our lives.
You can cry at the drop of a hat. Or see two lovers holding hands
and suddenly feel the weight of a bowling ball in your gut for what
you've lost. Hear a love song on the radio and feel crushing
heartache.
But what if you could WIN BACK YOUR EX? What if you could not only
begin to repair the damage but learn some simple methods to have more
love than ever before? What if you could STOP A DIVORCE dead in its
tracks with a 7 minute conversation? What if you could turn your ex
wife or ex husband into your lover again within hours?
But how?? Is there some secret recipe to making your ex want your
back? Is there some code proven by others that you could rush your
love back into your arms?
THE CODE CAN BE CALLED EQ.
EQ stands for Emotional Intelligence. Jason had a tough problem to
overcome, right? Cheating is one of the biggest relationship killers
in the world. He desperately wanted another chance, but Jen kept
saying she could never trust him again. What can you do if that's the
case? Man or woman - whether you wronged your mate or they wronged you
- learning some EQ will help you get your love back and stop your
break up or divorce.
YOU NEED EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE IF YOU ARE
Calling your ex ten times a day and leaving voice mails
Obsessing over what happened
Having a hard time thinking about anything else
Feeling drained of energy
Feeling hopeless, like nobody will ever love you again
Thinking about stalking and spying on them
Rehashing your last conversations endlessly
And, if you do talk to your ex, what if it gets no better, or even
worse? Does your ex girlfriend or ex boyfriend seem more distant or
angry or resolved to stay clear of you? That's okay, because
WE CAN MAKE A LOT OF MISTAKES DURING A BREAK UP, LIKE
* Tell our ex it's THEIR fault
* argue even louder and harder.
* try to avoid blame.
* beg and plead
* come across as totally desperate and needy.
* Try the "silent treatment"
* or get pushy and obnoxious.
Some friendly advice? Don't do those things or stop doing them.
They're bad Emotional Logic, and will drive your ex even further away!
Make Your Ex Want You Back With the 7 Minute Reconnect Method
Like I said, I teach Emotional and Relationship Intelligence
courses. And one of the first things that you learn coaching couples
is this: all relationships have breakdowns. You know what a breakdown
is - Fights, arguments, upsets, distancing. It's gonna happen in all
relationships.
Well, since millions of couples every day have breakdowns in their
relationship, many studies have been done to see what works and what
doesn't work when couples have problems. After all, there are lots of
opportunities to observe this, right?
And here's what the studies
on thousands of couples found!
Most people deal with breakdowns by doing one of two things. _They
either attack or withdraw_. Attackers (who aren't bad and are very
nice people usually) try to argue or _ dominate_ or manipulate their
mate into agreeing with them. Attackers are so uncomfortable with the
breakdown/upset they try to _ force their mate_ to see it their way.
"Retreaters" (who are also very nice people) have a whole different
strategy. They are so uncomfortable with the breakdown that they shut
down. Withdraw behind a wall of silence. Shut out their mate. They
come across as cold and distant.
Now we have all attacked and "retreated" in different arguments in
our lives. In some relationships, both of you retreat behind walls of
silence. The distance between you gets so vast and can feel so
uncross-able! And with some other couples, both of you attack and
argue until it seems that's all that you do. And some of us "attack"
by begging and pleading relentlessly with our ex.
But both attacking and
withdrawing are mistakes!
They keep the upset from being resolved! And, attacking and
withdrawing _BOTH_ damage the quality of the relationship. But if
you're like most people, you're stuck! You probably know that
attacking/forcing your ex won't get them back. Or you know that the
"silent treatment" and being cold and distant isn't working either.
WHAT ELSE CAN YOU DO?
Well, just as studies have figured out what doesn't work, there are
also several things people do to reconnect that do work. Saying "I'm
sorry" til you're blue in the face doesn't work, but saying "I'm
sorry" using the right Emotional Logic can work within minutes.
Three other important things have to happen first in an apology
for it to really work the way you want it to. And almost nobody gets
them right. Learning what to say before I'm sorry can allow you to be
back with your ex often within minutes or hours from now.
I've been studying and teaching about breakdowns in relationships
for years now. I've coached lots of people on how to reconnect and get
back together. And one of the most interesting things I've learned is
this: a few powerful conversations that take LESS THAN TEN MINUTES can
begin to get most couples past big problems.
Whether its cheating or being wronged or loss of passion and
boredom. Often times, just ten minutes of the right kind of Emotional
Logic can begin to win back your love. No begging or pleading. No
yelling or forcing. No more being cold and distant. The Emotional
Intelligence involved in getting your love back can be learned in
minutes from the book
How To Get Your
Love Back Now
Turning Your Break Up
Into a Breakthrough!
This book isn't about tricks and gimmicks like "bumping" into the ex
wife at the restaurant they're eating at or trying to make your ex
boyfriend jealous by acting like you have a new lover. Tricks and
gimmicks won't work in the long run. Trying to manipulate or trick
your ex to get back with you is a flimsy plan that will hurt your long
term.
Let's look at what's in How To
Get Your Love Back Now
and how it can help you:
THE 7 MINUTE RECONNECT METHOD. This is powerful. It gives you an
"almost unfair advantage." And you can learn it in just minutes and
put it to use today. Now, not all break ups can be repaired in 7
Minutes, but you've got to learn this essential tool whatever your
situation. (Begins on Page 10)
HOW TO REGAIN THEIR TRUST! If you cheated or in some other way
betrayed your girlfriend or boyfriend, and you're worried they'll
never be able to trust you again, you _MUST_ learn this. Most people
think it can take years, if ever, to rebuild trust, but you'll find
out it can be done within hours! (Page 13)
HOW TO GET OVER BEING WRONGED! Lots of lovers get betrayed by their
mates, and feel like they can't trust them ever again. Learn how to
give your ex a second chance and keep the same problem from ever
happening again.
(Page 23-28 tells you exactly how to accomplish this!)
WHAT TO DO IF THEY'RE JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU! This happens a lot in
relationships. Your partner gets bored or loses passion for you. They
just don't seem to be that into you any more. What can you do to turn
this around in just a few days? Not only is there lots you can do - it
can be some of the most fun you'll have too! (The Chapter beginning on
page 59 walks you through this easy and fun fix!)
THE IMMEDIATE RECONNECT STRATEGIES. The 7 Minute Reconnect Method
is just one of several that you can put to use today to get back with
your ex, depending on your particular situation. This section takes
you by the hand and walks you through exactly how to reconnect quickly
with your mate. Not a bunch of theory, just a practical "here's what
you say and do" to get your ex wanting your back.
WHAT IF THEY AREN'T RETURNING MY CALLS? How can you reconnect if
they refuse to talk to you? Find out exactly what you must do to deal
with this common problem.
(Page 33)
HOW TO STOP ALL THE FIGHTING AND ARGUING. That's what's driving you
apart. Learn two powerful skills to stop fighting at the source.
Before it begins, oftentimes. Discover how to make love not war with
your ex.
(Starts on Page 78)
WHAT IF THEY'RE SEEING SOMEONE ELSE? This is one of the most
challenging scenarios you can deal with. You want your ex back, but
they're dating someone else. This one technique on page 57 can
change your future.
SEX WITH THE EX! Make up sex is great, and this is a vital part of
your reconnect strategy. Yet men and women should deal with it
entirely differently. Find out how fast you should have sex with your
ex.
(Find out why on page 20)
THE GRADUAL RECONNECT STRATEGIES. Some relationships need time to
heal. Couples are obviously at different places in their relationship
breakdowns. Some may seem almost beyond repair or hope. Everyone has a
different story and situation they need to deal with. If the Immediate
Reconnect Strategies don't work for you fast, then these Gradual
Reconnect Strategies will get your ex back into your arms.
HOW TO STOP THE PAIN OF A BREAK UP! In a break up, both of you are
dealing with some of the heaviest emotional troubles you will ever
experience. How can you take care of yourself and start to feel better
immediately, today? How can you help your ex get over their bad
feelings? Learn this and in as little as two minutes a day you can
make heartache disappear. (Page 45)
HOW TO MAKE YOUR EX PURR WITH PLEASURE! Learn this amazing tool for
when you get back together. It takes just five minutes a day, and
you'll soon be hot for each other like you were in the beginning.
(Page 67)
WANT PROOF THAT IT WORKS?
I realize this might be starting to sound like some overhyped sales
pitch and you may be skeptical. Having worked with tons of couples, I
can honestly tell you that this is RELATIONSHIP ADVICE we all need.
I'm passionate about getting the word out. It does make a difference.
Everyone should have it. Hopefully someday it will be taught in
schools. But here's some "proof" from satisfied clients:
"GOT BACK TOGETHER LATER THE SAME DAY!"
"John, your course is golden! Got back together later the same day I
ordered your book. Thanks for making it so simple and easy. Your 7
Minute Reconnect Method makes sense and was easy to follow. Julie and
I are both back in love again!"
Hal May, San Diego, CA
(got back together in 7 hours)
"HE CHEATED ON ME AND YOU SAVED OUR MARRIAGE!"
"Thanks for helping me get my ex back! He cheated on me and I didn't
know how to get over it. I was so mad but so sad. What you told me to
do really worked. Thanks for showing me the light!"
Jen Davis, Lakewood, CO
(got back together in 2 days)
"STOPPED OUR DIVORCE..."
"John, what you taught me about relationships in just a few chapters
not only helped me get my EX WIFE back but now we're happier. I didn't
think anything could stop our divorce but this did it!"
Rob Pardee, Oaxaco, Mexico
(got ex back in 15 days)
"MY EX GOT BACK INTO ME BIG TIME!"
"My ex just wasn't that into me. I did what you said, and now he is
more into me than ever. And, just like you said, it was fun to do!
This should be on Oprah!"
Ardelle Johnson, Minot, North Dakota
(got ex back in 8 days)
Let me be clear. This is not about using some tricks or gimmicks to
try to manipulate THE EX into taking you back. Even if such things
worked, your relationship would be based on trickery and not Real
Love. Eventually it will fail.
This is about using your own Emotional Intelligence to get what you
both want and need in your relationship. The Emotional Logic necessary
to STOP YOUR BREAK UP or DIVORCE and make your mate want to hold you
close again is easy to learn. You can download the book in the next 2
minutes and use the 7 Minute Reconnect Method within one hour from
now! You'll love it, and so will your ex!
Frequently Asked Questions
about How To Get Your Love Back
WHAT DOES HOW TO GET YOUR LOVE BACK NOW COST?
The Relationship Intelligence skills you will learn in this book
COST $39. For the cost of a night out with your ex you can soon know
exactly how to get your love back. Given the emotional and financial
"costs" of a break up, give yourself a treat. You and your ex deserve
it.
WHAT IF YOUR STRATEGIES DON'T WORK FOR ME?
Good question. This book comes with a 60 day guarantee. You get 60
days to see if it works or doesn't. And if you read this book and
don't think it will work for you, you'll get a refund. No questions
asked. And, you'll have learned some powerful Emotional Logic for the
time you invested to read the book. You'll still have this powerful
knowledge to use for the rest of your life.
CAN I REALLY GET MY EX BACK IN 7 MINUTES?
Yes, you can, and you'll understand how within the first 15 pages of
the book. Many couples can get back together within minutes to several
hours after learning this technique. Other couples and situations will
take longer. Whatever your circumstances, you will find it covered in
this book.
WHEN WILL I RECEIVE THE HOW TO GET YOUR LOVE BACK NOW BOOK?
Immediately upon ordering. You will be able to download it in just
minutes and start putting it to use to win back your love. However, I
strongly advise that you read the whole book before using any of the
Immediate or Gradual Reconnect strategies. You need to understand how
they all can work together based on your individual situation to win
back the love of your life. But you can read the whole book in just
about an hour.
CAN'T I FIND YOUR INFORMATION FOR FREE ON THE NET?
Good question. Obviously, you are welcome to spend days trying to
research what might be out there. Unfortunately nothing I've found
even talks about the Emotional Logic you need to give yourself the
best chance to get your love back. And the 7 Minute Reconnect Method
is only available in this book.
WHAT IF WE BROKE UP A LONG TIME AGO? IS IT TOO LATE?
No. As you will see, in some cases it can even be easier for you to
reconnect. Your situation is FAR FROM HOPELESS. The techniques taught
in the Reconnect Strategies have still proven successful even after a
long break up or divorce.
"ORDER AND DOWNLOAD _HOW TO GET YOUR LOVE BACK NOW_. IF YOU ARE NOT
BACK TOGETHER WITH YOUR EX WITHIN 60 DAYSOR YOU ARE NOT ABSOLUTELY
DELIGHTED FOR ANY REASONYOU WILL RECEIVE A PROMPT AND COURTEOUS
REFUND."
Order now because every hour you wait might only have them drift
further apart from you. Time can be your biggest enemy. And you
deserve to spend the rest of your life with the person you love. You
deserve a second chance to make things right with your EX GIRLFRIEND
or EX BOYFRIEND.
So please, give yourself a treat. Do something great for both of
you. You do deserve it. There is absolutely no risk! Click the order
button below. Download How To Get Your Love Back Now. Learn the
incredible power of the 7 Minute Reconnect Method and use it today.
We weren't taught any
Relationship Intelligence in school.
P.S. It took me years to learn this stuff. You can learn it in
minutes. And if you're suffering from a break up shouldn't you know
some of the most powerful Emotional Intelligence techniques available
to GET BACK WITH YOUR EX GIRLFRIEND OR EX BOYFRIEND? People have used
Emotional logic to STOP A DIVORCE dead in its tracks, so this will
work for your situation too. Wouldn't you benefit for the rest of your
life if you knew clearly how to REPAIR A BROKEN RELATIONSHIP?
P.P.S. Here are some more of the comments I've gotten from happy
customers...
" MY HUSBAND CALLED OFF THE DIVORCE!"
He was so mad that I cheated on him, I thought he'd never get over
it, but after using your Trust Rebuilder he started to soften and now
things are looking much better.
Pauline
"WE HAVE A DATE FOR TOMORROW!"
I called him up, followed your advice step by step, and we're seeing
each other again tomorrow. Thanks one hundred million!
Sue
"WE ARE TALKING AGAIN!"
Your book was a lifesaver! It really helped me to know exactly what
to do. I thought she'd written me off completely but we talked for
over an hour last night. Things are looking good and I really thank
you!
Nathan
"IT TOOK 15 MINUTES NOT 7!"
Haha! You said your immediate reconnect strategy would work fast,
and I didn't believe it, but I'm not complaining! She accepted my deep
apology and invited me over last night.
Jason
"MY ATTITUDE IS MUCH BETTER AND HE NOTICED!"
You can get so down on yourself and weepy in a breakup. After
following your advice, I felt so much better and he noticed. He
actually suggested getting together for coffee next week. I didn't
have to push! I am so grateful.
Jo Ann
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